G-spot orgasm? Squirting?

Contributor: sextoygeek sextoygeek
So, I'm pretty sure I can find my g-spot with my toys and I'm sure my boyfriend has hit it several times. I've done research and read about the feeling for a g-spot orgasm and squirting, that it feels like pressure and like you have to pee. I get that feeling quiet often in solo play and with my partner. I've read that you just need to relax and let go or even push, but I find it so hard to be able to do so. I even tried in the shower just in case I did pee there wasn't a mess, but I just couldn't relax. I'm really getting at a loss of what to do because I would really like to experience this, not so much the squirting as it seems like it could get messy, but just a g-spot orgasm. Any advice?
08/16/2010
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: Love Buzz Love Buzz
Its all about relaxation. If you are concerned about peeing, make sure you go beforehand, if your worried abut making a mess lay a towel down. If you take care of all those little worries it will make it easier for you to relax.

Also being able to contract your pelvic muscles whilst your g spot is being massaged can help, or at least thats how I managed to discover the joys of g spot orgasms
08/16/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Relaxing is important. If you pee beforehand it shouldn't be a problem. Hydration also helps and is necessary.
I also discovered that an NJoy butt plug in my ass causes my vaginal wall to more taut and just makes my g spot so much more ready for stimulation and sometimes ejaculation.
And yes; the first time U will feel like U are peeing but it is not pee...feel it, smell it and even taste it. It is very similar to a guys pre-cum and like even a light lube. Good luck!!
08/16/2010
Contributor: PolyGirl PolyGirl
You can try providing even more vigorous stimulation. If when you feel that feeling, the g-spot is stimulated even more, you may not be able to help squirting whether you are relaxed about it or not. I don't really think it's that big of a deal, though, to me, it doesn't feel better or worse than other orgasms, just a little messier after.
08/16/2010
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
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Originally posted by Liz2
Relaxing is important. If you pee beforehand it shouldn't be a problem. Hydration also helps and is necessary.
I also discovered that an NJoy butt plug in my ass causes my vaginal wall to more taut and just makes my g spot so much more ready ... more
Huh. See, my ejaculate has no lubrication properties, is not at all like a light lube. It actually makes things less lubricated and we have to add more bottled lube every time it happens.

I agree with relaxing, though!

Don't think about it, don't worry about it, just do what feels good and if it happens, it happens!
08/16/2010
Contributor: sextoygeek sextoygeek
Thanks, I'll give it all a try again and see what happens.
08/16/2010