Who does the pleasing and the most work in your fantasies?

altheasmarnella altheasmarnella
I'm just interested in finding out how many of you are akin to me! I get sooo hot thinking about me doing all the giving. I really never think about my partner giving in return cause the turn on for me is their response to my actions.
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you
altheasmarnella , spiced , ginnyluvspotter , Lacey Fennec , pokefan15
5  (15%)
your fantasy partner/partners
Ansley , Geogeo , caramilk , wetone123 , snowminx , Noelle , Ayogirl230 , Pete's Princess , Gluesnffr , Catan
10  (29%)
equal give and take
luvslukin , hotinpink , deltalima , damnbul12 , Cindi025 , Trysexual , BrittaniMaree , padmeamidala , nikki0668 , Devilish Asian , Ayumi , FLIPxMODE , CutiePatootie , Fun Lover , bayosgirl , Pastafariette , Hentialover , SecretKinksters , joiedejouets
19  (56%)
Total votes: 34
Poll is closed
02/28/2013
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luvslukin luvslukin
It really depends on who I'm fantasizing about. For instance, if I'm fantasizing about someone with big luscious lips I may have a strong fantasy of them giving me oral, but if I'm fantasizing about someone with a nice round ass, then the fantasy will tend to feature more in the active role.
02/28/2013
hotinpink hotinpink
Quote:
Originally posted by altheasmarnella
I'm just interested in finding out how many of you are akin to me! I get sooo hot thinking about me doing all the giving. I really never think about my partner giving in return cause the turn on for me is their response to my actions.
equal
02/28/2013
Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by altheasmarnella
I'm just interested in finding out how many of you are akin to me! I get sooo hot thinking about me doing all the giving. I really never think about my partner giving in return cause the turn on for me is their response to my actions.
My fantasies are mostly bdsm so im tied up not able to do anything
03/01/2013
Trysexual Trysexual
Varies
03/01/2013
BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
equal give and take
03/01/2013
nikki0668 nikki0668
both of us equally
03/01/2013
Ayumi Ayumi
It is equally variable.
Really depends on what I'm in the mood for.
03/01/2013
spiced spiced
Quote:
Originally posted by altheasmarnella
I'm just interested in finding out how many of you are akin to me! I get sooo hot thinking about me doing all the giving. I really never think about my partner giving in return cause the turn on for me is their response to my actions.
That's me!

Whether I'm fantasizing being with a man, or being with a woman - or both - in my fantasy, they are very demanding, selfish and greedy, and I am working hard to give them as much as they want of whatever they want. In real life, I'm more into give and take, but in my fantasies, it's almost always all give. Just thinking about it gets me hot.
03/01/2013
FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
equal
03/01/2013
altheasmarnella altheasmarnella
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Originally posted by Geogeo
My fantasies are mostly bdsm so im tied up not able to do anything
now that'll do too...I'd love to try that with my partner, but I'd do all the work
03/05/2013
altheasmarnella altheasmarnella
Quote:
Originally posted by spiced
That's me!

Whether I'm fantasizing being with a man, or being with a woman - or both - in my fantasy, they are very demanding, selfish and greedy, and I am working hard to give them as much as they want of whatever they want. In real ... More
right??? I love thinking about it, jeez louise!
03/05/2013
snowminx snowminx
I guess I would say the partner doing most of the work in fantasies, I like to be taken
03/16/2013
ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
Always me but I love it
03/16/2013
LoneOokami LoneOokami
I am the giver both in fantasy and reality and I love it that way, my ladys pleasure is mine
04/05/2013
Lacey Fennec Lacey Fennec
I'm always doing the work in a fantasy. All my fantasies usually involve the other person or people who are strong and dominant. Telling me what I am going to do, or "forcing" me to do as they choose. Most of the positions involved require for me to do work too. Though some parts of the fantasies I'm at the mercy of another! I would love to live out the fantasies, but they are mostly there to help get me off.
04/05/2013
Ayogirl230 Ayogirl230
pillow princes all the way here
04/19/2013
Gluesnffr Gluesnffr
My girl does.
04/19/2013
Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
In my fantasy I am being done to, so not doing the work. In real life, I do more of the giving.
04/19/2013
Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
Other. I'm not really in most of my own fantasies. I tend to fantasize about other people and situations entirely.
04/19/2013
Hentialover Hentialover
Quote:
Originally posted by altheasmarnella
I'm just interested in finding out how many of you are akin to me! I get sooo hot thinking about me doing all the giving. I really never think about my partner giving in return cause the turn on for me is their response to my actions.
It's usually pretty even for me, but sometimes I'm feeling a little on the 'lay back and enjoy myself' side of things. haha
05/11/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Depends on the fantasy...but it's pretty even over all.
05/11/2013
joiedejouets joiedejouets
It's pretty equal. It's not fun to be in one sided relations.
05/11/2013
Total posts: 23
Unique posters: 21