One of my friends is a virgin, and ready for the world of sex. She wants to lose it to someone who cares about her, wants it to be special, and generally just doesn't want to get taken advantage of. Since she's been straight other that her relationship with me in the past, I didn't use a strap-on on her when we were together. (read: I didn't want her to look back on it with me being the only girl in her life and think 'I wish my first time being penetrated had been with a man'.).
Now I'm worried these other guys in her life are going to screw it up, and she's expressing interest in me again. I've mentioned it to a few people and gotten different replies - some think it's not losing your virginity if it's a toy, and others think that penetration is de-virginizing, no matter what it is.
Also, I mean in the emotional sense of the word, not the physical sense. If I were talking about the physical sense, I'd have lost my virginity when I fell and broke my hymen when I was a child
So what do you think? Is having sex with a strap-on de-virginizing, or not?