I am pretty sure I don't have a g-spot :-(

I think you are in the majority. I think every woman does have a g spot but I don't think they all get sensation out of it. I haven't slept with 100 women or anything but almost all of the women I've been with orgasm from oral and not actual sex or the g spot. You aren't going to find many people raving about how they can't find their g spot but the few who can are going to tell everybody.

Don't worry about it, you are perfectly normal. There isn't a certain way to have sex, you do what gets you the most pleasure and satisfying experience and like who cares what other people think.

I don't really know anyone that doesn't have one but I do know a woman women that just doesn't enjoy g-spot stimulation. I don't mean that they can't orgasm from it, I mean they really dislike the sensation. I think what's important is that you know what does and doesn't work for you and that you're able to enjoy yourself.

It took me about 9-10 months after I joined Eden last year to find mine and be able to arouse it when I want to. I had finally given up looking for it and started just enjoying the sessations when I had them, now I enjoy G-spot O's and even had a squirting one!

I haven't been able to locate mine. It's either out of reach for my fingers, or just not sensitive enough.

But no biggie. I can still enjoy internal sensation with one of my textured glass dildos, and when I pair it with my clitoral vibe, I get a lovely orgasm.

I've decided not to worry about my g-spot. Otherwise trying to find it and have a g-spot orgasm is just work. I don't want my orgasm to be work.

According to my current knowledge the so-called g-spot is the female counterpart to a man's prostate. (e.g. female ejaculate contains small amounts of PSA, the prostate-specific antigen)

So I obviously cannot tell you my experience but maybe there are similarities to a man's ability to have prostate orgasms.

Not every man experiences prostate play as sensual. Most men really worry of having the prostate checked or ultrasounded. Some even describe the examination as painful.

So if a man is not able to get enjoyment there is a path of 'awakening' the prostate with much, much relaxation and gentle massage. Some tantrics and other bodyworkers even say that men store trauma there and have to transform it during bodywork and then being able to experience that joy of an awakened p-spot.

I did a long run with my p-spot, with aneros, relaxation and stuff and finally managed to awaken this sensual wires (which sent me out of space during prostate ultrasound once).

Finally my experience is that this arousal and sexuality is completely different from the usual one, it's difficult to describe. If a usual orgasm is like juping up then a p-spot one is like drivin in a halfpipe.