Ladies Feeling the P-Spot

BuckeyeGal04 BuckeyeGal04
We really want to explore his P-spot more, but haven't been successful yet. Ladies, besides communicating with one another, do you have any advice or wisdom for me to help him?
01/21/2012
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Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
From my own experimenting I found that prostates are like G-spots in that they can be located a different distance inside on different men. Usually you can reach/touch it with an index finger, but I had one partner whose spot was in far enough that all I could touch was the edge of it. What you're feeling for is a slightly raised area that will be firmer than everything around it. You might also want to try a vibrating toy (like the Naughty Boy or ProTouch plug maybe) because vibrations seem to make up for lack of exact targeting in there

~M
01/22/2012
BuckeyeGal04 BuckeyeGal04
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Originally posted by Alan & Michele
From my own experimenting I found that prostates are like G-spots in that they can be located a different distance inside on different men. Usually you can reach/touch it with an index finger, but I had one partner whose spot was in far enough that ... More
Thanks for the tips, Michele!
01/25/2012
bekabu bekabu
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Originally posted by BuckeyeGal04
We really want to explore his P-spot more, but haven't been successful yet. Ladies, besides communicating with one another, do you have any advice or wisdom for me to help him?
Lube up a bullet and while you are going down on him slowly slip it in but u have to keep pleasuring him so the pleasure can distract him from the feeling of the bullet...slowly advance the bullet higher and continue pleasuring him. He will enjoy the end result
01/26/2012
Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
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Originally posted by bekabu
Lube up a bullet and while you are going down on him slowly slip it in but u have to keep pleasuring him so the pleasure can distract him from the feeling of the bullet...slowly advance the bullet higher and continue pleasuring him. He will enjoy the ... More
With all due respect this isn't the safest idea for anal play. Bullets can travel up far enough to be impossible to reach by anyone but a doctor, and it's not a good idea to rely on a scrawny cord (assuming it has one) for retrieval. If you must use one, put it in a condom first and then keep a tight grip on the end of the condom.
01/27/2012
Snozzberries Snozzberries
On my husband, it took my middle finger being all the way inside (which he liked) to feel the rough, swollen p-spot (which he REALLY liked). I'm still learning how to do this but that was enough encouragement for me to feel confident to continue exploring.

And I second the idea of a toy. Even though you can't feel what's going on inside, it might make it easier to feel confident with the penetration versus fiddling around with a finger. And they do hit a lot more area than just a finger.

Now I know how those teenage guys must have felt back in my high school, but this time *I* am the fingering noob.
02/05/2012
ScottA ScottA
Make sure he's very excited. When a man is excited the prostate will swell and firm up, making it much easier to find.
02/08/2012
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