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Have you tried the Billy vibe by Lelo, Njoy pure wand, any Njoy plugs or the Drei by Fun Factory ?
Pure wand should do it.
Whichever, close eyes and relax.
I agree w/ OH&W a key is relaxing. Also the sensations/experience kind of is something you have to get used to... seems over time this kind of sexual release only grows in intensity.
But I'm curious as well as to what toys you've tried so far. Are any of them p-spot specific? Aneros does a good job applying low to medium pressure the prostate, but I know some guys have indicated they need more direct pressure. I could see the Njoy Pure Wand or Billy where you have more control over the pressure being useful if you are on a spectrum or need additional pressure.
But again, relax and enjoy the experience. If you are thinking too much about it, it's unlikely to happen.