Female asking for advice: What are the best things about the Pspot for a straight male?

jzzrzz jzzrzz
After looking around for my own anal toys, I quickly discovered this Pspot world. I would love to present this type of information to my partner, since it seems like a great thing to try, but being female and not even having a Pspot I have no idea what to even say.

So, if you were to describe your opinion of Pspot play to a straight male, what would YOU say? What's the best thing about it? Why should someone try it? Did it change your experience for the better? How/Why?
04/26/2011
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married with children married with children
I have tried some p-spot toys, but have not had any luck with them feeling good finding my p-spot.
04/26/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I'm not what you would call an aficionado - certainly no expert. But when my wife penetrates me anally - either with her fingers or a toy, my erections are much stronger and orgasms more powerful. As a relative beginner we stick with relatively smooth and modestly sized toys. Glass is by far my favorite material link link link - hard and smooth - even with some subtle textures is great. If not glass, I prefer the stainless steel Pure Wand link.
04/26/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I read a lot of articles and bought a few books regarding anal health and pleasure. I presented my desire for him to experience an orgasm much like those I do. Anal orgasms, for me, are out of this world and I don't even have a prostate!

My husband was a great sport about it. We are pretty much willing to try anything with each other. I shared much of the information I read with him and we tried a lot of manual stimulation before we bought anything. He tried a few prostate toys, but none really did the trick for him, except the nJoy PFun and the Pure Wand. Since introducing the Pure Wand, he is REALLY enjoying it. He rarely reaches for any other toy (I guess I'll have to just buy my own), he likes the PFun a lot but it falls out during sex and during orgasm and I think he finds it frustrating. His orgasms are super intense and he has multiples as well as non-ejaculatory orgasms while p-spotting. They are really quite amazing to watch. I am fascinated by 'em.
04/26/2011
Annemarie Annemarie
I would say that it's fairly comparable to the female g-spot, to a point. I would relate it to him that way, especially if you're familiar with your own g-spot and he's seen the pleasures it gives you.

Really, all I can say is do some research on it, and anal play in general, the pleasures a man can get from it, and be prepared to answer any questions. Perhaps try a book or two: Anal Pleasure and Health, Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men, Ultimate... for Women.
04/26/2011
jzzrzz jzzrzz
Thank you so much - all of this information is so helpful!
04/26/2011
Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
I introduced my husband to this type of stimulation several months ago. He never really derived much pleasure from it and would not be able to maintain an erection while stimulating himself this way. He mainly did it for health reasons—that is until I bought him the LELO Billy.

The Billy is, by FAR, his favorite prostate stimulating toy, and he has been able to maintain an erection easily with it inserted. And it heightens his orgasms tremendously. I gave him a blowjob/handjob in conjunction with using this toy on him (slightly tapping on the base of the toy in rhythm with my movements), and he had an unforgettable, explosive climax.

Just start out slow and use LOTS of lube if he does decide to try this! I suggest buying some nitrile gloves and trying manual stimulation while you give him a blowjob/handjob. The gloves will protect the tender tissues from being scratched by a nail (or even a hangnail). Good luck.
04/26/2011
jzzrzz jzzrzz
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Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
I introduced my husband to this type of stimulation several months ago. He never really derived much pleasure from it and would not be able to maintain an erection while stimulating himself this way. He mainly did it for health reasons—that is ... More
Thank you!
04/27/2011
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
I have been able to have multiple dry orgasms during P-spot play which are incredible. Then there is the possibility to milk the prostate & have it ooze out of the penis, which I have been able to get some out, but not all. But supposedly if the prostate is fully milked dry, the man will stay hard as he can't cum.
06/04/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by jzzrzz
After looking around for my own anal toys, I quickly discovered this Pspot world. I would love to present this type of information to my partner, since it seems like a great thing to try, but being female and not even having a Pspot I have no idea ... More
Tell him that you can ROCK HIS WORLD and take the best orgasm he has ever had and triple it, with one little finger on the right button!!! CLIP your nail SUPER SHORT (worth it), use LOTS and LOTS of thick lube (BE MESSY..towels or a luxurious water proof sheet, like from Liberator are WORTH IT). Once your finger is completely in his tush (NO MESS if he has used the bathroom normally within the last few hours, rectum will be empty. Still keep a tub of Wet Ones, Antibacterial at bedside for quick clean up)...anyway, once finger is in...probably ALL the way in for a girl. GO SLOW AND GENTLY. Other hand or mouth on his unit sure doesn't hurt either, but once in, reach forward, like toward his belly button...from the inside. You will feel a walnut size and walnut textured, rubbery lump..that is the prostate. GENTLY start massaging it. He will EXPLODE in seconds...regardless of where he was in the Orgasm Curve. He will be sensitive too, so if he says "enough"...don't do more then HE wants. It is almost TOO much sometimes. HAVE FUN...enjoy.
06/04/2011
robertk2380 robertk2380
I would concur with others who have posted previously, that P-spot orgasms reach an entirely different level of intensity. Frankly I was amazed at the impact it had on my body the first time it happened. There are times when my spouse has a super intense G-spot orgasm that just takes her breath away. It's like that for me. We've experimented with various toys including a strap-on. This kind of play just brings your intimacy with your partner to a new level. Go for it.
06/05/2011
jg19 jg19
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Originally posted by jzzrzz
After looking around for my own anal toys, I quickly discovered this Pspot world. I would love to present this type of information to my partner, since it seems like a great thing to try, but being female and not even having a Pspot I have no idea ... More
I would say the best line of approach would be to get him to try anal stimulation. If you are in to anal you could let him stimulate you and then you stimulate him. And or you could start looking online and show him what you found.
06/19/2011
LuckyStars LuckyStars
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Tell him that you can ROCK HIS WORLD and take the best orgasm he has ever had and triple it, with one little finger on the right button!!! CLIP your nail SUPER SHORT (worth it), use LOTS and LOTS of thick lube (BE MESSY..towels or a luxurious water ... More
I've never learned a lot about the P spot. I've heard of it, but never read much in detail about it. But this is great info. Thanks a lot for posting this.
06/21/2011
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