I can never seem to orgasm without clitoral stimulation, is that normal?

Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
I can never seem to orgasm through just penetration. I've always needed some kind of clitoral stimulation to orgasm.
I know where my g-spot is. It's very sensitive. Having things rubbing against it makes me very uncomfortable instead of being turned on. When I am very horny, it gets more enjoyable. It's however never enough stimulation for me to orgasm.
Anyone have similar experiences as me? I really want to achieve orgasm through penetration alone. Anyone have any suggestions.
10/22/2011
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: Ghost Ghost
That is normal. Women who have a "large" space between their clitoris and vaginal opening tend not to orgasm from penetration alone (although it happens, and I feel that it has a lot to do with state of mind rather than physical stimulation).
10/23/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife was probably in her 30s before she had an orgasm that did not involve clitoral stimulation. Even now most of her orgasms are blended - including both g-spot or a-spot with clitoral.
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Contributor: EJ EJ
I'm the same way. I almost always need clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm.
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Contributor: Epicurean Epicurean
It's definitely totally normal and a lot of other women are the same way (including me). There's no rule that says you have to cum from straight penetration
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Contributor: Do emu Do emu
Yep! Totally normal. I've never orgasmed from pure g spot stimulation.
05/18/2012
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
My orgasms are all clitoral, even though my G-spot loves attention. I've had all of one G-spot orgasm, using a vibrator for over an hour, and looking back I find myself not entirely sure if it happened or not, since it was a rather low-key 'gasm.
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Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
You're perfectly normal!
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