Which is the best dildo to master squirting?

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Which is the best dildo to master squirting?

Naughty Student Naughty Student 05/04/2009

People in general are becoming more and more aware of this fascinating phenomenon called female ejaculation or squirting. Because of an increased awareness there has been curiosity in terms of the extent to which one can learn to squirt, can all woman learn? Surely, we all have the same basic anatomy even though it may be shaped or sized differently the basic parts are there.

Personally, I have learned to squirt by reading and experimenting but I still wonder which g-spot dildo is the best for achieving a deep and satisfying orgasmic squirt.

So to all of those connoisseurs out their who have a dildo and swear by it and it only, share with us your love for it and it will help those who want to make a purchase make a decision about what they should rely on when they want a good gush!

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Naughty Student Naughty Student
For some individuals any material works fine and the curve of the shaft is the most important feature in order to obtain sufficient g-spot stimulation. How does the silicone of the Ella compare to that of the Tantus G-spot? Is glass and steel better than silicone?

Is the curve of the pure wand better than that of the others? Is the Ella as magnificent for its purpose when it is compared to other g-spot dildos that serve the same purpose?
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Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
haven't had much success in getting my partner to actually squirt. I have the g-spot and at first she didn't really like it, but she has some amazing g-spot orgasms with it. I've heard really good things about the Pure wand and the Ella as well.
I think it is a combination of material and curve. The curve is essential, but the stiffer materials (glass, metal) can help the process as well.
05/04/2009
LilyLust LilyLust
Well I'm a noob and still trying but Plastic g vibes haven't worked for me. I think I need more texture.
05/04/2009
DreamyLove DreamyLove
I learned to squirt using my fingers first, then my boyfriend got me to squirt using his, and then toys, it's been almost a year and half since, and it's been awesome.

For beginning squirters, I'd recommend the Ella, and for more advanced, and those that can handle the somewhat substantial weight of steel, the Pure Wand. Although the Fun Wand is good too. :p
05/04/2009
Arabella Eve Arabella Eve
I echo DreamyLove in the beginnings of my ejaculation adventures. It adds such dimension to my sex life, it's unbelievable. I'm so happy that information is becoming more and more accessible to women so that they can have new and lovely experiences with their bodies. Lucky us! And lucky for our loves, too!

I've found the curve of the toy's shaft to be the most important quality regarding squirting easily... my preference over texture (silicone to glass to metal to a lover's fingers) changes depending on my mood!

My standby favorite toy for the purpose is Doc Johnson's iRabbit vibe. The clit stimulation is an added goody! I haven't tried the Ella, but it looks awesome. Thanks for inspiring some mischief in me tonight.
05/04/2009
Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by Arabella Eve
I echo DreamyLove in the beginnings of my ejaculation adventures. It adds such dimension to my sex life, it's unbelievable. I'm so happy that information is becoming more and more accessible to women so that they can have new and lovely ...
I only have one texture to play with which is glass(my partner has not yet been very good using his fingers he scatches me inside even if he is careful), so once I get to try other materials I will probably be able to choose according to mood as well.

Glad I inspired
05/04/2009
Liz2 Liz2
Fingers haven't worked for me. The curve and material are both important. The first time I ejaculated was with the NJoy Pure Wand, usually takes care of business. The steel, weight and curve are awesome.
Glass is satisfying but I rarely ejaculate. The Gigi vibe works well, esp. if looking for a quick g spot orgasm but again I don't always squirt.
And none of the above work for me, if my partner is the driver,lol.
05/05/2009
Arabella Eve Arabella Eve
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Originally posted by Liz2
Fingers haven't worked for me. The curve and material are both important. The first time I ejaculated was with the NJoy Pure Wand, usually takes care of business. The steel, weight and curve are awesome.
Glass is satisfying but I rarely ...
Aww... you gotta give your partner driving lessons, babe!
05/05/2009
Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by Arabella Eve
Aww... you gotta give your partner driving lessons, babe!
Lol, I have he just hasn't gotten past the test yet. Everytime I try to help him get the ball rolling down there he quits because he feels terrible that he can't do it. I haven't given up on him though! One day he will succeed.
05/05/2009
Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by Liz2
Fingers haven't worked for me. The curve and material are both important. The first time I ejaculated was with the NJoy Pure Wand, usually takes care of business. The steel, weight and curve are awesome.
Glass is satisfying but I rarely ...
Fingers don't work for me either. Mine anyways, since my spot is really placed in a tricky spot iside me. I'd sort of need a longer arm. So far I have only used glass and I am wondering if the Ella can hold up to that because I want to buy it but am not sure it will work for me. I am afraid it won't work as well as glass since it is made of silicone and may be more supple and forgiving. I think the fun wand is what I should go with but maybe I should try both
05/05/2009
Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by Arabella Eve
Aww... you gotta give your partner driving lessons, babe!
I have tried but I feel that my cervix is being impaled by solid toys driven by others.
05/06/2009
Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by Naughty Student
Fingers don't work for me either. Mine anyways, since my spot is really placed in a tricky spot iside me. I'd sort of need a longer arm. So far I have only used glass and I am wondering if the Ella can hold up to that because I want to buy it ...
Sounds good. The Ella is reasonable, decent reviews, and certainly will hold up. I don't think it is all that supple. I like the heaviness of stainless steel toys,they seem to always find my pleasure points.
05/06/2009
Red Red
With me it's pretty much all about the curve, but firmer materials are really helpful as well. I squirt quite well with anything bumpy, but that is all....um...."learned" for lack of a better word.

The toy that really opened up quick easy and assessable squirting for me was the GiGi. The Ella is scary good at getting me to squirt, but I am well versed, so I wouldn't say it's going to be a miracle machine for novices, just an excellent tool.

The pure wand is spot on at getting my gspot (and would get at anyone's, as it's damn easy to use) but I don't really "squirt" with it - I just get a large wet spot.

Best toy I have for squirting is the fun factory curve. I go off like a kinked hose over and over with ease using it. But it's not so universal.

So I think the one to recommend is ella!
05/06/2009
Epiphora Epiphora
I think different people require different types of materials. I haven't had much luck with glass so far. Ella is about the only toy that I've squirted with (and Gigi). I think the shape of the toy definitely has something to do with it. Not the curve per se, but the shape of the head that stimulates my g-spot.
05/06/2009
Vibrator Happy Vibrator Happy
The Paul And Paulina dual vibe makes me gush. I have a stronger orgasm with the Vibratex Butterfly though. It has a stronger and more widespread clit attachment.
05/14/2009
ScottA ScottA
Why did you exclude the Tantus Squirt? My wife hasn't tried it out yet, but it has a curve that puts plenty of pressure on the P-spot when I use it anally (yes, I am working on a review, it's just slow...)
05/14/2009
Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by ScottA
Why did you exclude the Tantus Squirt? My wife hasn't tried it out yet, but it has a curve that puts plenty of pressure on the P-spot when I use it anally (yes, I am working on a review, it's just slow...)
I was thinkng about toys for people who are new to g-spot stimulation and are interested in squirting and thought the squirt was a little too thick. Anyhow I didn't realize I could put as many toys as I wanted on the comparison so I went with the ones I had read good reviews on.
05/14/2009
Angel deSanguine Angel deSanguine
The one that will get me every.single.time. is, unfortunately, made of jelly, which isn't ideal, but it is a guarantee. It was meant to be an anal toy, but that is NOT going to happen with a jelly! link
06/22/2009
Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by Angel deSanguine
The one that will get me every.single.time. is, unfortunately, made of jelly, which isn't ideal, but it is a guarantee. It was meant to be an anal toy, but that is NOT going to happen with a jelly! link
Thats a pretty funky looking plug, lol.
06/22/2009
Angel deSanguine Angel deSanguine
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Originally posted by Naughty Student
Thats a pretty funky looking plug, lol.
Yeah, that it is... I think it's the twisting part that does it, though (it's not super hard and the edges are a little rounded, so nothing pokes uncomfortably.) I don't turn it, I just slide it in and out. Almost immediately I can feel the pressure build up. I remember thinking when I got it that it looked a little odd, which is the precise reason I bought it- I wanted something different!
06/22/2009
oliverHyde oliverHyde
Fisting always works for my sweetie as does the hitachi. She can do it with other toys it just takes a lot more patience.
09/14/2009
Holly Hox Holly Hox
interesting thread!

i have squirted using my regular dildo along with clit stimulation - but it isn't alot af fluid. what REALLY gets me is this: link I have had some insanely amazing squirting experiences with this toy, I am not even kidding.
01/26/2010
Passionate Pastor Passionate Pastor
When my wife used the Bent Graduate she squirted twice on her first try! It is curved nicely and since it is glass it applies a nice amount of pressure that let's the river flow!
02/28/2010
Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
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Originally posted by Passionate Pastor
When my wife used the Bent Graduate she squirted twice on her first try! It is curved nicely and since it is glass it applies a nice amount of pressure that let's the river flow!
The Bent Graduate is, indeed, an excellent squirt inducing toy. I'm very, very surprised it's not talked about more often as it's affordable and, in my opinion, every bit as good at getting the job done as the pure wand or ella.
03/01/2010
Fyreflye Fyreflye
I have had amazing orgasms and my husband always makes sure I have one every time. I have never been able to "squirt" though. What are we doing wrong? I just thought not everyone could do it.
03/01/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Fyreflye
I have had amazing orgasms and my husband always makes sure I have one every time. I have never been able to "squirt" though. What are we doing wrong? I just thought not everyone could do it.
Fyreflye - I can't comment on everyone - but probably most can. My wife just learned to at 45 - you can 'teach' yourself how to do it - BTW the PureWand is her favorite. If you're interested check out the podcasts from Jaiya link and Sheri Winston link. In addition to the broadcasts/podcasts - they have excellent instructional materials - like books & DVDs.

It's probably something you teach yourself - then show your partner how to do it with you.
03/01/2010
kissedagirl kissedagirl
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Originally posted by Carrie Ann
The Bent Graduate is, indeed, an excellent squirt inducing toy. I'm very, very surprised it's not talked about more often as it's affordable and, in my opinion, every bit as good at getting the job done as the pure wand or ella.
I have never squirted and really want to try! The Bent Graduate is on my wish list, so I am so glad to see you say this. It's very affordable!
06/09/2010
Anjulie Anjulie
Pure wand--definitely
03/23/2011
barrettbn2 barrettbn2
I have heard from a friend that the prue wand is amazing!
04/14/2011
barrettbn2 barrettbn2
I have heard from a friend that the prue wand is amazing!
04/14/2011
MOTpoetryION MOTpoetryION
Hello Lady's,

Well i can't really help in the best stimulater to use . But info that may be helpful. FIrst off im male 47. I was very curious at a very young age about myself, as well as the simply beautiful female body. And would read anything i could get my hands on growing up. By the age of 13 i had pretty much read everything that had been published even the first clinical study ever done. I knew my body pretty early not many sd its not to much to learn there. SO most of the reading were about the female body and my first time st 13 knew more about your body's them most females did about their own. And like most first timers pretty much stunk the first time. lol. well i contiued to read and came across an article in a magazine that only hinted about this very subject of a possible what i thought at the time might be a female ejaculation.

I tell you all this to explain i do know what im talking about. Im not bragging in any way well at the age of 16 from all this info found my self with an 20 year old as a GF even thought i was very mature for my age i think it bothered her the age differenc. So sadly i wasnt able to explore as much a i would of liked. I contnued to search and found a few more bits and pieces of info from books.magazines my school mate had. i had even asked them about 10 from two groups if they had ever heard of a female cunmming . And only got back laughs. I did'nt do that again :-\

Ok now to the important stuff at 21 i ended up getting married to a nympho that hade been with ill say a few guys and was comfortable enough to let me explore yaaa. Buy this time i dad come accross my first video proff that something unusual could happen . But it was only a short clip. But it was enough for me .I got into the habbit of always pleasing my wife before myself.As i know you all know males were not desingned to be able to um... go long distances sadly. After the birth of our first child. One night having a rather long frolic it happend i finally hit paysquart. Like i said he had been with enough guys to know what happens, Till this time. I was unknown to both of us really. First i was kind of worried of two things .

1 I thought she had just pee'ed in my mouth considering the amount(she later told me she thought the same)2 I thought she was having a siezure because of what aappeared like no control from her.Those two things were answered rather quickly. After she regained full control of herself and looking at here huge eyes and a smile like i had never seem before as well as a pretty strong hug i stopped worrying. She stilled didnt know what happpend but she said she fricking liked it what ever it was. I then tried to answer the second worry i had but all i had was a pretty big wet spot so pulled the sheet off and squeezed some into a clear glass as well we both smelled it and we both agreed it was not pee. Woo Hoo i thought to myself.

This was in 89 and after that i think i could of asked to to try anything and she would of said sure . but i just wanted to be able to do it whenever i of she wanted it to happen(offten) And so dammit we had to practice alot to reach my goal dangit :-P Well you know by the pee in mouth worry how this happend. I reached my goal within a month and fine tuned it , to her delight im sure . But to mine as well. I know everyone is different and even G Spots are not even in the same spot but this is my perfected way . Ive only been able to do this orally and feel i now have a black belt in tongue foo :-P

ive managed to to make it happen as fast as 15 min i thing . because women so take but longer then males to worm up. what i would do start with for play kissing then slowly move lower kissing as i go neck 5 or so min at the breasts and continue down .Once i get there i spend 5 just lightly kissing inner thighs and around . Then move to the lips lastly the little man in the boat. Starting slow i start a tempo that never stopping the tempo for more then a couple sec. once i see she is getting close i completly stop no contact at all for maybe a min And i visit the little man again and repest the same thing and stop . I know this will be the hardest psrt for you ladys but you will just have to suffer though it somehow.Have him do it about 4 increasing the tempo more each time. Then have him/her on the last one wrap his/her arms up and around your leggs to keep in contact. because when done right you loose all control of your body. Nut the tempo must not stop this time. if success he can continue tempo only about 30 seconds after squart no more you will be more sensitive then you have ever been before. And he pulls away to avoide a knee to the head mostly.

This is my fav part pulling away and watching an uncontrollabe body ahaking before me from pleasure.Trust me guys/gals its worth the effort. ALSO this takes edurance and practice to get to this point without the tougne and jaws wanting to lock up before its competed. But I wanted to reach my goal so fast as i could and actually almost split all the way thru that white thing under tougne in half from it hitting my teeth. The more comfortable relaxed angle his neck is in the better for him try, putting a pillow or two under you butt, so your higher then he is . It works best. also w ould suggest explaining this or letting him read it for a few days. before you try/start so you can relaxe and let it happen. you both make it happen its not just him. Plus for the more difficult cases when trying to teach . it would make it easyer for him to do it. if you have aready been able to to manage it . You must know your body fully in order to teach someone else how to do it .

Forgive me that this is so long
but i like to make sure i explaine it clearly. lastly there is a video on redtube of a different way to do it , but ive never done it that way, but oddly enough its almost the same steps as mine . Im glad its more well known today ive known how to do this for 20 years and to see it everwhere now makes me think, your all nooobs lmao. And it makes me sad that there are women even today. Moms grandma's out there that have never enjoyed it .
lastly ,lasty, i have read an article from some doctor that has said there are some women that cant or never will be able to do it.I disagree, and lets hope he is wrong about that huh. Enjoy
11/26/2013
MOTpoetryION MOTpoetryION
double post :-\

ps i tried to make it as clean as possible, i hope i managed that ok?

PSS . Im not a doctor. And this was for informational purposes only .
11/26/2013
Lipstickladyin kc Lipstickladyin kc
I have been trying to learn to squirt with no avail. I have tried my fingers and I have a glass dildo but that doesn't seem to work either. I am on a squirting mission. Any suggestions on how to achieve the goal?
Jan 21, 5:43 pm
Floral Floral
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Originally posted by Lipstickladyin kc
I have been trying to learn to squirt with no avail. I have tried my fingers and I have a glass dildo but that doesn't seem to work either. I am on a squirting mission. Any suggestions on how to achieve the goal?
I've been reading 'Female ejaculation and the gspot: not your mothers orgasm book'. It really opened my eyes to a few things about my body that now seem obvious. One thing about this is really understanding what ones anatomy is, which the book is really good at. I didn't know you could touch around the urethra, I thought it would hurt actually. But this area is part of the sponge of the body of the g spot. That's just an example, but basically what I'm trying to say is that I think knowing where your gspot is, in detail like that helps. Not just the basic instructions of insert finger and make 'come hither' motion.

Also, I learned that not everyone has a gspot that is shaped the same or in the same location. I don't know if that is helpful at all.. its just where this noob is at in the squirt learning curve. I've had a bit of fluid but not the full on river I hear about yet. I just ordered some glass g spotters, so here's hoping.
Feb 15, 6:19 pm
Oriental husband and wife Oriental husband and wife
A firm dildo with a very big head.
Feb 16, 1:22 pm
Sincerely Yours, N Sincerely Yours, N
Of the toys listed, I would say that either the Ella or the Pure Wand would be the best. Personally, I haven't had much luck with the Pure Wand, but many see it as the Holy Grail of sex toys. I do love my Ella, though!

As for your other question, the Ella is firmer than the Tantus G-spot, but the Tantus G-spot is thicker and provides broader stimulation.
Feb 16, 2:42 pm
Daisy Chain Daisy Chain
My husband and I achieved squirting around 3 years ago and we had never experienced it before so we were confused how it happened. Now, we try to make it happen and it never does. It can be rather frustrating.
Feb 18, 11:25 pm
Glinteye Glinteye
It can be so tough to know what to do! Im not sure...
Mar 30, 1:48 pm
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Naughty Student Naughty Student
When it comes down to it, when trying to stimulate your g-spot for the first time in order to acheive a female ejaculation it may not be any easy ordeal! Which of the four g-spot dildos (G-spot by Tantus, the Elle, The G-spot Wonder, or the Pure wand) is most the most user friendly?
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DreamyLove DreamyLove
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Originally posted by Naughty Student
When it comes down to it, when trying to stimulate your g-spot for the first time in order to acheive a female ejaculation it may not be any easy ordeal! Which of the four g-spot dildos (G-spot by Tantus, the Elle, The G-spot Wonder, or the Pure ...
For first timers I'd definitely recommend the Ella.
05/04/2009
Liz2 Liz2
Of the toys mentioned, I have only used the Pure Wand. And yes!!! it does take some practice and relaxation.
05/05/2009
Tuesday Tuesday
I have Ella, the clear ribbed g-spot wonder and the pure wand. The wonder and Ella are about tied for ease of use. The pure wand is definitely harder to get the hang of and be successful with.
05/05/2009
Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by DreamyLove
For first timers I'd definitely recommend the Ella.
I guess it really is the go to toy for the g-spot that makes it easest to find it.
05/05/2009
Naughty Student Naughty Student
Liz: I had to practicec with my glass wand too before I got it to work and feeling good. I guess the foreignness of such a material makes it so but the funwand has such a rounded angle I am sure it is the least easiest to use especially if someone is new to g-spot stimulation.

Teusday: I guess one a person gets the hang of using the pure wand on themselves it is the sure way to get a good g-spot squirting orgasm. So far I think that g-spot and the Elle seem to be the easiest to use.
05/05/2009
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We have the Gold Ribbed G-spot and PureWand. My wife loves glass and likes the Gold Ribbed G-spot - but has not squirted using it.

The PureWand is by far better - she squirts about 90% of the time.

We've had a lot of success using the Fun Factory Tiger link. The curve, texture and size are perfect for my wife.
01/26/2010
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