P-spot (total body) orgasm techniques and advice?

pollux pollux
Please excuse the novel - I've posted on here before about having a p-spot orgasm and have tried a lot the suggestions people have given. I feel like every time I try I get closer and closer to having that total body prostate orgasm. Tonight I got closer than I've ever been before - so close I could feel myself about to scream (or at least moan very loudly). I was using my entire anal toy arsenal (Hand Maiden, Billy, Feeldoe, and Blue Spiral G glass dildo). I was going solo and must have been at it for close to two hours, longer than ever before. I felt myself going up the hill toward my goal, faster and faster with increasing pleasure and literally felt like I was millimeters away from having an anal orgasm. But it never happened.

Part of the reason I failed this time had to do with getting tired. I was at it for so long. Another reason I usually fail (though not a problem tonight) - I usually start stroking my cock and reach a point where I can't stop with the hand job and just finish myself off before any real prostate action happens.

Tonight I kept my hands away from my cock (mostly) and used plenty of lube. I took most of the advice people have given before (going slow, not rushing, not going to pee despite the urge) and discovered a new trick on my own. I found that if I took long strokes with my glass dildo - bringing it completely out, then sliding it back in and hitting my prostate at a moderate speed - worked wonders. I also like to use slow, firm pressure, kind of like stroking, with the head of the dildo. After a few cycles of this I can feel prostate fluid moving down my cock, and boy does that feel good.

But the best part was definitely the thrusting where the dildo came out and slid back in over and over. And like I said, I got so close - so frustratingly close!

Can anyone give me any other pointers? Should I set aside three hours next time? Should I work through being tired?

My ass feels so good right now, and the pleasure I felt from the almost-orgasm I had was great, but I still long desperately for that full body orgasm. . . . any advice would be greatly appreciated!
01/13/2013
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stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
I don't think it should take 2 hours.
What have you done prior to starting. Have you edged yourself, or watched porn to build the prostate size sensitivity?
What position were you in? did you change positions from laying on your back to your side to kneeling, to sitting up?
Part of the reason might have been the need to pee, or the feeling of needing to have you tried putting a condom over your penis and doing the kegels? or having towels near by or on the bathroom floor or in the shower?
Doing the kegels (trying to stop the flow of urine does wonders for me when I achieve the full body orgasm, & not worrying about the need to pee helps me.
01/15/2013
ScottA ScottA
Trying too hard can kill a prostate or anal orgasm. You need to get a comfortable place and "relax" into it - enjoy the feelings where you are rather than thinking about the next step.

It's also a bit more like a G-spot orgasm, since you need repetitive stimulation. Don't change things up when it's feeling good.
01/17/2013
1001 Pleasures 1001 Pleasures
Almost every P-spot orgasm I have achieved has been through anal sex. For me, I find that it's easier to get there (masturbating) if I use a toy that's comfortable enough to do a little in-and-out thrusting; not too roughly, just enough to target the prostate and then work it back and forth over the spot. Slender/smooth toys that have a uniform girth work the best in my case. But honestly, P-spot orgasms are a lot like a Bingo game; you can play and play, but you won't hit it all the time.
02/14/2013
dm dm
You are further along than me. I will keep trying!
08/08/2013
Tork48309 Tork48309
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Originally posted by ScottA
Trying too hard can kill a prostate or anal orgasm. You need to get a comfortable place and "relax" into it - enjoy the feelings where you are rather than thinking about the next step.

It's also a bit more like a G-spot orgasm, ... More
Well said ScottA, have patience and enjoy the ride.
08/10/2013
cmm cmm
Quote:
Originally posted by pollux
Please excuse the novel - I've posted on here before about having a p-spot orgasm and have tried a lot the suggestions people have given. I feel like every time I try I get closer and closer to having that total body prostate orgasm. Tonight I ... More
You're lucky, I can't even seem to find mine.
08/26/2013
Eugler Eugler
I had an aneros helix, I read that it would be easiest with the helix.

Before playing with my aneros I do relaxation techniques like Yoga or PMR.

Maybe you will find here some hints:

link
08/26/2013
Alex Time Alex Time
Quote:
Originally posted by pollux
Please excuse the novel - I've posted on here before about having a p-spot orgasm and have tried a lot the suggestions people have given. I feel like every time I try I get closer and closer to having that total body prostate orgasm. Tonight I ... More
Sounds amazing! I have the same problem as you in that I feel so close I just never go over the edge.

I will use some helpful hints I read in the replies here tonight.

Really, just having such a great time trying though.
Feb 5, 6:42 am
Alex Time Alex Time
Quote:
Originally posted by pollux
Please excuse the novel - I've posted on here before about having a p-spot orgasm and have tried a lot the suggestions people have given. I feel like every time I try I get closer and closer to having that total body prostate orgasm. Tonight I ... More
Sounds amazing! I have the same problem as you in that I feel so close I just never go over the edge.

I will use some helpful hints I read in the replies here tonight.

Really, just having such a great time trying though.
Feb 5, 6:42 am
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