For me it was weird because when I was in college I just got this sense that I could derive pleasure from having something in my butt. I would masturbate with the handle of a spoon or knife in my butt, and for a while I did that consistently, although I eventually stopped because I wasn't sure that I was getting anything from it. I must have liked it though because I did do it for some time, but I kept it a secret from my gf at the time. Long before that, when I was little, I used to experience the most incredible pleasure from climbing a pole near my house. It was truly a sublime feeling that I had been trying to replicate for nearly 30 years, but once I started masturbating and having orgasms, I found I could no longer have this feeling while I shimmied at the top of a pole. I definitely tried, and I was able to link the pleasure I was having as a youngster to something sexual later on.
Moving forward, I've dated several women over the years that had extreme gspot orgams while we were having sex. One would see colors with her eyes open and practically go into seizures while she was cumming. I thought the sex was awesome obviously, but I was pretty jealous of the amount of pleasure these girls were having while I had to settle for one pop. Thus began my search to see if there was a male equivalent of the Gspot, and that led me to the Aneros. The Aneros and other toys like it, in addition to many dildos that I now can't live without, have gotten me to the same place as these girls that I've dated and I'm very very happy for that. Finding my Pspot has also enabled me to get back to the feeling of me climbing the pole again when I was little, and that has been incredible.