If you had to choose...

Contributor: Curiouscat Curiouscat
Opposite I guess. Some (most from my experience) girls can get annoying after a while. It depends on the person though…
03/07/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
For a relationship? Women.
For sexual activity? Men.

My ideal partner is a trans*woman. =P
03/13/2012
Contributor: TheParrishism TheParrishism
Guys but that is because I get along with them better in the long term.
03/22/2012
Contributor: Caus Caus
What a hard question, lol. I can't bring myself to choose.
03/22/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
Opposite gender. I would prefer a real dick to a dildo or strap on.
03/28/2012
Contributor: tigertiger tigertiger
Quote:
Originally posted by Jenyana
If you had to choose between being with someone of your gender or somebody of the opposite gender, which would you pick for a monogamous long-term relationship?
i'd prob prefer another lady
03/28/2012
Contributor: bison bison
Same gender for sure
03/30/2012
Contributor: plaidvulva plaidvulva
Gender to me is irrelevant. I just want someone I can spend time with and never get tired of.
03/30/2012
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by Jenyana
If you had to choose between being with someone of your gender or somebody of the opposite gender, which would you pick for a monogamous long-term relationship?
I did choose - I'm married to a man, now, and I'm a female.
04/23/2012
Contributor: CadmiumKitty CadmiumKitty
I am by far more physically attracted to the same gender, however emotionally more attracted to the opposite gender.
04/24/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
I'm only attracted to women and I'm a male.


Oops, I just saw that this was in the bi category.
04/24/2012
Contributor: blondie blondie
Quote:
Originally posted by CadmiumKitty
I am by far more physically attracted to the same gender, however emotionally more attracted to the opposite gender.
same
04/24/2012
Contributor: RedinRopes RedinRopes
I find myself, when I think of it, imagining my forever with a woman. So, same gender..
05/02/2012
Contributor: SouthernBelle SouthernBelle
Maybe it's because I'm already committed, but I think a woman. I haven't found a man that clicked with me as well as my partner has, and I am 100% satisfied in being with a woman.
05/04/2012
Contributor: Nirelan Nirelan
I've never been in a relationship with a woman, only the opposite sex....SO I'm not sure! Next relationship (Lord forbid anything ever happen with the current one!) I'm going to jump ship!
05/05/2012
Contributor: Nirelan Nirelan
Quote:
Originally posted by Ghost
Probably a guy. But I guess I'm biased because I'm already stuck with one.
I am too, but next time I'm trying something different! LOL
05/05/2012
Contributor: Chami Chami
i prefer the opposite gender
05/13/2012
Contributor: vitriolicvertigo vitriolicvertigo
Same gender. I would love a GQ partner, they understand who I am and where I'm coming from.
06/06/2012
Contributor: peachmarie peachmarie
It really would depend on the person. I am attracted to dominant personality's, if i found a woman who was dominant to me and could make me feel safe and secure as i do with most men then i would consider being with them long term. I just know that the woman i lived with would need to be level headed and not as emotional as i am for our relationship to work. But other than that i think it comes down to love and respect, not penis or vagina.
06/06/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
Opposite, I've never been interested in the same sex.
08/13/2012
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
male.............for now anyway
09/11/2012
Contributor: Pastafariette Pastafariette
For me, it depends on the personality. Gender doesn't mean squat.
05/06/2013
Contributor: RigWife RigWife
I love my hubby so I guess its fine but sometimes being with a girl would be nice
05/12/2013
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
This is a difficult question, because I could seem myself with either long term. If I had to choose ultimately though, I'd probably choose a woman. I find myself more attracted to them and more emotionally connected.
05/20/2013