straight,gay,or bi?

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straight,gay,or bi?

LadyThor LadyThor
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I have a serious question I am sure most women wonder. I am straight but I do look at women and their appearance and mostly their asses! It is attractive but I do not sit and say to myself gee I would like to sex her or anything but sometimes I fantasize about being with women then I get weird about it and stop. Why could this be? am I bi? or am I just a person who likes to fantasize?
09/29/2015
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Andykh Andykh
I wouldn't say ur bi at all. There might be a possibility but in my opinion its all fantasy. I could be totally wrong but that's what I think.
09/29/2015
Andykh Andykh
Plus I don't believe it is just a female thing its a both sexes thing.
09/29/2015
LadyThor LadyThor
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Originally posted by Andykh
Plus I don't believe it is just a female thing its a both sexes thing.
Wish I really knew or maybe I am just am open minded sexual person! But yeah you are right maybe men don't like to admit to it.
10/01/2015
edeneve edeneve
I, myself, appreciate the beauty of a female body, including my own. And of course, I love to check out cool or pretty clothes, oh, & shoes. And I am neither bi or gay.

Getting weird about fantasizing being with women sounds like maybe you have a negative judgement - & I don't mean that in a bad way. Having an appreciation for the female body doesn't make one bi or gay. It means you can recognize & admire it for what it is.

Curiosity is just that - a strong desire to know or learn something.

Fantasizing takes it a step further. Just because we fantasize about something doesn't label us as such. Whether we act on our fantasy's is another thing.

Some people explorer their fantasy's & in doing so, discover more about their sexuality. It could be a no go or a go for it experience or just hang on the fence for awhile. And nobody has the right to judge you.
10/01/2015
LadyThor LadyThor
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Originally posted by edeneve
I, myself, appreciate the beauty of a female body, including my own. And of course, I love to check out cool or pretty clothes, oh, & shoes. And I am neither bi or gay.

Getting weird about fantasizing being with women sounds like maybe ...
wow that is very deep and i like that you make sense on everything! most of my friends are either bi gay or lesbian so i see a whole lot and i appreciate anyone who loves one another no matter what but i just was always wondering why do i think like this well you gave me a pretty clear view on that and i thank you!
10/02/2015
edeneve edeneve
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Originally posted by LadyThor
wow that is very deep and i like that you make sense on everything! most of my friends are either bi gay or lesbian so i see a whole lot and i appreciate anyone who loves one another no matter what but i just was always wondering why do i think like ...
Oh, hey - I think I might need to clarify what I said about fantasizing

Just because we fantasize about something doesn't label us as
such. Whether we act on our fantasy's is another thing.

Acting on our fantasy's doesn't necessarily label us either. I just was stating that acting on our fantasy's is another subject, a separate topic.
10/02/2015
sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
For me, it took me a long time to realize that I was into females as well...and I'm actually more into them now. It took me a while to understand why I enjoyed the female form, and it wasn't until I experimented on that, that I figured out why it was so. Everyone is different, and I think everyone appreciates the bodies of others because we're observant and critical in that way. A friend of mine loves watching lesbian porn, but she's straight. If you're appreciating an ass, you're appreciating a form of beauty and not conforming the part of the person to a specific gender..you just have an appreciation for asses.

As edeneve pointed out, fantasies aren't reality. They don't specify whether we're gay, straight, bi, etc. It's when you act on fantasies, and it becomes real in the way you feel (that you want to have sex/love having sex with women) when it becomes a reality. We're all drawn to taboo natures, it's our curiosity. That's how I feel and that's my opinion anyway. Other people may see it differently. :]
10/03/2015
Dominican love Dominican love
is just curious about is normal but why you not try them said what you think you are but is not lebel for that you are what you feel not specific bix o les
10/17/2015
Dominican love Dominican love
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Originally posted by sXeVegan90
For me, it took me a long time to realize that I was into females as well...and I'm actually more into them now. It took me a while to understand why I enjoyed the female form, and it wasn't until I experimented on that, that I figured out ...
you so right I gree tottaly with you
10/17/2015
grrrldickz grrrldickz
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Originally posted by LadyThor
I have a serious question I am sure most women wonder. I am straight but I do look at women and their appearance and mostly their asses! It is attractive but I do not sit and say to myself gee I would like to sex her or anything but sometimes I ...
It's impossible to tell from your post. You could be bisexual but maybe you're straight. Don't stress out about it. There are plenty of women who identify as straight and still check out women. I actually know a man who is totally straight but still admits an attraction to a male actor... you're not abnormal.
11/27/2015
edeneve edeneve
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Originally posted by grrrldickz
It's impossible to tell from your post. You could be bisexual but maybe you're straight. Don't stress out about it. There are plenty of women who identify as straight and still check out women. I actually know a man who is totally ...
Well put. I've seen quite a few F/F sex videos & a lot of what they do in the videos is so much like the experience I want to have w/ a guy.

There is one particular video series I've watched in which 2 ladies introduce F/F to a 3rd in a fun playful curious baby steps exploration rather than getting into mad clenches & humping from the outset. I really like how they introduce a bi-curious female to F/F play. It all looks real rather than those videos that are contrived or loosely scripted scenes. It's not about being bi or lesbian. The videos are about ladies pleasuring each other w/o either distinction made.

If that video series is for real, I'm curious enough to be present when they bring in someone new to explore this part of their sexuality. I'm like on the fence, actually. Not that I want to be w/ woman. I want to discover for myself if what I've heard is true - women are so much better giving pleasure to other women than guys are.

However, baby steps for me - I want actually to observe (in an un-creepy way) & feel what the energy is like when they introduce a bi-curious female to F/F play. I want to know first if they are for real or acting for the video viewers. If it's not genuine, forget it.

So anyone reading this - any ideas how to explore finding this kind of experience? It's not like I can just email or call the ladies in those videos & say 'hey, I want to join in but only as an observer, not participate'. And I DO NOT want to get involved in any creepy stuff.
11/28/2015
TexasBrat TexasBrat
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Originally posted by sXeVegan90
For me, it took me a long time to realize that I was into females as well...and I'm actually more into them now. It took me a while to understand why I enjoyed the female form, and it wasn't until I experimented on that, that I figured out ...
I was this way too. I was bi-curious. It wasn't until I actually got the opportunity to experiment, that I found out that I really do like women. And, the longer I'm with my GF, the more I think I'm more into women than men.

I would check women out, physically, not so much what they were wearing, and form an opinion on their sexual appeal. I love watching girl on girl porn as well.

Though, in all outward appearances, I'm straight, due to where I live, which is a small town: physically small and small minded southern town.
12/28/2015
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