My BF and I have begun to explore prostate massage, I went out and bought him an aneros after reading so many wonderfull things about it. He does love it and yes it does seem too have a learning curve to it. My question is if it feels so good and he comes so close to orgasms with the aneros and Penis stimulation but he just can't quite get there. It's like the aneros is stopping an ejaculation? Is that possible? Would it be that the sensations are too different that it can only be one or the other, but not both?