How long did it take you to find your prostate?

callsignhusker callsignhusker
I've been anally exploring for a while now and still can't find my prostate. I know sometimes it takes a while, but I've used a variety of toys, my finger, and even had my partner help me. So tell me--how long did it take you to find your p-spot?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
The first time I tried, I found it!
31  (52%)
About a week.
3  (5%)
A few months.
6  (10%)
A year.
1  (2%)
More than a year.
2  (3%)
Still searching...
11  (18%)
I haven't tried.
6  (10%)
Total votes: 60
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03/08/2011
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ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
First time I put my finger in I found it.

Some ideas to try. First, make sure you are fully aroused and good and hard. When you are the prostate engorges and that makes it much easier to find. You are feeling for a bump/ball about the size of a walnut about 1-2" inside on the front wall (towards your belly) of the rectum. The closer you get to climax the bigger it will get, so that may help too.



I found the best way to stimulate it in the beginning is with my middle finger and use a "come here" motion. If you have a partner that can help that is even better.
03/08/2011
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
I'm answering for my man - we found it the second time we went looking - kinda. I wasn't intentionally trying for it the first time, I was just trying to get him used to anal fingering - I knew where it was and it would've been nice to come across it, but it wasn't a goal. The second time, we found it in about 60 seconds - but it varies for everyone.
03/08/2011
ScottA ScottA
It's easier to find if you're sexually excited, because the prostate will firm up. Try doing a little play first and having another go.

It's about 2" inside on the "front".
03/08/2011
Tidwtrguy Tidwtrguy
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03/08/2011
guy4guyz420 guy4guyz420
I don't really know what to say here.
03/09/2011
slynch slynch
a few minutes
03/10/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
I'm going hunting tonight!
03/11/2011
Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Unlike the g-spot...it's really not that hard to find. Have fun!
03/12/2011
thebest thebest
first time
07/28/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by callsignhusker
I've been anally exploring for a while now and still can't find my prostate. I know sometimes it takes a while, but I've used a variety of toys, my finger, and even had my partner help me. So tell me--how long did it take you to find your p-spot?
We read up on where to "look" and she found it in three seconds with her finger. Been playing happily ever since.
08/18/2011
ScottA ScottA
Once I started looking for it it was pretty fast.
09/10/2011
roxasjagashi roxasjagashi
My husband found it very quickly I was surprised.
09/10/2011
Hidden Hidden
I don't think I've found mine, or maybe it just isn't as pleasurable as it is to some others.
10/19/2011
Entropy Entropy
It took me a few minutes the first time, but even as experienced as I am now, there are times where it seems "elusive". Different toys require me to search around sometimes too.
01/06/2012
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
Literally in a matter of seconds.
07/08/2012
abbylover abbylover
i wish
07/25/2012
konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by callsignhusker
I've been anally exploring for a while now and still can't find my prostate. I know sometimes it takes a while, but I've used a variety of toys, my finger, and even had my partner help me. So tell me--how long did it take you to find your p-spot?
Well, if I didn't find it, then whatever I'm hitting is getting the job done!
10/09/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by callsignhusker
I've been anally exploring for a while now and still can't find my prostate. I know sometimes it takes a while, but I've used a variety of toys, my finger, and even had my partner help me. So tell me--how long did it take you to find your p-spot?
The first time I tried, I found it!
10/09/2012
The Majikat The Majikat
This was very helpful!
10/25/2012
1001 Pleasures 1001 Pleasures
The best way to find it is with a toy that's not too intimidating.
12/22/2012
Luca77 Luca77
Found it without actually looking for it. I didn't even know what the prostate was at that point, I had just knew it was in that area.
04/20/2013
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
It wasn't that hard...
04/20/2013
dancingduo dancingduo
Quote:
Originally posted by callsignhusker
I've been anally exploring for a while now and still can't find my prostate. I know sometimes it takes a while, but I've used a variety of toys, my finger, and even had my partner help me. So tell me--how long did it take you to find your p-spot?
I found it right away, but am still trying to figure out what feels the best.
04/20/2013
Alex Time Alex Time
I didn't go out to find it at first. I was simply getting used to playing with my ass. I couldn't reach it myself, so I think mine is a little deeper. Toys have definitely helped and my fiancé found it by hand the first time the other day.
06/15/2013
Total posts: 25
Unique posters: 24