Ladies, has someone every commented to you, "How can you be bi-sexual, You're too pretty to like girls?"

msammunition msammunition
People kill me with this I'm too pretty, lol, it's hilarious; so if I was ugly it would be fine for me to like women. Stop asking this, you sound so ignorant, ugh!
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Total votes: 54
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05/22/2012
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Nirelan Nirelan
pshhh lol most people think it's awesome, and if they don't I don't care...I usually don't hang with people that are close minded anyway.
05/22/2012
Peggi Peggi
WOW I've never heard anyone say that to me but to be perfectly honest I'd be tempted to punch them in the face if they ever did. I can look good and like girls all at the same time contrary to their belief
05/22/2012
Beck Beck
I actually have heard this comment before, but it wasn't to me personally. It was to a friend of mine who is a lesbian. She was told by her uncle when she came out to the family. He asked her..."But you're a beautiful girl, how can you only like girls? You can have any guy you want."

REALLY ignorant statement.
05/22/2012
Badass Badass
It is an incredibly mean statement that I really wish people wouldn't say. A pretty girl is a pretty girl, regardless of what team she plays for.
05/22/2012
friendswithfangs friendswithfangs
oh my goodness, the ignorance of people astounds me. and is also hilarious.
if they find girls so attractive why would they not understand you being attracted to them too, though? PEOPLE....
05/22/2012
Llahsram Llahsram
WOW is that dumb.
05/22/2012
Emerlyn Emerlyn
No, but I've heard other things. The amount of biphobia from both sides of the spectrum is astounding.
05/22/2012
solitudinarian solitudinarian
I'm straight, but wow... what a jerk. Reminds me of how people tell my sister that she doesn't look like a lesbian... sigh.
05/23/2012
CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
wow. I guess the group(s) I hang out with usually think it's just hot.
05/23/2012
Chilipepper Chilipepper
A male friend of mine is usually told "You look too flaming to be bi!"

I really don't know which is worse - they both sounds equally asinine.
05/23/2012
BiLikesSciFi42 BiLikesSciFi42
I've never heard that.... when I recently came out publicly as bi, the most offensive comment I got was "Wow you're boyfriend is a lucky guy!" right... because bisexual automatically means he'll get threesomes, right? Wrong.
05/23/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by msammunition
People kill me with this I'm too pretty, lol, it's hilarious; so if I was ugly it would be fine for me to like women. Stop asking this, you sound so ignorant, ugh!
That's just such a wrong statement...
05/23/2012
SouthernBelle SouthernBelle
I've had something similar happen to me. It wasn't necessarily that I was too pretty, but just that I'm so passing no one sees in coming until I mention it. It's always fun to throw people off though. Just make it a positive experience instead of letting ignorance get to you.
05/25/2012
Kitka Kitka
That's just ridiculous! I've never had anyone say that to me before.
05/25/2012
Amber1w Amber1w
wow, that's stupid, let me ask u is it a guy askin u this or other women nad what does that have anything to do with ur sexuality
05/25/2012
hall5885 hall5885
Yep, had it happen to me. It's just like when they say about lesbians being "pretty enough" to get any man they want so why would they want to go with only woman. Yes, I've heard of that one too. I normally reply back "What can I say? I'm just so pretty that both genders can't help but want me." It normally shuts them up.
05/27/2012
mistre$$ mistre$$
WOW. Ignorance.
05/27/2012
AWL AWL
Quote:
Originally posted by mistre$$
WOW. Ignorance.
Serious ignorance.
05/27/2012
Bex1331 Bex1331
I've heard it said to lesbians but not to me personally, my favorite comment it usually "wow that's so hot." Yes that's exactly why I do it, so you;ll think I'm hot -_-
05/27/2012
tA tA
Nope, thank goodness. I'd return with "Aren't you too ugly to like (insert their opposite gender here)?"
05/27/2012
All His All His
No but I have had someone tell me that i can't be bisexual because I'm married to a man and have a baby.
05/27/2012
Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
Wow, i never dreamed anyone would say something like that.
05/27/2012
britanny0620 britanny0620
...I'd almost begin to understand if it were a lesbian being told that by a guy who was trying to get with her (like, saying that they find her attractive and WISHED she liked men) but I don't understand it at all when it's said to a bi woman. Maybe it's meant where 'pretty' meant, like, 'girly' or 'feminine' and the person was one of the people who believe that any girl who likes girls has to be 'manly' or 'masculine'?
05/29/2012
vitriolicvertigo vitriolicvertigo
I TOTALLY get this. it is the worst.
05/30/2012
bh253 bh253
That's just terrible. :/
06/09/2012
MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
Some men still think women like women because they can't get any men? Wow. Welcome to 2012...
06/09/2012
Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
Goodness gracious. Absurd.
06/09/2012
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
Nope, I'm more of the type who gets called "dyke," not the one told I'm too pretty to be queer. I'm okay with that, though, I don't really want my attractiveness openly assessed by strangers who don't understand how sexual orientation works.
06/19/2012
MaeGal MaeGal
Can't say I've ever had this happen, of course my bisexuality isn't particularly common knowledge.
06/19/2012
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