Am i the only one?

I had no idea where it was until... 21.

Just gonna be honest. I was sexually repressed and all my boyfriends never let me feel pleasure or even get wet...

Hell, I still can't have a gspot O and I am 27

You're not alone. I know where my g-spot is (after a lot of feeling around), but I have yet to have a g-spot orgasm or get much pleasure from it most of the time. It can take a LOT of practice, time, and patience. Try doing some research if you haven't already. There are some guides here on EF for that, like this one. You could also try getting a g-spot dildo like the Ella or Bent Graduate, or maybe a g-spot vibrator. And make sure you're plenty turned on first.

YAY i'm not alone.. i still don't know what i should be feeling.. at all.. haha there are a few spots in there that feel differnt.. but never something that makes me go OH MY GOD you know.. ? sooo ya.. so maybe people are makeing to big of a deal about it? and i'm not?

Have patience, you have a whole lifetime to learn what works for you.

I just figured it out and I'm 24. A lot of my friends who are around my age haven't been able to have an orgasm at all. Everyone learns these things in their own time. In the meantime just explore, learn about your body, and have a (safe!) good time.

Deborah Sudahl's G-spot book was super helpful for me in terms of describing how it feels (to a finger) so you can located the G-spot. Keep in mind that FINDING it does not mean you'll be able to stimulate it, at least not right away. But it might help you just to know it's there.

I would recommend first getting a toy designed for G-spot stimulation. The vagina has the majority of its nerves within the first 2-3 inches inside. The G-spot is about 2-3 inches (varies per woman) on the inside, if you curve your finger towards your belly, you should find a small patch of spongey material. It will feel a little differen than the rest of your vaginal walls, in that it won't be a soft smooth touch, but rather a rigid area. One of the way I started having G-spot orgasms was to first go to the bathroom before playing (always should anyway, it helps prevent infection) The reason I say this is often times, right before you cum from a G-spot orgasm, it feels like you have to pee. And in order to tell yourself "I KNOW I don't have to pee, because I just did.. this has to be my g-spot building!" then it's easier to go potty first. Anyway, after enough stimulation, it will feel like your bladder is full and you have to pee. Don't stop stimulation or you're likely to miss that orgasm. Once pressure keeps building, you'll orgasm from it. It feels amazing, and honestly I've only recently gotten extremely good at it. But I prefer rabbit vibrators that have a metal bead rotation device towards the bottom, because if it will stimulate the first 2-3 inches, if I angle it to where the beads are rotating against the wall closest to my stomach, I know I'm hitting the g-spot. And everytime, it feels like I gotta pee!

I'm 24 and still searching...you're not alone, trust me!

Also 24 and still searching. I'm pretty sure I've found it, but I haven't had an orgasm from it yet. I'm thinking of investing in the Pure Wand this weekend. Don't get discouraged. You're not the only one.

My first orgasm was in my 20's, and I lost my virginity at 15.
I am now in my late 30's and to my surprise have just started having g-spot orgasms. It seems easier if you are REALLY worked up first, and then just have your partner apply different pressure in different spots (the come hither motion), and communicate with him...just experiment. I found that once the spot was found it was really about communicating what type of touch felt good. (AMAZING ACTUALLY) Was difficult for me to completely let go at first. Took awhile to just let go.

Also when he pressed on a spot that felt right, I pressed back from the outside, as if trying to touch his fingers. For some reason this really helped us pinpoint the spot.

thank you for all the help everyone. i read all your comments!

Don't worry..I'm 18 too and I only recently found mine. It will happen, girl!

I thought I was crazy for a long time. I never knew what a vaginal orgasm was. Always thought you were supposed to feel something like you do when you orgasm thru clitoral stimulation. Then, I found my G ... I watched a video I found online on how to make a girl squirt. <3

28- finally found it but I've only orgasm'd from it a handful of times and that's when I WASN'T trying. Luckily, there is plenty of time to look, explore, grow, and enjoy the ride!