Squirting question for the ladies

BrokeNHorny BrokeNHorny
I've been trying, with mild success to get my partner to squirt. I've had success with g spot stimulation, but nothing surefire. Does clitoral stimulation help in any way, or detract from it? Any other suggestions and tips would be appreciated as well. Thanks!
05/22/2009
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DreamyLove DreamyLove
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Originally posted by BrokeNHorny
I've been trying, with mild success to get my partner to squirt. I've had success with g spot stimulation, but nothing surefire. Does clitoral stimulation help in any way, or detract from it? Any other suggestions and tips would be ... More
When I want to squirt, hard and fast thrusting against my g-spot usually does the trick and I produce a fair amount of squirt. Other times it's been a torrid fingering performed by my boyfriend or oddly enough, a gentle g spot massage. I've heard women can squirt
05/22/2009
DreamyLove DreamyLove
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Originally posted by DreamyLove
When I want to squirt, hard and fast thrusting against my g-spot usually does the trick and I produce a fair amount of squirt. Other times it's been a torrid fingering performed by my boyfriend or oddly enough, a gentle g spot massage. I've ... More
Argh! Submitted before I was done...I've heard women can squirt through g-spot and clit stimulation combo, or clit stim alone, but I haven't tried that yet.
05/22/2009
Renewing Desire Renewing Desire
Hard fast clitoral stimulation works for me by itself, but usually some G-spot stimulation gets mixed in the middle and the clitoral is just the grand finale for a wet finish. I don't know that I've squirted through G-spot alone with a toy...with most insertable toys it feels more like they block the outlet, so to speak.

During sex though it's a different story - a penis (at least the only one I've seen in a while ^_-) is meant to hit the g-spot, and I have made all sorts of messes through that alone. It usually takes a certain kind of thrust to hit it though (for me missionary works best, usually with one or both legs up and over his shoulders), and it's the right spot when I suddenly flush and get all warm, and I feel myself want to contract.

They each have a different quality to them. Short answer, it might help for some, but it certainly helps for me. Excitement and relaxation are both key, so if clitoral gets your partner more excited, definitely go for it.
05/23/2009
Tuesday Tuesday
So every woman is different it seems. I find that if I try to add clitoral stimulation while I'm using a g-spot toy, the clitoral sensation takes over and there will be no squirting. However, its good to start with clitoral stimulation as a warm up, then switch to the g-spot. That's the best strategy for me.
05/23/2009
Snappy Snappy
Warm her up well. Be sure that she is relaxed and sitting or lying on an absorbent surface like a Fascinator throe or a few towels. I suggest rubbing some Intimate Organics Discover G-spot Gel on her g-spot, then giving her some oral sex or manual stimulation until she's having orgasms. Then, go on in with your finger (come hither motion). Then put some Discover gel on a g-spot dildo like LELO Ella and gently stimulate her gspot. Some people like firm pressure while others appreciate a light touch. Ella is more or less foolproof because it finds the gspot by itself and is firm enough to apply strong pressure if desired.
05/23/2009
Luscious Lily Luscious Lily
I'm one of those strange women who almost never squirts from g-spot stimulation. When I squirt, it's usually from the kind of hard, fast clitoral stimulation that makes a long, screaming, thrashing, arching, never-ending orgasms (I usually don't squirt until a few orgasms in though). If there's some vaginal or g-spot stimulation in there, great. If a penis gets in the way of the stream, then it doesn't go very far. The key with me seems to be intensity and duration of the orgasm: it's gotta be earth-shaking, and it usually has to last at least a minute before the tsunami hits. If I've started speaking in tongues, you're on the right track.

Unfortunately, as you can see, women vary greatly in what gets them squirting, from g-spot only (hard or soft) to clitoral only, and everything in between. Just experiment, and aim for what makes her feel the best. If it doesn't make her squirt, at least she had a heck of a great time. If it does work, take notes (with a waterproof pen!); you may have just found her special combo. Have fun figuring it out!
05/23/2009
Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by Luscious Lily
I'm one of those strange women who almost never squirts from g-spot stimulation. When I squirt, it's usually from the kind of hard, fast clitoral stimulation that makes a long, screaming, thrashing, arching, never-ending orgasms (I usually ... More
I ejaculate from g spot stimulation but not every time and only after a clitoral driven orgasm or two.
Relaxation, mood and time are all so much part of the encounter.
05/26/2009
Naughty Student Naughty Student
When I am masturbating I usually get a clitoral orgasm or two before stimulating my g-spot with a dildo and even if sometimes I would like to squirt I do not, I guess it depends on many things. Usually I need clitoral vibes at the same time as g-spot stimulation but once I managed to get off only using the dildo (after proper arousal with a vibe).

During intercourse I need A LOT of clitoral stimulaion first so cunnilings is a requirement and a good amount of time (atleast 10-15 minutes, I dont orgasm from this though, so sad since it is so good) needs to be dedicated to my clit to make me wet and aroused. Interestingly, during intercourse I don't stimulate my clit and I can squirt many times even after a squirting orgasm and each squirt is unique in how it gushes out. The crazy squrting during sex is really new for me so I decided to invest in a throe to make squirting a regular event!

Good luck in finding what works for your partner, it should be a pleasure conquest!
05/26/2009
Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by Naughty Student
When I am masturbating I usually get a clitoral orgasm or two before stimulating my g-spot with a dildo and even if sometimes I would like to squirt I do not, I guess it depends on many things. Usually I need clitoral vibes at the same time as g-spot ... More
Oh, and when I am about to squirt I feel the liquid forming up inside the skene's gland and it becomes so full that it hurts so I have no choice to push it out. I am sure it isn't pee also bcs it is clear and so much was produced that it was impossible for it to be urine (especially since I always urinate before to make sure my bladder is empty) It took me a long while to be in tune with what works for me but it was pleasure all the way so it's all good!
05/26/2009
Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by Naughty Student
When I am masturbating I usually get a clitoral orgasm or two before stimulating my g-spot with a dildo and even if sometimes I would like to squirt I do not, I guess it depends on many things. Usually I need clitoral vibes at the same time as g-spot ... More
Since I started squirting from g spot stimulation, I just knda want it all the time! Doesn't happen though.
First time for me I did think it was urine as well. As you know, squirting is a colorless and odorless liquid much like the pre-cum from a guy but a lot more copious.
I can't have a g spot orgasm w/o a prior clitoral orgasm and additional clit stimulation. I will use a vibe at times during cunnilingus and intercourse, my b/f likes it now as he says he doesn't have to work as hard.
When I masturbate, I use many toys...I luv options and have my vibes, dils and butt plugs lubed and ready to go, if needed.
By the way, the Gigi vibe is an all around awesome g spot toy! ok for the clitoris as well.
05/26/2009
Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by Liz2
Since I started squirting from g spot stimulation, I just knda want it all the time! Doesn't happen though.
First time for me I did think it was urine as well. As you know, squirting is a colorless and odorless liquid much like the pre-cum ... More
I wish my partner didn't hate sex toys so much it would help him help me!
05/26/2009
Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by Naughty Student
I wish my partner didn't hate sex toys so much it would help him help me!
Hopefully he will come around. Try the bit that toys "will help him, less work" before he "just has to get off"
Some of my toys still intimidate by b/f esp. some very realistic vibes and dils. He thinks I may be judging him by the fast results optained using my toys.
I did get him a masturbation sleeve, he didn't use it for awhile and then one day saw it in the bathroom drying. I didn't say anything, (I think he forgot it was there) but he does use it, w/o me, as I use some of my toys during solo masturbation.
05/27/2009
PhatArabKitty PhatArabKitty
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Originally posted by BrokeNHorny
I've been trying, with mild success to get my partner to squirt. I've had success with g spot stimulation, but nothing surefire. Does clitoral stimulation help in any way, or detract from it? Any other suggestions and tips would be ... More
My wife squirt from clitoral stimulation, so i think it the key to squirting for some girls. Others need gspot penetration or both.

My wife has had good luck with the Lucid Dream 14, pocket rocket, and hitachi wand.
07/31/2010
joja joja
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Originally posted by Tuesday
So every woman is different it seems. I find that if I try to add clitoral stimulation while I'm using a g-spot toy, the clitoral sensation takes over and there will be no squirting. However, its good to start with clitoral stimulation as a ... More
Same goes for me. I generally like to have a clitoral orgasm before any penetrative play.
07/31/2010
Sangsara Sangsara
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Originally posted by BrokeNHorny
I've been trying, with mild success to get my partner to squirt. I've had success with g spot stimulation, but nothing surefire. Does clitoral stimulation help in any way, or detract from it? Any other suggestions and tips would be ... More
for me its a lot of clit stim AND g-spot but especially the area between my clit and vagina- a rabbit vibe- or more specifically a fun factory ocean or something similar
i actually drenched my whole face one of the first times!
04/16/2012
AK Bunny AK Bunny
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Originally posted by BrokeNHorny
I've been trying, with mild success to get my partner to squirt. I've had success with g spot stimulation, but nothing surefire. Does clitoral stimulation help in any way, or detract from it? Any other suggestions and tips would be ... More
Clit play helps get me warmed up, but firm, quick stimulation to my gspot is the winner. Another main hindrance is that most women will tighten up, especially before orgasm, that part of the woman has to relax a little or you don't get much. It's like squeezing the tip of a guys penis just as he's orgasming, can't imagine you'd shoot real well.
07/27/2012
Dairygirl8808 Dairygirl8808
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Originally posted by BrokeNHorny
I've been trying, with mild success to get my partner to squirt. I've had success with g spot stimulation, but nothing surefire. Does clitoral stimulation help in any way, or detract from it? Any other suggestions and tips would be ... More
For me it is mostly g spot stimulation, but also while i am lying on my stomach. having my partner reach around and rub my clit is sometimes helpful to get me over that edge.
03/21/2013
JDear JDear
Get her off a few times clitorally before trying to stimulate the g-spot. Clit stimulation helps me a lot during g-spot stimulation as well.
04/06/2013
Nympho88 Nympho88
I personally have to have g-spot and clitoral stimulation..... But I have heard many woman say that different ways work for them!!
04/17/2013
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