Married but bi curious

CRAZYSEXYONE CRAZYSEXYONE
I have been with my husband for going on 7 years now but i have found my self thinking of what it would be like to be with a female again...lol i have messed around with someone before well i told my husband about this now he wants a threesome. i don't think that i really want to do that but I want to make him happy should i go for it?
06/03/2012
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KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
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Originally posted by CRAZYSEXYONE
I have been with my husband for going on 7 years now but i have found my self thinking of what it would be like to be with a female again...lol i have messed around with someone before well i told my husband about this now he wants a threesome. i ... More
You both need to seriously discuss all the options in depth and completely honestly. I would recommend research polyamory and swinging in depth. The repercussions of doing something you aren't 100% on board with can be devastating to you relationship.

I have been poly for about 3 years with my fiance. When we started, we weren't 100% honest and we had difficulties.

I highly recommend the podcast polyamory weekly. It is a great way to learn about options and learn how to discuss with your partner.
06/03/2012
CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
I agree with KrissyNovacaine.... and don't have a threesome just to please your husband! You both have to be into it and have a full understanding of what you're comfortable with and uncomfortable with with doing or allowing your husband to do.
06/04/2012
britanny0620 britanny0620
This post and all the answers on it are very helpful to the situation I'm going through. Thanks for posting it, and I hope you find the solution to your problem soon It looks like you've gotten a lot of good advice in the responses
06/04/2012
CRAZYSEXYONE CRAZYSEXYONE
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Originally posted by KrissyNovacaine
You both need to seriously discuss all the options in depth and completely honestly. I would recommend research polyamory and swinging in depth. The repercussions of doing something you aren't 100% on board with can be devastating to you ... More
thanks for the info will check out
06/04/2012
CRAZYSEXYONE CRAZYSEXYONE
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Originally posted by britanny0620
This post and all the answers on it are very helpful to the situation I'm going through. Thanks for posting it, and I hope you find the solution to your problem soon It looks like you've gotten a lot of good advice in the responses
yes i have and so glad I could help
06/04/2012
nori nori
Think of your needs and wants as well. It seems as though you want to experiment with women = him wanting a threesome.

make sure you keep channels of communication open, keep your negotiating hat on, and really work out what you both want and need in this relationship.
06/21/2012
Mitzuki Mitzuki
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Originally posted by KrissyNovacaine
You both need to seriously discuss all the options in depth and completely honestly. I would recommend research polyamory and swinging in depth. The repercussions of doing something you aren't 100% on board with can be devastating to you ... More
Definitely agree with you here. That's how my relationship was at first too.
06/21/2012
CRAZYSEXYONE CRAZYSEXYONE
thanks for all the great input
06/23/2012
CindyH CindyH
i say if you are happy and sure this is what you want then go for it but don't do it just because he wants you to
06/23/2012
CRAZYSEXYONE CRAZYSEXYONE
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Originally posted by CindyH
i say if you are happy and sure this is what you want then go for it but don't do it just because he wants you to
thanks, i experimented with girls before just not with a man
06/27/2012
LadyDragonfly LadyDragonfly
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Originally posted by CRAZYSEXYONE
I have been with my husband for going on 7 years now but i have found my self thinking of what it would be like to be with a female again...lol i have messed around with someone before well i told my husband about this now he wants a threesome. i ... More
i say go with what makes u comfortable and happy
07/26/2012
pleasurehunter pleasurehunter
I think you should only do it if you want to. I mean if its not a big deal to then I guess you could do it to please your partner, but i'm pretty sure you wouldn't want him to have a guy in a 3some to please you if he didn't want to do it.
08/28/2012
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