Best Toy for Mutual Pegging Satisfaction

Whether or not she is able to wear a harness with the "Share" and "Feeldoe" really depend on the harness. The harness has to be able to pass the double ended dildo through. The idea with double ended dildos like the "Share" and "Feeldoe" are that they can be used harness free, but most people find that using them with a harness gives them more control which many prefer.

And it gives more control than a single-ended dildo, too.

The big thing is to make sure that the harness has a hole in the pad or the pad is removable, and it can be worn down low enough (most decent O-ring harnesses can do both of these). The low position is important for her pleasure in any case, as it ensures that the base of the dildo can rub against her clit and labia with each thrust.

The Nexus can also be a good choice. Nexus Max and Feeldoe are the two vibrating doubles (with the sad, and hopefully temporary, absence of the Tango)

I would recommend anything from the Spareparts line for pegging with a double ended dildo. Personally, I find the Theo more attractive than the Joque, but I've heard some women complain that it isn't as comfortable.

My wife definitely prefers a thong style harness when pegging me. The Theo did take a little getting used to (@That Guy) because of the bulky strap. There is a Vac-u-lock harness with insertable vaginal and anal probes for her. Mrs. Peg doesn't love this harness too much. She is really a big fan of our orginal leather thong style harness. It's simple but it works well for her.