Do you play with the prostate before or after you are hard

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How do you do it?

Personally, I like to play with p-spot toys when I am limp, it feels better for me and feels better to get harder the more I get turned on.

we start out with him limp but not for long

I have no preference actually, sometimes hard, sometimes limp.

Hard or aroused some

Not necessarily hard, but definitely VERY aroused. Need ass nice and loose!

Both, either way is fine for me. It is easier to find it when aroused, especially when you are first starting out with P-spot play.

Being aroused is definitely key. Being erect helps to confirm the arousal and seems to help identify the positive sensations, as ToyTimeTim said.

either way works