Pegging by the numbers

Peg Peg
For those of you who are into pegging what age group did you fall into when your first time was and where you are now. Comments are always welcome.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Started in 20's
111
Started in 30's
29
Started in 40's
19
Started in 50's
4
Started in 60's +
Now in 20's
54
Now in 30's
21
Now in 40's
10
Now in 50's
9
Now over 60's +
2
Total votes: 259 (175 voters)
Poll is closed
07/18/2010
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Peg Peg
He had it offered when he was in his 20's and said NO WAY, never going to happen, now in his 40's and say yes every time. I guess that is why they say never say never.
07/18/2010
shepegs shepegs
It takes all typed but for pegging, the more mature the better. It's about pleasing each other and a huge taboo. It's sexy, it's naughty and you can't tell your friends. And frankly, they'll never have a clue.
07/18/2010
shepegs shepegs
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Originally posted by Peg
He had it offered when he was in his 20's and said NO WAY, never going to happen, now in his 40's and say yes every time. I guess that is why they say never say never.
So you were into it before him?
07/18/2010
Peg Peg
Quote:
Originally posted by shepegs
So you were into it before him?
No it was his idea what about you guys, whose idea was it?
07/18/2010
shepegs shepegs
Quote:
Originally posted by Peg
No it was his idea what about you guys, whose idea was it?
Mine. She didn't like the idea bu now LOVES it. Quite good at it too.
07/18/2010
Owl Identified Owl Identified
Started a year ago (at 21) and still doing it. I loooove it and I'm so glad my partner is into it, he's a dear
07/18/2010
NuMe NuMe
Actually the harness, dil and pegging were my husbands birthday present last year. He's 53.

I had never even heard of pegging until I came to EF last year.
07/18/2010
Peg Peg
Quote:
Originally posted by NuMe
Actually the harness, dil and pegging were my husbands birthday present last year. He's 53.

I had never even heard of pegging until I came to EF last year.
Whose idea was it?
07/18/2010
NuMe NuMe
Quote:
Originally posted by Peg
Whose idea was it?
My husband's. We were looking at stuff on EF one day and he noticed a harness. I mentioned that I had read about pegging and he said he wanted to try it.
07/18/2010
ghostmonkey22 ghostmonkey22
Started in the twenties and like it so much I'm going to make it a regular thing
07/18/2010
Kinky Skier Kinky Skier
i honestly just got pegged for the first time last night and loved it. I was such a great experience for both of us. She was skeptical, i have been bringing it up a lot lately, and, after a month of the harness sitting in the drawer we finally had some drinks and got into it!

afterward it was both agreed upon that it was a great time. My wife mentioned she got a good idea of waht it was like to be in charge and actually had a fun time with it. She even offered to do it again after, but i was too tired

we will be doing it again
07/18/2010
Brian Brian
Quote:
Originally posted by Kinky Skier
i honestly just got pegged for the first time last night and loved it. I was such a great experience for both of us. She was skeptical, i have been bringing it up a lot lately, and, after a month of the harness sitting in the drawer we finally had ... More
So you actually bought a harness even though she wasn't into it? What was her reason for not being into it? What do you think helped change her mind? Time or something you did?
07/19/2010
clp clp
Quote:
Originally posted by Kinky Skier
i honestly just got pegged for the first time last night and loved it. I was such a great experience for both of us. She was skeptical, i have been bringing it up a lot lately, and, after a month of the harness sitting in the drawer we finally had ... More
That is such a fantastic experience. I'm so glad that she ended up enjoying it, even if she didn't like the idea at first. I agree with her--that first taste of strap-on power can be intoxicating.
07/19/2010
Kinky Skier Kinky Skier
we initially started with prostate massages you know, but then, drunk, i mentioned i wanted her to fuck me, cna i say that here? anyways, that was a while ago, fast forward to 2009, and me starting to review products here. I mention it again, this may be the third time, and she says someday sure. After mentioning it again, she only said it was a cost thing. I wanted quality products you know? if this experience was going to be bad at all, i didn't want it to be frustrating due to poor quality products. I wanted everything to be perfect, so only the experience could suck. no pun intended ;-), ojk yeah it was on purpose.

so the cost was an issue. but once i did a couple video reviews and got the mid summer 35% off coupon, our whole set up was only like $30

$30 for a Spareparts Harness and a Tantus curve dildo. We saved like $100

anyways, she was open to the idea, but did admit she wanted to have a few drinks before we ever did it. so the toys sat in the drawer for a few weeks, she went away for work, and when she returned, was in her period (that means if she want to fool around, basically its all about me ) so we went at it.

it was a fantastic experience. We have a book, the adventurous cou-les guide to strapon sex

link

i asked her to read it, i even highlighted areas i wanted to share with her, how i felt, why i wanted it, what i wanted to do. I'm still not sure if she read it, but that night everything was perfect. I went down on her, we did a few positions, and I had a mind blowing orgasm. Plus, she mentioned she liked it, the new experience of being in charge was exhilarating for her. We may still need to drink before hand, so she opens up a bit, but now that I know she likes it, I'm super relieved and hope it happens more often!
07/19/2010
shepegs shepegs
Quote:
Originally posted by Kinky Skier
we initially started with prostate massages you know, but then, drunk, i mentioned i wanted her to fuck me, cna i say that here? anyways, that was a while ago, fast forward to 2009, and me starting to review products here. I mention it again, this ... More
Good for you. My girl was not so crazy about it at first then later just did it as a "if it makes you happy" kinda thing. Now she LOVES it. So it's an acquired taste I suppose.

That book sucks btw. Nothing new about it. I do like the stories somewhat.
07/28/2010
Liz2 Liz2
The first time I pegged a guy, I was about 20. I am a strap-on enthusiast doing strap-on play with a g/f beginning prior to a b/f.
My present b/f loves to be pegged, when he wants sex this way, he usually chooses a harness for me and a dil.
Though I also love to receive anal sex, I have no choice in cocks. My b/f has a large head so I need prep. to receive him. Whereas my b/f just chooses a dil that he feels like taking.
07/28/2010
ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by shepegs
Good for you. My girl was not so crazy about it at first then later just did it as a "if it makes you happy" kinda thing. Now she LOVES it. So it's an acquired taste I suppose.

That book sucks btw. Nothing new about it. I do ... More
I have yet to find a really good pegging-targeted book. The Violet Blue one does a good job with the "why" and fears sections, but starts to get more and more vague as you go on. Is there one that targets the why and fears, but then goes on to a good discussion of equipment (including doubles/strapless dildos), positions, things to keep in mind, and ways to expand on it? Haven't found one yet.

The "general" anal books are the ones I recommend now.
07/28/2010
shepegs shepegs
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
I have yet to find a really good pegging-targeted book. The Violet Blue one does a good job with the "why" and fears sections, but starts to get more and more vague as you go on. Is there one that targets the why and fears, but then goes on ... More
I've never seen the "Bend over BF" videos, but I've heard good things about them. They are just pretty expensive since it's a niche.
07/28/2010
Ready & Willing Ready & Willing
Quote:
Originally posted by Peg
For those of you who are into pegging what age group did you fall into when your first time was and where you are now. Comments are always welcome.
Never would have thought about being pegged until my wife and I started to build our toy collection. We had been married about 6 years and had very open and trusting relationship which makes takes away inhibitions. It started one day when my wife tells me about a neighbor who caught her husband in the shower using a shampoo bottle for Anal play. The neighbor was shocked and obviously had to tell someone to get it out of the system.
That night my wife and I are in bed having fun with a long session of sex and a few toys for her. My wife grabs a dildo and says obviously the neighbor guy found it pleasurable, wanna try it out? So I give it a shot and let her give it to me with a dildo anally. It was ok and she seamed to like the sense of power it gave her which made it more fun. Progressed slowly with occasional anal session and different dildos and vibrators she wanted to try on me.
Fast forward a couple of years and we stopped by a sex shop to browse for toys. Walking by the strap-on section she spots a complete kit with strap-on and 2 different sized dildos. Wanna try this one Honey?
07/31/2010
shepegs shepegs
Quote:
Originally posted by Ready & Willing
Never would have thought about being pegged until my wife and I started to build our toy collection. We had been married about 6 years and had very open and trusting relationship which makes takes away inhibitions. It started one day when my wife ... More
That's awesome. So how has it evolved beyond that point? Is there certain positions that are better and does she get off in the process?
07/31/2010
Ready & Willing Ready & Willing
Quote:
Originally posted by shepegs
That's awesome. So how has it evolved beyond that point? Is there certain positions that are better and does she get off in the process?
Needless to say Pegging has become a routine part of our sex life. She loves the extreme feeling of power and now with the assortment of toys like the SHARE and FEELDOE she gets even more personal satisfaction. Now for me I would rather mount up on a strap-on or strapless strap-on with her than have any other type of toy by itself. Glad I trust her not to tell the neighbor ladies what I like!

Her favorite position and mine seems to be the cowboy with the SHARE dildo. She loves the feeling of fullness from the bulb and the pressure of me on top. Grabbing my hips and pulling me down onto her makes it really intense. She doesn't get off all the time but since I always take care of her first before we start pegging, its not a problem. I like being able to massage her breast and she can grab my cock if she lets go of my hips. Now I am able to get off and cover her breast in a hot spray which she loves to feel every time.
07/31/2010
Robin Goodfellow Robin Goodfellow
Started at 18, freshman year of college with a Jr. girl downstairs. I was really into anal sex, and in my experience you can only enter a womans ass so many times before shes curious about yours. However, I didn't know that at the time. After having lived that pattern many times, its pretty much a standard play in my playbook as to how to turn a good girl into a pegging rockstar
08/06/2010
Midway through Midway through
I started not long ago. So I guess that sortof throws the stats some.
08/07/2010
shepegs shepegs
Quote:
Originally posted by Robin Goodfellow
Started at 18, freshman year of college with a Jr. girl downstairs. I was really into anal sex, and in my experience you can only enter a womans ass so many times before shes curious about yours. However, I didn't know that at the time. After ... More
LOL, love it!
08/07/2010
ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by shepegs
I've never seen the "Bend over BF" videos, but I've heard good things about them. They are just pretty expensive since it's a niche.
From what I've heard they're old and don't really cover too much of the important stuff. It seems that so many of the pegging/anal strapon resources cover why it can be fun, fears, and what you need and that's about it. It's sad, but for information about how I find the women's and gay resources better, and my guess is that these will scare off some potential peggers.
08/08/2010
Peg Peg
Really surprised at how many started in thier 20's, I guess we got started late.
08/08/2010
ScottA ScottA
Probably has a lot to do with age. Pegging really "came of age" and became a widely known (comparatively) sex practice in the mid-'90s on, so most people who practice it probably started at about the same time. For those who are younger (and for whom pegging has been discussed for much of their life), '20s is usually the time when you are in a stable enough relationship to bring up things like more adventurous sex practices.
08/27/2010
shepegs shepegs
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
Probably has a lot to do with age. Pegging really "came of age" and became a widely known (comparatively) sex practice in the mid-'90s on, so most people who practice it probably started at about the same time. For those who are younger ... More
I'm surprised so many people in their 20's actually started pegging. You would think their 30's or 40's because by then they would be in a relationship long enough to have that sort of intimacy and stability. I have a feeling that in that age it is more of an exploration then an intimate practice. But I could be wrong of course.

So where to these guys meet women who are open to pegging? Seems like the average woman is turned off by such an act.
08/27/2010
Redhotbum Redhotbum
Quote:
Originally posted by Peg
For those of you who are into pegging what age group did you fall into when your first time was and where you are now. Comments are always welcome.
Peg,
I'm 45 and have been pegged (with a previous girlfriend, when I was 33) and I loved it. Now I've been married for 11 years and my wife has no problem with anal play (giving &receiving ) she will use a dildo on me if I ask and she will sometimes ask to, my problem is she seems to be repulsed by me wanting her to use a strap on harness. But I want it so bad how do I change her mind? Tomorrow is our 11th anniversary and I was hoping to get her drunk and get her to use the feeldoe that I bought a few months back hoping to "get pegged" I haven't brought it up yet but I did break it out last Saturday and used it handheld on her but not me yet. Can you help me?
08/27/2010
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