Pauses during oral *are* annoying, but they are understandable. During particularly long sessions, sometimes a dude just needs a break, just as girls would! However, the one that's really inexcusable for myself is going straight into things with no warm up. Additionally, even with a warm-up, just diving into the pussy and going at it really hard is annoying ESPECIALLY with oral. Sometimes it's like "Are you mad at my pussy? What's going on?"