How/what is the best way to hit the p-spot?

Bittenflame Bittenflame
I would like to know, so I can make my partner orgasm this way as well
07/02/2012
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ScottA ScottA
#1 thing: don't do this as a surprise. Anal is never a good surprise.

What to use: your finger, lube, a glove if you want.

What to do: Warn him. Let him go to the bathroom and make sure he's ready. Then you stimulate his penis somehow. Get him very excited (it makes the prostate firm up and become easier to find). Find a comfortable position where you can get at his anus and penis and he can relax. On his back, knees bent, feet near his butt often works well. Continue to stimulate him, but don't bring him to orgasm. Take your lubed finger and run it around his anus to allow him to get used to the sensations. After a while his anus will start to relax again, then you can gently insert your finger pretty much all the way. Feel towards his belly button for a bump - that's his prostate. Try different stimulation to see what he likes - forward/backward, side-to-side, pressure, etc.
07/07/2012
Bittenflame Bittenflame
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
#1 thing: don't do this as a surprise. Anal is never a good surprise.

What to use: your finger, lube, a glove if you want.

What to do: Warn him. Let him go to the bathroom and make sure he's ready. Then you stimulate his penis ... More
lol my partner is a woman
07/10/2012
ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Bittenflame
lol my partner is a woman
My apologies - most people still refer to the female prostate as the G-spot and save "prostate" for the male prostate.

In that case it's easier. Just put your finger in the vagina about 2-3" and press upwards.
07/11/2012
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