Have you had an orgasm solely from prostate stimulation?

spicywife spicywife
Quite some time ago, when I first started reading and experimenting with massaging my husband's prostate, I had read that a male can orgasm just from that (without stimulation to the penis). I wasn't sure I believed it at first, but the more I researched it seems to be true but that it is difficult to achieve.

If you have, was it just as satisfying as if your penis was being stimulated as well?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes
84  (36%)
No
54  (23%)
It seemed possible but didn't happen (yet!)
65  (28%)
I haven't tried but want to
22  (10%)
I haven't tried and don't want to
3  (1%)
Other
3  (1%)
Total votes: 231
Poll is closed
08/04/2009
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spicywife spicywife
Oops, I should clarify that the question for the poll is "Have you had an orgasm solely from prostate stimulation?"

I asked "was it just as satisfying as if your penis was being stimulated as well?" as a secondary question, if anyone wants to jump in and leave a comment. I could phrase that question better too, "Was it just as satisfying as when your penis is stimulated and you orgasm?"

Also, for those who have a partner that isn't on EF, you can answer for them if you like. Thanks and sorry for the confusion!
08/04/2009
Chou Wang Chou Wang
It's much better than the one you get from sole penile stimulation. Much more intense.
08/06/2009
spicywife spicywife
Thanks to those who have responded!
08/06/2009
Liz2 Liz2
My b/f has awesome orgasms from just p spot stim., esp when I am using a strap-on.
08/14/2009
LiftedUp LiftedUp
Yes I have, but in my experience it is completely different than a penile orgasm. A penile orgasm seems to remain constant in pleasure, until you approach orgasm, at which point the pleasure levels rise really high, really quickly, you orgasm, and then the pleasure drops back off again quickly. A prostate orgasm on the other hand, is more like continual waves of pleasure resonating over and over again each time it gets stimulated, that just builds higher and higher pleasure levels. Sometimes it even feels like a feedback cycle where the pleasure waves give rise to even more pleasure waves. There are times when it's so pleasurable that your body doesn't know what to do, and can just want to collapse or pause from too much! It's just incredible. From there I have had prostate orgasms that end in ejaculation, or without ejaculation. Without ejaculation, sometimes I can build to several non-ejaculatory orgasms, other times, not so. After prostate orgasm, the pleasure levels don't seem to drop so rapidly, but more taper off.

So, in short, a penile orgasm is more like a sharp spike in pleasure, where prostate stim is more along the lines of a gradual building of ebb and flow. I LOVE prostate play, but it does take more time and effort, and I'm not always in the mood.
08/18/2009
Rocky LaFemme Rocky LaFemme
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Originally posted by LiftedUp
Yes I have, but in my experience it is completely different than a penile orgasm. A penile orgasm seems to remain constant in pleasure, until you approach orgasm, at which point the pleasure levels rise really high, really quickly, you orgasm, and ... More
Hmm...I wish I had a prostate!
08/18/2009
Saraid Saraid
Interesting! I just bought a prostate toy (the Rocks Off Naughty Boy) for my boyfriend and we are excited to try it out.
09/01/2009
jedent jedent
Not entirely from prostate stimulation, but I've noticed that as soon as the thing even gets touched, there is cum dripping out of him like a leaky faucet. I mean a LOT more than the regular pre-cum stuff, I mean this is like "did you cum? NO? what the hell is all this then?"

And then when he does orgasm, it's like SPLADOOOW! Never seen so much in my life come out of one dude.
09/02/2009
Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by jedent
Not entirely from prostate stimulation, but I've noticed that as soon as the thing even gets touched, there is cum dripping out of him like a leaky faucet. I mean a LOT more than the regular pre-cum stuff, I mean this is like "did you cum? ... More
I have had the same experience with my b/f. The first time he freaked out, thinking he pissed. He lets go with a copious amount of pre-cum which is very similar to my ejaculate but earlier then his actual orgasm which is then often delayed.
I use a strap-on and usually my Leo dildo.
09/02/2009
namelesschaos namelesschaos
Depends what kind of orgasm we are talking about I have as of yet to have an ejaculatory orgasm from anything involving prostate play. There is a lot of precum usually but as of yet no ejaculation. I have had non-ejaculatory orgasm and lot of them however. It is ejaculation not orgasm that has a refectory period in men. This means I can orgasm may times in short order and even have multiple orgasms from prostate stimulation.

My non-ejaculatory orgasm definitely feel different then ejaculatory orgasm, at their best they are longer stronger and better then my ejaculatory ones, at their worst I call them mini- orgasm because of how weak they are. They usually don’t take me long to reach either. I definitely feel differently after the different types of orgasms makes sense when you consider ejaculation would release a whole lot of chemicals orgasm alone would not. There is not as sharp a loss of desire after my non-ejaculatory orgasms it is more of a gradual loss and I’m usually satisfied with them alone.

Just for contrast purpose in addition to anal and prostrate play, I can also achieve non-ejaculatory orgasm by putting the Hitachi (Guys We Need To Stop Letting The Ladies Hog This Shit!) on my cock head and let it do its thing. Unlike my P-spot orgasm I need to top off my Hitachi sessions with an ejaculatory orgasm because the physical arousal doesn’t drop at all, I could be exhausted and sore but my erection will somehow persist. I’ve had over ten orgasm with the Hitachi and still needed to finish myself off with an ejaculatory orgasm. I’ve never tried finish myself off with an P-spot orgasm at the end of a Hitachi session thou…I’ve found my next experiment.
09/06/2009
El-Jaro El-Jaro
I had pretty much a hands free one with this.
11/17/2009
anelinvader anelinvader
Yes Yes Yes it is a wonderfull thing I have had several where I have ejaculated and some where I have not and it dose feel differnt. for the most part with me the orgasim i have from prostate stimulation dose not leave me with a limp willy and I can have a few of them and still give my wife a good fucking
11/17/2009
mightyspear mightyspear
Satisfying? It's heavenly! You're in control; he lies there and takes it, whether it's fingers or toy. It's more of an internal feeling than the external penis-type orgasm. It can be overwhelming for the man, building and building and finally exploding. Maybe you should tie him down first. Plus there are other things going on--control (you), giving up control (him), his trust, your enjoyment of giving pleasure, teasing, spinning it out--I'm getting excited! I just ordered the Euphoria Enhanced, and I'm eagerly awaiting its arrival.
12/13/2009
Nihilanth Nihilanth
I can orgasm from anal, without penile stimulation, with relative ease. When I'm very much excited and aroused, I can cum from penetration alone, from the in-and-out motion, by using a dildo on myself... there are times that I just really crave anal, to be penetrated, and using a bigger toy makes me orgasm from that alone, without ever touching my penis. The stretching and that completely filled up feeling creates an extremely intense pressure that, quite literally, just "forces me to cum". It's strange really, but I cum very quickly with that sort of play (in fact, there were times that I have orgasmed from the initial insertion, right when the dildo went in balls-deep... it was quite intense, I was very much excited and felt that I had absolutely no control). These orgasms from anal play, without any penile stimulation, feels incredibly intense. They build up, slowly but very surely, and when I finnaly orgasm it feels like my entire body is climaxing, not just my penis. My whole body twists and turns, on the verge of literally exploding, pulsating from the inside out. I think that one of the main differences from penile orgasms (at least for me, and comparing from masturbation only) comes from that loss of control... something (or someone, if that's the case) is entering you, penetrating you, fucking you, conducting your pleasure and taking control of your entire body (mind, soul?); your excitement just builds and builds until it finnaly collapses, rendering you completely helpless, forced to cum. You are left feeling fucked, violated, satisfied. Pleasured.

But here is an interesting thing: I dont like too much direct pressure on the prostate itself... I always seem to find prostate massage with my fingers a little "too much", almost painful even. I prefer indirect stimulation, from the perineal area and from anal play or penetration. The simple, in-and-out motion, without even aiming for the prostate, feels much better to me.
12/19/2009
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Nihilanth
I can orgasm from anal, without penile stimulation, with relative ease. When I'm very much excited and aroused, I can cum from penetration alone, from the in-and-out motion, by using a dildo on myself... there are times that I just really crave ... More
I find that as I have become more experienced with anal stimulation I too have moved away from the "prostate only" methodology.

Sure, stimulating the prostate feels great, but it seems like it can become a revision of the same error many men make of concentrating on the penis to the exclusion of everything else. There are many other spots that feel good and are stimulated during anal play, and when they're all combined the effect is amazing.
12/23/2009
Di's Guy Di's Guy
Well lets see, can I have orgasms with just prostate massage, YES, YES, YES. Are they as enjoyable as orgasms I have with penis stimulation, no they're ten times more intense and I don't lose all my sexual energy out the end of my cock when I have them so I can continue until I'm totally exhausted. If anyones read my reviews they definetly know I enjoy anal stimulation.
This all started 18 years ago when my wife Di first ran her finger around my tight butt and then slipped a wet finger inside. Anal play has been part of our sex life every since. For many years her finger was all my butt enjoyed but, about eight years ago I started reading and learning about prostate stimulation and bought my first prostate stimulator, the Aneros. By using it I learned the pleasures the prostate could give a man. Before Di's finger was just stimulating my anus but when I felt my prostate being stimulated for the first time with the Aneros it was unbelievable. After a little practice when I used it my body would begin to tremble, I would start making all kinds of sounds, grunts and moans, and the feelings that rose up in my groin were so intense I could hardly stand it. With every contraction of my ass on the Aneros I felt more and more like I was going to cum or pee everywhere but it never happened. I would have orgasm after orgasm like this until my whole body was exhausted and the most that happened with my cock was a lot of precum oozing out.
I moved on from the Aneros to larger dildos,eventually getting Di a strap-on. I enjoy being penetrated anally but it's not as stimulating as prostate massage. Deep penetration is a totally different feeling. Just recently Di has learned how to give me a good prostate massage without going inside my ass. She found a spot between my balls and my anus and when she rubs it just right gives me orgasms as good as when I used the Aneros. We know it's my prostate she's rubbing from the outside and she loves doing it because she can give me full body trembling oragasms over and over again until I'm totally exhausted and beg her to stop. She even like walking up behind me when I'
m fully clothed and she reaches between my legs and rubs that spot and gives me a quick orgasm that usually buckles my knees. The whole time she's doing this
my cock feels like it's going to explode but it never does more then ooze tasty drops of precum.
Recently we've started using glass dildos and I don't know if it's because they are so smooth or that they are harder then other dildos but my prostate has fallen in love with them. My favorite is a golden glass dildo called the Magic Wand. The main end does nothing for me but the handle has a up turned end on it and when I slip it into my butt its just the right size and when it hits my prostate I go toatlly crazy. I think it's because of the size about a half an inch in dia. and with it being at a 90 degree angle it hits my prostate perfectly. Once inside and on my prostate I slowly move it back and forth over my prostate but within seconds I start feeling like I'm going to cum and have a huge orgasm but it never happens, the cumming part, I have plenty of orgagsms. This is when my prostate takes control of my body and makes my hand tremble rapidly pressing hard into my prostate rubbing the end of the dildo extremely fast over it. I can't stop my body from shaking, I hear myself moaning and grunting uncontrollably, the faster I stroke the dildo the more my cock feels like its going to explode off my body, but no ejaculation and I've done this for up to an hour and a half and never had more then a few drops of precum with a little drop or two of white cum in them. But I have had lots and lots of orgasms. So yes I have plenty of orgasms with prostate massage, and when I have prostate orgasms they're ten times more intense and I can have a lot more than just one orgasm in a row the way I do with penis stimulation. Di loves it because it makes me multi orgasmic for her the way she is for me.
01/05/2010
Colossus Colossus
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Originally posted by spicywife
Quite some time ago, when I first started reading and experimenting with massaging my husband's prostate, I had read that a male can orgasm just from that (without stimulation to the penis). I wasn't sure I believed it at first, but the more ... More
It's just different. I have to have some initial penis stimulation, but then after a little rubbing of the prostate, I can cum without touching my penis at all. Pretty incredible feeling, actually. Took awhile to get used to it and appreciate it, though
01/17/2010
RyoKenOhki RyoKenOhki
I still can't resist it some times. I kinda gotta get worked up then relax back down to get my anal toys. But I've had this glass dildo for forever and a day and i have yet to really have a p-spot orgasm. I've gotten amazingly close many times but for me it feels too damn good to just hold it all in. I orgasm much faster by regular masturbation, but prostate stimulation drives me insane!

So alas, I have not yet had a P-spot orgasm, but eventually, one of these days, I'll get my patience and actually try to not touch anything else... tie my hands and have my partner do it or something.
01/22/2010
Beneath The Bed Beneath The Bed
It really would be great to experience this. One day it will happen I'm sure!
02/09/2010
shepegs shepegs
For someone that has never experienced one, how do I look out for the signs that its about to cum?
06/18/2010
ScottA ScottA
The feelings become more and more intense, you might start to moan and wiggle, and if she keeps it up or speeds up you'll go off. Sometimes it helps to have you or her grab around the base of your penis and squeeze gently for a while. Not completely hands-free, but mostly.
07/29/2010
Yoda Yoda
I've been very close, and I get closer every time I try. Of course, it's also possible to over-stimulate the prostate. I find it works best to slowly build up to it. I usually like to start with slow light pressure, usually by means of a small butt plug or my wife's divinely long fingers. From there it's a matter of selecting a toy that is strong yet flexible, and also uniquely shaped to rub the prostate but not assault it.
07/30/2010
Midway through Midway through
I've never had any of my partners orgasm from just prostate stimulation.
08/04/2010
Onanist Onanist
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Originally posted by spicywife
Quite some time ago, when I first started reading and experimenting with massaging my husband's prostate, I had read that a male can orgasm just from that (without stimulation to the penis). I wasn't sure I believed it at first, but the more ... More
It's true and it was difficult as I had to find the right stimulator.
At first, I tried the Classix Prostate Stimulator. It felt good, but just didn't bring me over the edge.
Next I tried the Mens Pleasure Wand. The vibrations felt a lot better, but the toy would not stay in place by itself and I had to constantly push it back in to message my prostate.
Then, I found the Ultimate Prostate Massager™. On my third time using it (last week), I experienced multiple orgasms (without penile stimulation and/or ejaculation). I was reading my favorite erotic swinger stories at the time and built up the vibrations using four of the seven vibrational levels.
After about 20 minutes both my thigh muscles started to shake and I felt a shivering warmth flow throughout my body. I
It was like nothing I experienced before and as my body started to relax I lost the feeling. I stopped reading and concentrated on the vibrations on my prostate and quickly had another non-ejaculatory orgasm.
The more I experienced this, the more I wanted so for another twenty minutes or so I experienced one non-ejaculatory orgasm after another.
I was not able to build it up to an ejaculatory orgasm, but I know with practice it will happen.
I had to stimulate my penis this time to achieve an ejaculatory orgasm. It was the most intense feeling I've ever had ejaculating.
08/04/2010
BJismyname BJismyname
I might be a poor choice to ask this question. Not only have I had the blessed euphoria of anal orgasm, but It's almost guaranteed when my partner tops me. It is nothing like an orgasm from penile stimulation. For me, it is completely uncontrolled and when it first happened to me it was almost too much. I can't say that I've ever had an anal orgasm and NOT had an ejaculatory reaction.

but like I said, I'm a poor choice to ask this question because apparently I'm an exception because of how many and how often I have the pleasure of experiencing it!
08/28/2010
sexysweetieshan sexysweetieshan
I voted for my husband. He hasn't tried to orgasm from only prostate stimulation, or even WITH penile stimulation. He's not much into that kind of play, although hopefully soon I can get him to try things out more.
08/28/2010
Brian Brian
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Originally posted by sexysweetieshan
I voted for my husband. He hasn't tried to orgasm from only prostate stimulation, or even WITH penile stimulation. He's not much into that kind of play, although hopefully soon I can get him to try things out more.
Shan, one of the aneros plugs or even the new peridise might be a good place to start. In fact the peridise is not just for males so if he's not into it you may enjoy it. There both pretty non-intimidating and would be a good introduction even though I know you eventually want to try pegging.
09/01/2010
Anally Fixated Anally Fixated
Quote:
Originally posted by spicywife
Quite some time ago, when I first started reading and experimenting with massaging my husband's prostate, I had read that a male can orgasm just from that (without stimulation to the penis). I wasn't sure I believed it at first, but the more ... More
I have indeed had orgasms simply from prostate stimulation. They were FANTASTIC. Essentially, the reaction you have to this kind of orgasm is almost comparable to a seizure, albeit a VERY pleasurable one. I tend to flail and moan almost uncontrollably at times. I do like penile stimulated orgasms as well, though. They don't feel better than prostate orgasms by any stretch of the imagination, but there is something about orgasming while stimulating my penis that is appealing to me.
09/15/2010
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Brian
Shan, one of the aneros plugs or even the new peridise might be a good place to start. In fact the peridise is not just for males so if he's not into it you may enjoy it. There both pretty non-intimidating and would be a good introduction even ... More
The Peridise is for general anal stimulation and not specifically targeted to the prostate. I'd say go with a wand such as the G-force or a glass wand. You can control the stimulation very well and it's useable on both men and women.
09/15/2010
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