Learning to orgasm?

link82 link82
If a woman is only able to orgasm by clitoral stimulation, do you think it is possible to "teach" yourself how to have a g-spot orgasm with practice, experience, and the right toys and/ or partner?
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Yes, it's definitely possible!
116  (71%)
Maybe, I'm not sure.
41  (25%)
Probably not possible.
1  (1%)
Definitely not possible!
Other (please explain)
5  (3%)
Total votes: 163
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05/26/2011
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ToyGurl ToyGurl
It really depends on the person. I say it is possible, but I know women who are 40-50 and still have never even figured out an orgasm in general.
05/27/2011
big b big b
dont know.my wife has tried but know luck.
05/27/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Sure - you may not remember but you had to learn how to achieve a clitoral orgasm - so it stands to reason that you'll have to learn how to have a g-spot or a-spot orgasm. Granted it takes more effort - but the rewards are definitely worth it.
05/27/2011
REDRUM REDRUM
Yes! I had to learn how to have a clitoral orgasm in the very beginning of everything, and I just recently figured out the g-spot! It takes a lot of practice and research, especially for those of us with deep g-spots. It's definitely possible!
05/27/2011
SamsDelight SamsDelight
I have no clue. I am still working on the g-spot one but as good as everyone says I will keep trying.
05/27/2011
indiglo indiglo
Sure you can! You can always learn about your body and how to use those muscles to achieve g-spot orgasms. And the practice is fun too! I would say start off finding it yourself and playing with it a little just to discover where it is and how the stimulation feels. Then, once you find it and know how it feels, your partner can step in and help. For me, I had to use a toy rather than my fingers, because it's really hard for me to get my arm/hand at just the right angle. You also will have to figure out what kind of stimulation works best for you - some women like very firm pressure, or vigorous thrusting, or a combination of the 2 or even something totally different. Then you can find out if you prefer dual stimulation or 1 area at a time... or anything else.
05/28/2011
Anjulie Anjulie
I think it is definitely possible, hasnt happened for me yet. But i am trying, hopefully soon
05/28/2011
Rossie Rossie
It's definitely possible. You just need to locate your G-spot, put your/your partner's fingers to work on your G-spot, and use a good quality G-spot toy. I'm sure you will get orgasms in no time! And of course, getting your partner to perform oral on your clit in addition to the above will make it 10 times better!
05/28/2011
ss143 ss143
I def think its possible you just need to experiment and practice
05/29/2011
Caprieclipse Caprieclipse
yea def possible, just takes a bit of exploring on what feels better and lots of practice
05/30/2011
Inwitari Inwitari
Yes, it's definitely possible. It just requires the person to be in the right state of mind.
05/30/2011
Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
Yes, I think it possible.
06/11/2011
csweatc csweatc
It's definitely possible. I think the same is true for Pspots, and the big factor that a lot of people don't mention is the mental component. Thinking that something is supposed to happen or feel a certain way can inhibit a G or Pspot orgasm. The fact is that these types of orgasms feel quite a bit different than clitoral or penis orgasms, and so the ability to let go of expectations based on those types of orgasms is important.
06/26/2011
lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie
Just keep experimenting/practici ng. Your partner can help, my hubby helped me find mine.
07/04/2011
N&M N&M
my wife mostly orgasms by clit stimulation
08/09/2011
ijako9 ijako9
I don't see why not
09/02/2011
KrazyKandy KrazyKandy
I think anyone can learn.
10/12/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
If a woman is only able to orgasm by clitoral stimulation, do you think it is possible to "teach" yourself how to have a g-spot orgasm with practice, experience, and the right toys and/ or partner?
Yes, I think everybody can.
10/22/2011
carenautilus carenautilus
Very few women can orgasm without any clitoral stimulation, but it's definitely possible to have stronger, ore intense orgasms by adding g-spot stimulation to clitoral stimulation. There can be a social pressure on women to come just from vaginal and g-spot stimulation that troubles me. I've met men who are offended when their partner can't orgasm from just intercourse, as if their partners' bodies were defective. Not cool.

On the other hand, if you're just curious about the reports of g-pot orgasms being stronger, I definitely recommend adding g-spot toys in with your normal routine, and have fun!
10/22/2011
AmberM AmberM
I used to only be able to have clitoral orgasms, but with practice i've been able to have G-spot orgasms.
10/23/2011
LAndJ LAndJ
I feel like you could.
12/03/2011
Collogue Collogue
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
If a woman is only able to orgasm by clitoral stimulation, do you think it is possible to "teach" yourself how to have a g-spot orgasm with practice, experience, and the right toys and/ or partner?
It sure worked for me though I'm still perfecting it
12/05/2011
dawnkye dawnkye
Gosh, I hope it is possible. I can't yet, but sometime it feels so close!
12/05/2011
lost686girl lost686girl
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
If a woman is only able to orgasm by clitoral stimulation, do you think it is possible to "teach" yourself how to have a g-spot orgasm with practice, experience, and the right toys and/ or partner?
i hope it is because i'm trying to right now!
12/06/2011
CarnoleBella CarnoleBella
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
If a woman is only able to orgasm by clitoral stimulation, do you think it is possible to "teach" yourself how to have a g-spot orgasm with practice, experience, and the right toys and/ or partner?
I am working on that process. I have always only had clitoral stimulated orgasm. I am trying to explore the g-spot in order to get the full experience.
12/28/2011
CarnoleBella CarnoleBella
Quote:
Originally posted by lost686girl
i hope it is because i'm trying to right now!
Me too lol. Well, not literally RIGHT now but I'm on that path.
12/28/2011
sexydelphia sexydelphia
i think you can learn
01/02/2012
Puss in Boots Puss in Boots
For sure! I didn't have this specific experience, but I have learned all kinds of things, some without really even trying.
01/08/2012
punkstar283 punkstar283
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
If a woman is only able to orgasm by clitoral stimulation, do you think it is possible to "teach" yourself how to have a g-spot orgasm with practice, experience, and the right toys and/ or partner?
Its doable
01/08/2012
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