Well, it's rather a combination of both pressure and motion. You can a approach it in several ways and it greatly depends how worked up your guy is. The first option in my opinion is an inflatable buttplug from which my favorite is the Gapers
Well, it's rather a combination of both pressure and motion. You can a approach it in several ways and it greatly depends how worked up your guy is. The first option in my opinion is an inflatable buttplug from which my favorite is the Gapers Organic. Here is the link to my review if you're interested.
The point is that the pressure it applies is very gentle and you can actually move it a bit around and in/out to create actual sensations of stretching the sphincter muscles. Unfortunately it's currently out of stock but it's very well worth to wait.
The other option which I personally like a lot are Cyberskin/WixSkin/UR3 types of toys which have a little girth. So by using them you don't have rigid pressure and could also creates sensations from the penetration movement. (Actually the combination of the inflatable buttplug as a warmup and then the toys for pegging/manual stimulation do the best trick for me). Here are a few of my favorites:
1. Play things dong - great toy with nice girth (beginner to intermediate)
2. Ultra skin cock - would use it 24/7 if I could. The best solo/pegging orgasms I ever had. Pure anal super-o's everything. Really
3. Randy = the pro version, which I use when I have a need to filled up completely.
So basically this is my advice. The thing is that if the toys seems to big, look for smaller sizes but you will grow out of them very fast.