Arrrggghhhh....I give up. What Prostate Toy works for you, when all others fail?

Bignuf Bignuf
Today is a full day at sea as our first cruise ever comes to a close tomorrow. I packed some yummy new lingerie, hubby didn't see and some new toys he knew nothing about.

Among them was the "finale" of my search for a prostate toy that will bring him to orgasm. I had a whole corner of a suitcase full of prostate toys. Bendable You, several by LUX, several by Anaros, A "Bad Boy" a "Men's Pleasure Wand"...and a number more. We went through the whole supply. They either "hurt", or else "made him need to have a BM" or "created an uncomfortable feeling" that gave no pleasure and were erection killers.
Finally, going back to my tried and true finger...well, I got him to cum twice without losing an erection, till he was begging "stop, stop..I'm too sensitive".

Not that I mind using my finger in him. I keep that nail short just for that reason, but it then ties one hand up, which might be nice to use for other fun things, IF I could find a blasted toy that would make him likewise enjoy a prostate orgasm.

I have reached the point where I can say "I give up". No one makes a toy that works for my guy!!!The Dr.Joel Kaplan prostate massager and Dr. Joel Kaplan Flex Probe came closest (didn't seem to hurt, but just didn't massage in a way that got him to enjoy it).

Any suggestions before I say ..."finger or nothing" and quit throwing money and time at this hopeless search????
02/09/2013
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Mr. E Mr. E
I have tried several of the toys you mention, but none approaches the results I've had with the Nob Essence Romp. The Romp is my number one favorite anal toy. I knew this immediately the very first time I inserted it. With a little warm up, teasing and proper lube, I found the Romp easy enough to insert. Once the widest part was inserted, the Romp actually pulled itself in the rest the way, slow and easy until it came to a rest seated oh so perfectly against my prostate. The size, shape and contours of the Romp fit me perfectly.

I love wearing the Romp during intercourse. When I am thrusting the Romp rocks gently back and forth applying pressure to my prostate and then to my perineum. It builds quickly until I erupt with some of the most intense orgasms I've had in years.

The Romp is pricey and frequently out of stock for extended periods of time, so there are probably not many Romp users out there. With that said, I'd love to hear if there are others who've had the results I've had with the Romp.

02/09/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Maybe it's because I'm old - but although I love anal play, it's not about the prostate. My wife will massage it when she's fingering me - but honestly it doesn't add much to the sensations. For me it's about the pressure of stretching the anus and the sensation of thrusting.

I guess I'm like the women who are frustrated by the inability to find/enjoy g-spot play!?
02/10/2013
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
This is one of the best I've found. Check out this link, Cheeky Boy. Read all the reviews too!
02/11/2013
Alex Time Alex Time
I've found that the best for me is my pure wand from njoy. Seriously though, warm up before shoving stuff in there. He should also do a little bit of self exploration to find out what works for him.

Don't give up, half the fun is actually finding out what works for him.
08/16/2013
Bubba29 Bubba29
Quote:
Originally posted by Alex Time
I've found that the best for me is my pure wand from njoy. Seriously though, warm up before shoving stuff in there. He should also do a little bit of self exploration to find out what works for him.

Don't give up, half the fun is ... More
i second the pure wand. best orgasms i've ever had.
10/10/2013
RonLee RonLee
I know that what I'm about to say just won't be helpful in your quest for that perfect toy. I just can't help but say it anyway. As a versatile bi guy I can attest that the real thing is by far superior to any toy I've ever tried. Of course you would need a loving or at least caring partner, but then you can occasionally have a spectacular orgasm and not have even touched your cock.
10/10/2013
plush1943 plush1943
I have several internal prostate massagers and never really enjoyed them as much as I did external massages of the area between my balls and anus. My wife would pleasure me that way while performing oral sex on me.
Feb 24, 3:28 pm
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