How do I move it forward?

Tightgirl2013 Tightgirl2013
Just last night my husband and I engaged in anal play on him. I loved it! He said he did too.... Which surprised me. He let me finger him and use small vibrators... Even a set of anal beads. I want to move forward with it so that eventually I can use a strap on.... Not sure he would be willing to go that far. How should I proceed?
10/03/2013
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Originally posted by Tightgirl2013
Just last night my husband and I engaged in anal play on him. I loved it! He said he did too.... Which surprised me. He let me finger him and use small vibrators... Even a set of anal beads. I want to move forward with it so that eventually I ... More
The next step, at least for us, was to move up to plugs. Smaller and then larger over time. - C
10/04/2013
CrimsonPandora CrimsonPandora
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Originally posted by Tightgirl2013
Just last night my husband and I engaged in anal play on him. I loved it! He said he did too.... Which surprised me. He let me finger him and use small vibrators... Even a set of anal beads. I want to move forward with it so that eventually I ... More
When I was at that point, me and my boyfriend agreed to shop for some toys he would be interested in trying. I recommend a few plugs, varying in size, and if he's okay with it, a strap on with a dildo the size he is comfortable with. Communication is key.
10/08/2013
Peg Peg
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Originally posted by Tightgirl2013
Just last night my husband and I engaged in anal play on him. I loved it! He said he did too.... Which surprised me. He let me finger him and use small vibrators... Even a set of anal beads. I want to move forward with it so that eventually I ... More
If he enjoyed it as much as you are saying I would recommend asking him if he would enjoy having your hands on his hips while penetrating his ass. If he asks how explain it, if he says yes you have your avswer
10/16/2013
Alex Time Alex Time
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Originally posted by Tightgirl2013
Just last night my husband and I engaged in anal play on him. I loved it! He said he did too.... Which surprised me. He let me finger him and use small vibrators... Even a set of anal beads. I want to move forward with it so that eventually I ... More
Communication is key here. You don't want to whip out a giant dildo and harness and send him running for the hills.

Discuss the experience that you had and tell him how much you enjoyed the night. Gauge his reaction. If he is interested in more anal play then Ask him if he would be interested In keeping a plug or a prostate massager in during normal intercourse. That was definitely a game changer in my mind!

Don't always make it about ass play. This could get him concerned that you are either not happy with his manhood or that you are unhappy with normal sex.

Once you are both a little more comfortable and the right opportunity arises (or you create the right setting - dinner, wine "desert", etc.) discuss this intriguing idea you came across on a forum and you were interested it see what his response would be.

Worst case he says it's not for him.

If yes then let me recommend a great sex education film in the form of Tristan Taorminos anal play for men (the pegging one is a little more hardcore IMO). There are some great tips for the both of you and the demonstration scenes are simply hot as hell!

Good luck!
Feb 5, 7:22 am
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