Ran into my first really oceanic squirt tonight & I'm wondering how people react to being gushed all over. Since I'm straight & guys don't always know a lot about female stuff, I wondered what type of experiences people have had with this. I'd hate to have a guy leap up mid-coitus going "OMG! You peed on me!" Should I be explaining this ahead of time or something? LoL
How Did/Will You React If Your (female) Partner "Squirts"/Ejaculates on You?
How Did/Will You React If Your (female) Partner "Squirts"/Ejaculates on You?
I'm a girl, so I'm not filling out the vote... but oh my gosh. It can vary widely.
The first time I squirted was totally unexpected---it was just a guy friend (we'd been lovers the past summer, but were platonic during the summer in question, until he asked if I wanted to come over so he could practice some technique.) I guess he probably knew what he was doing (it was just manual stimulation, a few fingers inside me) but when I squirted, he was totally shocked and ran off to the bathroom for towels. I was shocked and embarrassed---I knew what squirting was obviously, but I was like "oh my gosh, he just ran away, maybe he doesn't know it's not pee?" So sheepishly tried to explain to him, he sheepishly answered that he knew already... he was totally an "everything in its place, nothing dirty" sort of person, excellent with design and programming of course, but you could tell it really upset him to have his bed be wet. So we cleaned up and went to the kitchen and made dinner, awkwardly talked about small things, and I walked home.
The next time we hung out (platonically again, obviously) we just never mentioned it.
So, I felt all uneasy and was like "wow, I hope that never happens again."
Except that I tried to get myself to do it so I could figure it out... no success.
My current partner, I was kind of shocked again that he got me to squirt just from PIV sex a week or two after we started sleeping together---but in the afterglow I was like "so that was new," and he was like "yeah, it's cool, I get tactile proof that I'm good to you." I asked if it was usual and he said a good amount of his past partners had squirted, so a) his cock is perfect and b) he wasn't surprised or taken aback.
I've gone on to learn a lot about my body and its responses now, so if I ever was to shack up with a new partner I'd ask how they felt about squirting somewhere in the lead-up to sex, and if they were uncomfortable or uneducated I'd either decide not to have sex, or I'd just focus on him and keep my own panties on. I don't really want a repeat of that first time...
The first time I squirted was totally unexpected---it was just a guy friend (we'd been lovers the past summer, but were platonic during the summer in question, until he asked if I wanted to come over so he could practice some technique.) I guess he probably knew what he was doing (it was just manual stimulation, a few fingers inside me) but when I squirted, he was totally shocked and ran off to the bathroom for towels. I was shocked and embarrassed---I knew what squirting was obviously, but I was like "oh my gosh, he just ran away, maybe he doesn't know it's not pee?" So sheepishly tried to explain to him, he sheepishly answered that he knew already... he was totally an "everything in its place, nothing dirty" sort of person, excellent with design and programming of course, but you could tell it really upset him to have his bed be wet. So we cleaned up and went to the kitchen and made dinner, awkwardly talked about small things, and I walked home.
The next time we hung out (platonically again, obviously) we just never mentioned it.
So, I felt all uneasy and was like "wow, I hope that never happens again."
Except that I tried to get myself to do it so I could figure it out... no success.
My current partner, I was kind of shocked again that he got me to squirt just from PIV sex a week or two after we started sleeping together---but in the afterglow I was like "so that was new," and he was like "yeah, it's cool, I get tactile proof that I'm good to you." I asked if it was usual and he said a good amount of his past partners had squirted, so a) his cock is perfect and b) he wasn't surprised or taken aback.
I've gone on to learn a lot about my body and its responses now, so if I ever was to shack up with a new partner I'd ask how they felt about squirting somewhere in the lead-up to sex, and if they were uncomfortable or uneducated I'd either decide not to have sex, or I'd just focus on him and keep my own panties on. I don't really want a repeat of that first time...
11/11/2011
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Lucky you!
Originally posted by
Antipova
I'm a girl, so I'm not filling out the vote... but oh my gosh. It can vary widely.
The first time I squirted was totally unexpected---it was just a guy friend (we'd been lovers the past summer, but were platonic during the summer in question, ...
The first time I squirted was totally unexpected---it was just a guy friend (we'd been lovers the past summer, but were platonic during the summer in question, ...
I'm a girl, so I'm not filling out the vote... but oh my gosh. It can vary widely.
The first time I squirted was totally unexpected---it was just a guy friend (we'd been lovers the past summer, but were platonic during the summer in question, until he asked if I wanted to come over so he could practice some technique.) I guess he probably knew what he was doing (it was just manual stimulation, a few fingers inside me) but when I squirted, he was totally shocked and ran off to the bathroom for towels. I was shocked and embarrassed---I knew what squirting was obviously, but I was like "oh my gosh, he just ran away, maybe he doesn't know it's not pee?" So sheepishly tried to explain to him, he sheepishly answered that he knew already... he was totally an "everything in its place, nothing dirty" sort of person, excellent with design and programming of course, but you could tell it really upset him to have his bed be wet. So we cleaned up and went to the kitchen and made dinner, awkwardly talked about small things, and I walked home.
The next time we hung out (platonically again, obviously) we just never mentioned it.
So, I felt all uneasy and was like "wow, I hope that never happens again."
Except that I tried to get myself to do it so I could figure it out... no success.
My current partner, I was kind of shocked again that he got me to squirt just from PIV sex a week or two after we started sleeping together---but in the afterglow I was like "so that was new," and he was like "yeah, it's cool, I get tactile proof that I'm good to you." I asked if it was usual and he said a good amount of his past partners had squirted, so a) his cock is perfect and b) he wasn't surprised or taken aback.
I've gone on to learn a lot about my body and its responses now, so if I ever was to shack up with a new partner I'd ask how they felt about squirting somewhere in the lead-up to sex, and if they were uncomfortable or uneducated I'd either decide not to have sex, or I'd just focus on him and keep my own panties on. I don't really want a repeat of that first time...
The first time I squirted was totally unexpected---it was just a guy friend (we'd been lovers the past summer, but were platonic during the summer in question, until he asked if I wanted to come over so he could practice some technique.) I guess he probably knew what he was doing (it was just manual stimulation, a few fingers inside me) but when I squirted, he was totally shocked and ran off to the bathroom for towels. I was shocked and embarrassed---I knew what squirting was obviously, but I was like "oh my gosh, he just ran away, maybe he doesn't know it's not pee?" So sheepishly tried to explain to him, he sheepishly answered that he knew already... he was totally an "everything in its place, nothing dirty" sort of person, excellent with design and programming of course, but you could tell it really upset him to have his bed be wet. So we cleaned up and went to the kitchen and made dinner, awkwardly talked about small things, and I walked home.
The next time we hung out (platonically again, obviously) we just never mentioned it.
So, I felt all uneasy and was like "wow, I hope that never happens again."
Except that I tried to get myself to do it so I could figure it out... no success.
My current partner, I was kind of shocked again that he got me to squirt just from PIV sex a week or two after we started sleeping together---but in the afterglow I was like "so that was new," and he was like "yeah, it's cool, I get tactile proof that I'm good to you." I asked if it was usual and he said a good amount of his past partners had squirted, so a) his cock is perfect and b) he wasn't surprised or taken aback.
I've gone on to learn a lot about my body and its responses now, so if I ever was to shack up with a new partner I'd ask how they felt about squirting somewhere in the lead-up to sex, and if they were uncomfortable or uneducated I'd either decide not to have sex, or I'd just focus on him and keep my own panties on. I don't really want a repeat of that first time...
11/11/2011
One partner could get me to, my ex. I have never been able to get myself to with any toy or anything. The first time I didn't know what happened, I just thought I had a really hard orgasm. I heard him gasp or get flustered somehow and then seemed to go crazy and was more turned on than I'd ever seen him and he immediately had sex with me. It was amazing.
He told me what happened and said it was crazy and he wasn't upset and has heard about it and had seen it in porn but it looked fake, and that it was the hottest thing ever. He loved it. After that it kind of became his goal to try to get me to that point every time. Didn't always happen, but when it did..wow.
He told me what happened and said it was crazy and he wasn't upset and has heard about it and had seen it in porn but it looked fake, and that it was the hottest thing ever. He loved it. After that it kind of became his goal to try to get me to that point every time. Didn't always happen, but when it did..wow.
11/11/2011
Thanks all. I guess guys are getting more educated these days. (Yay porn?) Also, age is probably a factor - I'm not sleeping with 18-year-olds who haven't figured out where things are yet. Haha.
I know I've had a lot of guys find my being really wet a turn-on. Just wasn't sure how they'd react to a sudden gush. I suppose if it is a concern I'll just warn them, but I'm glad to hear no one has had a bad experience with a partner leaping up and running away!
I know I've had a lot of guys find my being really wet a turn-on. Just wasn't sure how they'd react to a sudden gush. I suppose if it is a concern I'll just warn them, but I'm glad to hear no one has had a bad experience with a partner leaping up and running away!
11/11/2011
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Yeah, right? The guy who leapt up and ran for the bathroom when he made me squirt was 25 at the time, I was 21 or 22!
Originally posted by
LeighQ
Thanks all. I guess guys are getting more educated these days. (Yay porn?) Also, age is probably a factor - I'm not sleeping with 18-year-olds who haven't figured out where things are yet. Haha.
I know I've had a lot of guys find my being ...
I know I've had a lot of guys find my being ...
Thanks all. I guess guys are getting more educated these days. (Yay porn?) Also, age is probably a factor - I'm not sleeping with 18-year-olds who haven't figured out where things are yet. Haha.
I know I've had a lot of guys find my being really wet a turn-on. Just wasn't sure how they'd react to a sudden gush. I suppose if it is a concern I'll just warn them, but I'm glad to hear no one has had a bad experience with a partner leaping up and running away!
I know I've had a lot of guys find my being really wet a turn-on. Just wasn't sure how they'd react to a sudden gush. I suppose if it is a concern I'll just warn them, but I'm glad to hear no one has had a bad experience with a partner leaping up and running away!
Only I know he knew what he was doing (or attempting to do, anyway...)---he just wasn't expecting to get it right so quickly. And he's too much of a neat freak to have a lot of fun, anyway
11/11/2011
I only recently started squirting, but I had an awesome night the other day.
**Warning TMI
I ended up squirting 6 times, and it was a lot too. It covered from my breast to my ankles(about 3.5ft) and from knee to knee which was spread about 1.5ft apart. It was amazing.
Anyhow after this happening we are getting some kind of throe blanket because I soaked the bed.
I think you might want to warn a guy before having sex, just in case. If he is a new partner, so he knows that you are a juicy one, he may not be use to it happening.
Congrats by the way on squirting
**Warning TMI
I ended up squirting 6 times, and it was a lot too. It covered from my breast to my ankles(about 3.5ft) and from knee to knee which was spread about 1.5ft apart. It was amazing.
Anyhow after this happening we are getting some kind of throe blanket because I soaked the bed.
I think you might want to warn a guy before having sex, just in case. If he is a new partner, so he knows that you are a juicy one, he may not be use to it happening.
Congrats by the way on squirting
11/11/2011
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Holy crap, woman! That's just impressive. *bows before you*
Originally posted by
beck
I only recently started squirting, but I had an awesome night the other day.
**Warning TMI
I ended up squirting 6 times, and it was a lot too. It covered from my breast to my ankles(about 3.5ft) and from knee to knee which was spread about ...
**Warning TMI
I ended up squirting 6 times, and it was a lot too. It covered from my breast to my ankles(about 3.5ft) and from knee to knee which was spread about ...
I only recently started squirting, but I had an awesome night the other day.
**Warning TMI
I ended up squirting 6 times, and it was a lot too. It covered from my breast to my ankles(about 3.5ft) and from knee to knee which was spread about 1.5ft apart. It was amazing.
Anyhow after this happening we are getting some kind of throe blanket because I soaked the bed.
I think you might want to warn a guy before having sex, just in case. If he is a new partner, so he knows that you are a juicy one, he may not be use to it happening.
Congrats by the way on squirting
**Warning TMI
I ended up squirting 6 times, and it was a lot too. It covered from my breast to my ankles(about 3.5ft) and from knee to knee which was spread about 1.5ft apart. It was amazing.
Anyhow after this happening we are getting some kind of throe blanket because I soaked the bed.
I think you might want to warn a guy before having sex, just in case. If he is a new partner, so he knows that you are a juicy one, he may not be use to it happening.
Congrats by the way on squirting
I'm already thinking about a Throe just from seeing what happened from my one. Soaked through the towel under me & all my bed covers.
I was actually just asking about the amount of liquid issue in this thread as I had a new experience last night. (You can read the post there if you want, but basically discovered there is a whole other level of squirting beyond what I'd had previously! The word "squirt" hadn't properly conveyed to me the actual possibility of puddles.)
Yes, I think I'll institute a warning policy to avoid awkwardness. Hehe.
And thank you! I'm still kinda going "Huh?" about the whole thing. LoL.
Oh... sorry, all, about forgetting to put an "I'm the squirting one" option in the poll. Thanks for being nice enough to elaborate anyway.
11/11/2011
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Good to the last DROP. Visa verca. She knows that as a man I am going to cum. But if she does. That is a bonus for me. The X2B came thousands of times as my fingers and 99% of the time my tongue awaiting any flow. That is what a partner does for their partner. In Pittsburgh, I await another partner.
Originally posted by
LeighQ
Ran into my first really oceanic squirt tonight & I'm wondering how people react to being gushed all over. Since I'm straight & guys don't always know a lot about female stuff, I wondered what type of experiences people have had with this. I'd hate
...
Ran into my first really oceanic squirt tonight & I'm wondering how people react to being gushed all over. Since I'm straight & guys don't always know a lot about female stuff, I wondered what type of experiences people have had with this. I'd hate to have a guy leap up mid-coitus going "OMG! You peed on me!" Should I be explaining this ahead of time or something? LoL
11/11/2011
It hasn't happened to me yet. Though I've been trying a lot to find my partner's G-spot. (That is, if she turns out to be receptive to it at all!)
I really wouldn't mind, at that. I'd only enjoy giving my lady pleasure, like I always do.
(and really, in almost every sexual scenario the guy ends up leaving some fluids in/on the woman; so be thankful it doesn't happen as often if you have a problem with it!)
I really wouldn't mind, at that. I'd only enjoy giving my lady pleasure, like I always do.
(and really, in almost every sexual scenario the guy ends up leaving some fluids in/on the woman; so be thankful it doesn't happen as often if you have a problem with it!)
11/14/2011
I have squirted before, but not in mass amounts. Last night we used the Bent Graduate for the first time, and I squirted MUCH more than I ever have. I was blown away, and so was my man. It wasn't as much as Beck, but it was a 5" by 8" spot that soaked through the sex blanket AND comforter of the bed. (I could wring them both out, they were so soaked!) He thought it was insanely hot, and I liked it because I didn't have to clean any lube off myself afterwards, the gushing had washed it all away! lol
11/14/2011
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