relationships with Bisexuals

Contributor: Enchantedkitty Enchantedkitty
Hmmm, I dunno I guess it all depends in the relationship
08/12/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
I would be all right with it as long as they were open and honest... but I'll freely admit that that's a kink of mine. I don't think it should be "assumed when you date a bisexual that they'll need to sleep with people of both sexes." Definitely needs case-by-case discussion.
08/12/2011
Contributor: Wildchild Wildchild
I we have an open rule in this aspect, we dont' lie, hide it, and openly enjoy it together.
08/12/2011
Contributor: LostBoy988 LostBoy988
I'm pansexual so I completely understand
08/12/2011
Contributor: Liz x420x Liz x420x
Yes. I'm bisexual and have a boyfriend. We are in an open relationship. It can work as long as you are open and honest with each other. And every one can be happy and satisfied with their desires and needs.
08/13/2011
Contributor: BellaSucette BellaSucette
I think it all depends on the type of relationship you have, whether open or exclusive, and what you discuss, and things along that line. I wouldn't be okay with it, but that's just because I'm selfish with my partner. Hehe.
08/22/2011
Contributor: DeeDaw DeeDaw
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Originally posted by BellaSucette
I think it all depends on the type of relationship you have, whether open or exclusive, and what you discuss, and things along that line. I wouldn't be okay with it, but that's just because I'm selfish with my partner. Hehe.
I agree.
08/22/2011
Contributor: MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
it may take special circumstances, but in an open relationship, outside sex is practically implied. the gender should not and (to me) does not matter
08/23/2011
Contributor: Miss Morphine Miss Morphine
It would be negotiable.
08/23/2011
Contributor: EvilHomer EvilHomer
To me your question is 2 questions.

1) Are you willing to be in a relationship with a bisexual person?

Yes.

2) Are you willing to be in a open relationship?

No.
08/23/2011
Contributor: CherryDyke CherryDyke
I personally don't think I would be comfortable with that, but I'd have to make the final choice when it really came up.
08/27/2011
Contributor: buttmunch buttmunch
It's cheating unless you've worked it out with your partner and they are fine with it, but I can't imagine having sex with someone of the opposite sex than I'm dating without it making me feel like a cheating a-hole and disgusting. I'd say if you really would like to do that I'd suggest asking your partner if they'd be ok with a threesome and that would be the only way I would think that would make it perfectly fine.
09/02/2011
Contributor: Sieglinde Sieglinde
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Originally posted by np702
Would you be alright with a bi-sexual with whom you are in a relationship having sex with someone not of your sex while in the relationship?
No. Cheating is cheating and the gender doesn't matter, and personally I'm not up for polyamory. I'm bisexual myself and, if you're dating me, then I will be completely faithful to you, but I expect the same courtesy.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
Personally no. I am all about monogamy.
09/05/2011
Contributor: Destri Destri
Yes. My husband is bi, and we are totally open about everything. I would never be okay with going behind my back, but that would never happen between us. And of course, he has to use protection!
09/05/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
If he's in a relationship with just me, absolutely not. If we agreed to include another person of either gender and it reached that point, sure.
09/21/2011
Contributor: Neurogasm Neurogasm
....It would depend on the person. If they were just wanting an excuse to cheat, no. If we'd established from the beginning that it was an open relationship, and they were completely honest about it, then yes, if I trusted them enough. Still, though, this has very little to do with sexual orientation...
09/21/2011
Contributor: Wildchild Wildchild
In our relationship we are really open about this. We both partisipate. It's odd though, because she gets more fullfillment with a bi girl playing with me or me playing with the girl than the girls playing with each other.
10/03/2011
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
I have a D/s relationship with a bisexual man. He has no problems being monogamous, but we're not in a monogamous romantic relationship. If we do start a romantic relationship, I would expect that he would clear it with me before having any other sexual encounters, regardless of the gender of the partner. "Bi" doesn't mean "slut", and it also doesn't mean a pass from normal relationship restrictions.
10/06/2011
Contributor: Hidden Hidden
If it was an open relation then it would be okay. Otherwise it's strictly no.
10/19/2011
Contributor: Tangerine Tangerine
Nope! If I am in a relationship there is NO cheating whatsoever.
Otherwise for me I see no point in being in a relationship, id rather be single. I am a bi sexual but I will NOT date another Bi Sexual
12/05/2011
Contributor: nori nori
Only if I was in an open and poly relationship.
I'd consider it cheating otherwise.
12/07/2011
Contributor: darkkitty darkkitty
Quote:
Originally posted by np702
Would you be alright with a bi-sexual with whom you are in a relationship having sex with someone not of your sex while in the relationship?
I am bi but when I am in a relationship In am monogamous.
12/07/2011
Contributor: Entropy Entropy
Yes, I would be cool with it, but only because I love being cuckolded. I wouldn't care what sex she was screwing around with; either one would be euphoric.
12/22/2011
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
I have jealousy issues so I really can't say for sure, but I know if my male partner had another male, I wouldn't be worried.
12/29/2011
Contributor: LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
it depends on the situation.
12/30/2011
Contributor: pix pix
Depends... I am bisexual so if my partner were also, I would understand their attraction to people of other sexes than mine, and how sometimes you might feel like you're "settling" if you stick with just one partner of one sex. But if it wasn't something that we had discussed first, and said "Yes, it is OK to sleep with other people," then I would consider it cheating. But I would definitely be up for a polyamorous, open relationship, or threesome situation - as long as the same rules applied equally to both partners and were clearly communicated. If there were problems with jealousy I would end it immediately - either the relationship itself or the polyamorous agreement.

On another note, something I have faced constantly as a bisexual person is the stereotype that I am unable to be monogamous and that saying "I'm bisexual" is equivalent to saying "I want a threesome." With some people I might be interested in polyamory/threesomes, but NOT with EVERY relationship.
08/19/2012
Contributor: bdan bdan
My partner doesn't care if I'm with other woman. So he should be able too.
08/24/2012
Contributor: Shadowed Shadowed
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Originally posted by emiliaa
Only if it were an open/polyamorous relationship....

Fuck guys who said "let me watch." Fuck every last one of you in the asshole.
Why is that so awful? If it turns them on to watch their girlfriend expressing her sexuality with another girl, why shouldn't they be allowed to watch? My boyfriend would be okay with it, as long as he was able to watch or be involved in some way, and I think that's okay. It depends on how you define the parameters of your relationship, and how much you're willing to sacrifice or how far you're willing to go to please your lover.
08/24/2012
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
If they were open about it and I was present.
08/24/2012