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He brought it up. I wouldn't have pressured him into it if it wasn't something he wanted to do. That's just rape-y and wrong.
Haha. Rape-y is a good word for it. On topic with this post though, I could sense that my boyfriend wanted to try it, but it took a little pushing on my part to make him see that he should validate his sexual desires. I wasn't particularly my interest, but I just wanted to be sure I wasn't accidentally denying him something he wanted, even if he felt dirty admitting it sometimes.