Can't quite get there from G-spot stimulation--advice?

pasdechat pasdechat
It took me a long time to even find my G-spot, but once I did, I discovered that the clitoral orgasms I had been having got a lot stronger if I used an internal toy at the same time. I've never had a G-spot orgasm, though, and I'd like to experience one.

I do feel like I can get very close to orgasm from internal stimulation , but I always add a vibrator at the last minute. I get to the "need to pee" feeling and even a bit past it, but I have to thrust whatever toy I'm using pretty fast, and...my arm gets too tired to keep up. I also have a tendency to tense my legs before orgasming, so if I'm right on the cusp of climax and don't come, my legs can cramp up also. In any case, I have to keep stopping and starting, and eventually I get frustrated and just throw in the vibe to finish myself off. I feel like this is a weird problem to be having, but has anyone else encountered it? That it's just too difficult to keep up the stimulation long enough to orgasm? And if so, have you found any solutions?
06/05/2012
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Originally posted by pasdechat
It took me a long time to even find my G-spot, but once I did, I discovered that the clitoral orgasms I had been having got a lot stronger if I used an internal toy at the same time. I've never had a G-spot orgasm, though, and I'd like to ... More
This is very similar to my experience as well. I have never had a g-spot orgasm either. For a while it was important to me and I tried very often, and also worked on strengthing my pc muscles with kegel exersicises. I felt bad/inadequate that I hadn't had a g-spot orgasm or squirted, but now when I masturbate I just focus more on what brings me pleasure than creating a certian type of orgasm. I really enjoy the internal stimulation that the g-spot toys I have provide, but when I want to come I add clit stimulation.

I would love to hear other women share their experiences. I too would welcome any advice.
06/07/2012
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