What are some good dildo's and harnesses for pegging?

jg19 jg19
My wife and i really want to try peggin what dildos would everyone recommend.
11/24/2012
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the spur vixskin is a good dildo. The minx harness is a great harness, though on the expensive side.
11/24/2012
ScottA ScottA
Start off with the dildo. Get one that's made of silicone, has a smooth surface and a curve. I'd recommend playing with other toys until you're comfortable with a size of about 1.5" diameter x 6" long (or bigger).

Get a dildo with a flange for an O-ring harness as there are many more options. Tantus or Vixen are both very good - I recommend the Tantus Curve or a similarly sized Tantus/Vixen dildo for a first toy.

Once you get the dildo play with it for a while and make sure you still like the idea. If you do then get a decent harness. Sportsheets makes some decent but not too expensive harnesses. If you're pretty sure you'll do it a lot go ahead and spring for a nice one from Aslan or SpareParts.
11/25/2012
Chou Wang Chou Wang
Depending on the size you're into I'd recommend the Ultra skin cock. The material is great in a sense that the toy is firm enough but not too hard during penetration. Due to it's 2" size the pressure on the prostate is great and the sensations from stretching the sphincter are amazing. It's great for hard thrusting and rough pegging sessions too. A good toy to prepare for the Ultra skin cock is the inflatable Gapers organic plug.
The harness it's very individual and I guess your wife should read some reviews and decide for herself.
Another option is to use the Feeldoe slim or any other of the same type. This will take some practice but provides a lot pore sensations for both of you and it's good for training the pelvic muscles.
12/13/2012
Alex Time Alex Time
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Originally posted by jg19
My wife and i really want to try peggin what dildos would everyone recommend.
I agree with Scott. Chou is a little ambitious for a first timer. Some additional recommendations:

- get some plugs. This will help with stretching so that you can learn to relax your ass. Sounds weird but when something wants to come in its a natural reaction to clench shut even when you're doing it, let alone someone else. Something like njoy medium at 1.25" at first.
- optionally get something like njoy pure wand. This will helps with very direct p spot stimulation. It takes a little learning but it is rewarding. Teaches you how to directly stimulate your p spot so that you know where it is and how much pressure you need to cum.
- next up, get a good entry level dildo. Having someone thrusting into your ass is very different, even from a plug or direct stimulator or prostate toy. I was very ambitious at first and got a tantus curve beginner harness kit - great value for money! I will tell you that even though I can take a 2" plug (njoy 2.0 or rocks off big boy) having someone thrusting into my ass with the curve at 1 3/8" was a little weird.
- I therefore got the tantus acute at 1 1/4"... and I will say that it was the best thing for me! I enjoy that little thing so much! The tantus charmer is also great to mess around with for texture play. I am about to graduate back to the curve soon. Personally I recon anything under 1 1/4" is not worth it, you will move up way too quickly!
- next purchase for me will either be the tantus echo or the vibrating Leo at 1 1/2" but that is in the next couple of months!

I also just purchased a joque spare parts harness. Great for messing around in and when we're done we just chuck it into the machine and it doesn't even lose the missus' hip settings. Great harness when you know it's for you.

I hope this helps!
05/10/2013
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