Arrrggghhhh....I give up. What Prostate Toy works for you, when all others fail?

Bignuf Bignuf
Today is a full day at sea as our first cruise ever comes to a close tomorrow. I packed some yummy new lingerie, hubby didn't see and some new toys he knew nothing about.

Among them was the "finale" of my search for a prostate toy that will bring him to orgasm. I had a whole corner of a suitcase full of prostate toys. Bendable You, several by LUX, several by Anaros, A "Bad Boy" a "Men's Pleasure Wand"...and a number more. We went through the whole supply. They either "hurt", or else "made him need to have a BM" or "created an uncomfortable feeling" that gave no pleasure and were erection killers.
Finally, going back to my tried and true finger...well, I got him to cum twice without losing an erection, till he was begging "stop, stop..I'm too sensitive".

Not that I mind using my finger in him. I keep that nail short just for that reason, but it then ties one hand up, which might be nice to use for other fun things, IF I could find a blasted toy that would make him likewise enjoy a prostate orgasm.

I have reached the point where I can say "I give up". No one makes a toy that works for my guy!!!The Dr.Joel Kaplan prostate massager and Dr. Joel Kaplan Flex Probe came closest (didn't seem to hurt, but just didn't massage in a way that got him to enjoy it).

Any suggestions before I say ..."finger or nothing" and quit throwing money and time at this hopeless search????
02/09/2013
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Mr. E Mr. E
I have tried several of the toys you mention, but none approaches the results I've had with the Nob Essence Romp. The Romp is my number one favorite anal toy. I knew this immediately the very first time I inserted it. With a little warm up, teasing and proper lube, I found the Romp easy enough to insert. Once the widest part was inserted, the Romp actually pulled itself in the rest the way, slow and easy until it came to a rest seated oh so perfectly against my prostate. The size, shape and contours of the Romp fit me perfectly.

I love wearing the Romp during intercourse. When I am thrusting the Romp rocks gently back and forth applying pressure to my prostate and then to my perineum. It builds quickly until I erupt with some of the most intense orgasms I've had in years.

The Romp is pricey and frequently out of stock for extended periods of time, so there are probably not many Romp users out there. With that said, I'd love to hear if there are others who've had the results I've had with the Romp.

02/09/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Maybe it's because I'm old - but although I love anal play, it's not about the prostate. My wife will massage it when she's fingering me - but honestly it doesn't add much to the sensations. For me it's about the pressure of stretching the anus and the sensation of thrusting.

I guess I'm like the women who are frustrated by the inability to find/enjoy g-spot play!?
02/10/2013
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
This is one of the best I've found. Check out this link, Cheeky Boy. Read all the reviews too!
02/11/2013
Alex Time Alex Time
I've found that the best for me is my pure wand from njoy. Seriously though, warm up before shoving stuff in there. He should also do a little bit of self exploration to find out what works for him.

Don't give up, half the fun is actually finding out what works for him.
08/16/2013
Bubba29 Bubba29
Quote:
Originally posted by Alex Time
I've found that the best for me is my pure wand from njoy. Seriously though, warm up before shoving stuff in there. He should also do a little bit of self exploration to find out what works for him.

Don't give up, half the fun is ...
i second the pure wand. best orgasms i've ever had.
10/10/2013
RonLee RonLee
I know that what I'm about to say just won't be helpful in your quest for that perfect toy. I just can't help but say it anyway. As a versatile bi guy I can attest that the real thing is by far superior to any toy I've ever tried. Of course you would need a loving or at least caring partner, but then you can occasionally have a spectacular orgasm and not have even touched your cock.
10/10/2013
plush1943 plush1943
I have several internal prostate massagers and never really enjoyed them as much as I did external massages of the area between my balls and anus. My wife would pleasure me that way while performing oral sex on me.
02/24/2014
CuriousJ CuriousJ
I can identify with your frustration. I know for me a lot of the difference came (pun intended) when I started focusing on being aroused mentally and not worry about the toy. Sometimes actually imagining the massager being against your p-spot actually helps.
Feb 11, 10:02 am
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I've found using the Aneros MGX and allowing it to be pushed in and out by the Fun Factory Drei is the best solo play. Like CurJ, closing the eyes and focusing seem to do wonders.

Bignug, this is an old thread, by now you two have probably already experienced pegging. Now talk about the big P.O. The right equipment can do wonders ! I highly recommend the FFactory Share and curved flat tip of the BS is Nice Vaca Dildo.

If you or anyone has experienced pegging and still looking for the ultimate, look no further !
Feb 11, 7:26 pm
Inquisitor Inquisitor
I'd give it a try a few times to see if it was my cup of tea, but the partner has already put the kibosh on it.
Feb 12, 1:41 am
BusyMe BusyMe
I heard a guy say.. To buy a regular straight vibe with a pointed end.. and just give it a upward point in your general area and move it in little circles like your massaging an egg. That made me horny. omfg
Feb 12, 8:20 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Inquisitor
I'd give it a try a few times to see if it was my cup of tea, but the partner has already put the kibosh on it.
Patience and bribery my friend.

Hopefully she is giving you oral while doing P massage with a sex aid (another word for toy ) at the present time.

If not how can you expect to reach the next base ?
Feb 14, 12:31 am
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