Am i the only one?

mariah mariah
i seriously belive i have no found it yet... am i the only one? i'm not even shure what im suposed to be looking for "feeling" i know what a orgasim from the clit feels like but never had a "inside" orgasm.. help? this seems really inmature for me.. but i am only 18.. .should i be worried? i havnt found my g spot yet? or.. i dont even know what im suposed to be looking for... i feel alone in this...
12/08/2010
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Illusional Illusional
I had no idea where it was until... 21.

Just gonna be honest. I was sexually repressed and all my boyfriends never let me feel pleasure or even get wet...
12/08/2010
J's Alley J's Alley
Hell, I still can't have a gspot O and I am 27
12/08/2010
ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
You're not alone. I know where my g-spot is (after a lot of feeling around), but I have yet to have a g-spot orgasm or get much pleasure from it most of the time. It can take a LOT of practice, time, and patience. Try doing some research if you haven't already. There are some guides here on EF for that, like this one. You could also try getting a g-spot dildo like the Ella or Bent Graduate, or maybe a g-spot vibrator. And make sure you're plenty turned on first.
12/08/2010
mariah mariah
YAY i'm not alone.. i still don't know what i should be feeling.. at all.. haha there are a few spots in there that feel differnt.. but never something that makes me go OH MY GOD you know.. ? sooo ya.. so maybe people are makeing to big of a deal about it? and i'm not?
12/08/2010
Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by mariah
i seriously belive i have no found it yet... am i the only one? i'm not even shure what im suposed to be looking for "feeling" i know what a orgasim from the clit feels like but never had a "inside" orgasm.. help? this seems ... More
There are several other threads up about this issue, you are definitely NOT alone. If you can find one of the other threads and check out my post, I linked a video that is really incredible and will probably help you find your g spot within a couple days. Definitely try a toy designed for g-spotting and you can get some practice targeting it once you have found it.
12/08/2010
Taylor Taylor
Have patience, you have a whole lifetime to learn what works for you.

I just figured it out and I'm 24. A lot of my friends who are around my age haven't been able to have an orgasm at all. Everyone learns these things in their own time. In the meantime just explore, learn about your body, and have a (safe!) good time.
12/09/2010
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Deborah Sudahl's G-spot book was super helpful for me in terms of describing how it feels (to a finger) so you can located the G-spot. Keep in mind that FINDING it does not mean you'll be able to stimulate it, at least not right away. But it might help you just to know it's there.
12/09/2010
Midway through Midway through
I would recommend first getting a toy designed for G-spot stimulation. The vagina has the majority of its nerves within the first 2-3 inches inside. The G-spot is about 2-3 inches (varies per woman) on the inside, if you curve your finger towards your belly, you should find a small patch of spongey material. It will feel a little differen than the rest of your vaginal walls, in that it won't be a soft smooth touch, but rather a rigid area. One of the way I started having G-spot orgasms was to first go to the bathroom before playing (always should anyway, it helps prevent infection) The reason I say this is often times, right before you cum from a G-spot orgasm, it feels like you have to pee. And in order to tell yourself "I KNOW I don't have to pee, because I just did.. this has to be my g-spot building!" then it's easier to go potty first. Anyway, after enough stimulation, it will feel like your bladder is full and you have to pee. Don't stop stimulation or you're likely to miss that orgasm. Once pressure keeps building, you'll orgasm from it. It feels amazing, and honestly I've only recently gotten extremely good at it. But I prefer rabbit vibrators that have a metal bead rotation device towards the bottom, because if it will stimulate the first 2-3 inches, if I angle it to where the beads are rotating against the wall closest to my stomach, I know I'm hitting the g-spot. And everytime, it feels like I gotta pee!
12/09/2010
Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
Deborah Sudahl's G-spot book was super helpful for me in terms of describing how it feels (to a finger) so you can located the G-spot. Keep in mind that FINDING it does not mean you'll be able to stimulate it, at least not right away. But it ... More
Exactly what I was going to recommend. She is great, her book is awesome. It has helped me help my partner to give me better stimulation through fingering.
12/09/2010
cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
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Originally posted by mariah
i seriously belive i have no found it yet... am i the only one? i'm not even shure what im suposed to be looking for "feeling" i know what a orgasim from the clit feels like but never had a "inside" orgasm.. help? this seems ... More
I can't understand what you are typing. I thought someone showed you how to do the spell check? Seriously, I'm not trying to be mean. It gives me a headache trying to decipher your words.
12/09/2010
Lindz86 Lindz86
I'm 24 and still searching...you're not alone, trust me!
12/09/2010
Lucidity Lucidity
Also 24 and still searching. I'm pretty sure I've found it, but I haven't had an orgasm from it yet. I'm thinking of investing in the Pure Wand this weekend. Don't get discouraged. You're not the only one.
12/09/2010
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
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Originally posted by mariah
i seriously belive i have no found it yet... am i the only one? i'm not even shure what im suposed to be looking for "feeling" i know what a orgasim from the clit feels like but never had a "inside" orgasm.. help? this seems ... More
your only 18. most women dont reach their peak till late 20s. didnt get my first till 23. for most women its hard to achive and some never do.
12/09/2010
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
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Originally posted by mariah
YAY i'm not alone.. i still don't know what i should be feeling.. at all.. haha there are a few spots in there that feel differnt.. but never something that makes me go OH MY GOD you know.. ? sooo ya.. so maybe people are makeing to big of a ... More
its not something that you touch and omg. just like when you touch ur clit, ur gspot need constant stimulation as well.
12/09/2010
closed account closed account
My first orgasm was in my 20's, and I lost my virginity at 15.
I am now in my late 30's and to my surprise have just started having g-spot orgasms. It seems easier if you are REALLY worked up first, and then just have your partner apply different pressure in different spots (the come hither motion), and communicate with him...just experiment. I found that once the spot was found it was really about communicating what type of touch felt good. (AMAZING ACTUALLY) Was difficult for me to completely let go at first. Took awhile to just let go.

Also when he pressed on a spot that felt right, I pressed back from the outside, as if trying to touch his fingers. For some reason this really helped us pinpoint the spot.
12/09/2010
mariah mariah
thank you for all the help everyone. i read all your comments!
12/09/2010
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Don't worry..I'm 18 too and I only recently found mine. It will happen, girl!
01/05/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by Illusional
I had no idea where it was until... 21.

Just gonna be honest. I was sexually repressed and all my boyfriends never let me feel pleasure or even get wet...
Damn girl it's a wonder you didn't explode and kill some guy, messily! Never being allowed to get wet??!!?? Stupid asses didn't know what they were missing! A dry fuck is a terrible fuck, painful for both parties. I cannot imagine not wanting my partner to feel as much pleasure as they possibly can. I want them flooded, twisting the bed sheets and moaning me a song of pure pleasure. Your guys were just pricks...

No Mariah you aren't the only one with a shy G spot. Some are attention whores like mine and some like to be coaxed out into the open. Just relax and enjoy the search, as soon as your shy little bunny realizes there's no danger she'll come out to play. Seriously, though don't get all upset about it cause you'll just tense up and your spot will be harder to find.
01/06/2011
ATL Freak ATL Freak
I thought I was crazy for a long time. I never knew what a vaginal orgasm was. Always thought you were supposed to feel something like you do when you orgasm thru clitoral stimulation. Then, I found my G ... I watched a video I found online on how to make a girl squirt. <3
03/20/2011
THUMPER THUMPER
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Originally posted by J's Alley
Hell, I still can't have a gspot O and I am 27
I haven't had a G spot orgasm yet either...I'm 29.
03/23/2011
liilii080 liilii080
28- finally found it but I've only orgasm'd from it a handful of times and that's when I WASN'T trying. Luckily, there is plenty of time to look, explore, grow, and enjoy the ride!
03/23/2011
phunkyphreak phunkyphreak
I found it and did not even know at the time--I was just enjoying it, now I know it when I have one--Keep trying you will find it hopefully!
03/25/2011
gumbyD gumbyD
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Originally posted by mariah
i seriously belive i have no found it yet... am i the only one? i'm not even shure what im suposed to be looking for "feeling" i know what a orgasim from the clit feels like but never had a "inside" orgasm.. help? this seems ... More
It really helps if you have strong pelvic muscles. Might I suggest kegel exercises? Also, it seems to be on the top inside part of the vagina, only 2" inside, right after the pubic bone and before the cervix. It has a sort "rough" texture compared to the rest of the surronding tissue and it swells when one is aroused.
04/14/2011
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