So, I'm pretty sure I can find my g-spot with my toys and I'm sure my boyfriend has hit it several times. I've done research and read about the feeling for a g-spot orgasm and squirting, that it feels like pressure and like you have to pee. I get that feeling quiet often in solo play and with my partner. I've read that you just need to relax and let go or even push, but I find it so hard to be able to do so. I even tried in the shower just in case I did pee there wasn't a mess, but I just couldn't relax. I'm really getting at a loss of what to do because I would really like to experience this, not so much the squirting as it seems like it could get messy, but just a g-spot orgasm. Any advice?