It's definitely down to the individual person. As a couple, we've played with one or two guys, one or two girls and one or two couples. Sometimes the girls will be better lovers, sometimes the guys, but you never really know in advance.
I've had experience with both genders and mainly the women knew what they were doing. I'm not saying the men I had been with were the smartest of the bunch, because they weren't. Any man who asks, "Who do you get wetter 'down there' when I touch you than when I don't?" is a moron.. or very inexperienced. SO! From my experiences, women moreso than men. I wait with baited breath to be proved wrong.
I think it honestly depends, I mean there is a difference, I have been with my boyfriend for three years and I think that the best times I have had were with him, but as far as overall comparing people and shorter relationships, I have had better experiences with women, off the bat they tend to understand better men it just seems to take so long for them to figure things out and really get that it is not all about them. :p
I feel woman are more caring lovers. They tend to be more focused on making you feel wonderful and are better at oral sex in my opinion. However, guys have penises. And, well, I do love having intercourse with my boyfriend. :]
It depends so much on the person, and on my mood too. So far, I've had better sex with men, but I'm not sure that had anything to do with them being men... In fact, I think the best male lovers are the ones who make love like women!
I enjoy sex with women much more than I do with men. But, I am married and I can't say men aren't as good in bed as women. Women know what women want, and give very pleasurable sensations that men can't; however, nothing can compare some days to the feeling of a full, hard, throbbing cock thrusting inside of you. It also really depends on my emotional connection to the individuals.
I never had sex with a woman, but I know and have heard how I am. Haha. But really, it depends on the person, not the gender. I guess if you mean on you, you could guess the same sex would be better since they know what they themselves like. But even then it's all about execution.
Generally, I'm attracted to women, cis or trans. Testosterone scares me. I enjoy lesbian sex way more than hetero sex. I know not all men are alike, and we currently have a boyfriend, but he's two-spirit, so he's kind of a lesbian too.
the last time I had sex with a man, he was even using a dildo on me, but he was so concerned with his own pleasure, he didn't let me enjoy mine. a lot of the men I've interacted with have that same feeling. except our boyfriend. I'm still going to give men a chance, but it also helps eliminate pregnancy issues if I'm extremely discriminatory about the penises that may or may not enter me.
I've been with only one woman, who's my current lover and girlfriend, but the rest of my lovers were men.
I can honestly say that she's better than any of the men I've ever been with!!! It's true: a woman knows what a woman wants. Plus, she doesn't just cum once or maybe twice, then pass out. She can go all. Night. Long!
I had sex with several men when I was still trying to figure out who I wanted to be with, and none of them fulfilled me sexually. However the first woman I had sex with was able to bring me to orgasm and please me far more than I ever was with a guy.