Who hits on you more?

kadelette kadelette
As a bisexual, it's generally not obvious to the public that I'm attracted to people of all genders. Is there a specific gendered group of people that hit on you more often than the others?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Same gender
11  (15%)
Opposite gender
54  (72%)
Non-gendered people
1  (1%)
Can't tell their gender
1  (1%)
Other (mention in comments)
8  (11%)
Total votes: 75
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11/29/2012
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sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
Opposite gender.
11/29/2012
laflauta laflauta
Definitely the opposite gender
11/29/2012
js250 js250
I definitely get hit on more by the opposite gender, men, however there have been a few times it was more than obvious a female was hitting on me--three of them were blatant and let me know in no uncertain terms that if I decided that straight and married was not for me, they were available. I was honest and told them I had no interest but did not take any offense and friendship was all I would ever have to offer.
11/29/2012
Beck Beck
I totally get hit on more by the opposite gender. So, much so it's ridiculous. I don't if I am with my husband, but when I am alone...I get hit on all the time.

I'd totally welcome being hit on by the same gender. I'd just have to tell them...hubby gets to play director.
11/29/2012
Kissy Kissy
Opposite. I've never been sure if a girl is hitting on me or we are just gettin on well.
11/29/2012
hanjonatan hanjonatan
men, typically much older.
11/30/2012
needapacker needapacker
Quote:
Originally posted by kadelette
As a bisexual, it's generally not obvious to the public that I'm attracted to people of all genders. Is there a specific gendered group of people that hit on you more often than the others?
I'm usually hit on more by boys (same gender). I guess i just look pretty gay.
11/30/2012
bog bog
i'm genderweird so my gender doesn't really have an opposite
11/30/2012
Genderfree Genderfree
Non-gendered/transgend ered believe it or not, because I am in transgender groups a lot. However, besides that I get hit on by males a lot. So same gender.
12/10/2012
novanilla novanilla
I'm primarily gay in my attractions to other people, but I'm attracted to some men here and there. I date more men simply because everyone thinks I'm straight! It's so annoying, since I'd actually rather be with women. So I end up dating the few men I accept dates from, and then it continues a cycle.
12/17/2012
lildrummergrl693 lildrummergrl693
Quote:
Originally posted by kadelette
As a bisexual, it's generally not obvious to the public that I'm attracted to people of all genders. Is there a specific gendered group of people that hit on you more often than the others?
It tends to depend on what spaces I am spending time in.. I tend to hang out in queer spaces, so then same gender or non-gender conforming people.. but even with that, I tend to get hit on by opposite gender people more often than any other
12/17/2012
Septimus Septimus
I work in a doctor's office where the clientele is primarily older. So generally, I get hit on by much (much) older members of the opposite gender.
12/17/2012
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
Same gender. They all think I'm a girl
12/17/2012
RavenInChains RavenInChains
Quote:
Originally posted by kadelette
As a bisexual, it's generally not obvious to the public that I'm attracted to people of all genders. Is there a specific gendered group of people that hit on you more often than the others?
Definitely same gender with me. I don't know why. I don't think I scream bisexual or lesbian but it seems to be mostly girls that bother hitting on me. Maybe its just that I don't recognize it in men as much since I have a male partner and am not looking for another one though.
12/18/2012
aluminummm aluminummm
Same gender, mostly.
12/21/2012
PDXlady PDXlady
I'm bisexual and I get hit on way more by other women, apparently I give off on intense gay vibe. Not that I'm complaining
12/26/2012
MaeGal MaeGal
I get hit on by males more. Females rarely hit on me, though I'm not surprised because I "look straight".
12/27/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by kadelette
As a bisexual, it's generally not obvious to the public that I'm attracted to people of all genders. Is there a specific gendered group of people that hit on you more often than the others?
Opposite gender
12/27/2012
fizzygato fizzygato
To be inconsiderate of my personal identity and go with assignment-at-birth, I guess it is possible to say I'm afab.

I feel like what appears to be mostly cis-females/ cis-passing ones anyway (?? very deterministic upon their bodies right now??) hit on me most, but they think I'm a little boy. To be ageist/ assumptive again, they appear to be quite young also, and pretty often they say they're like 14-16. I'm like 21

Sometimes cis guys (again assumptive???) hit on me, but only if they "can't figure out what I am"/ think I'm "a girl," but they're never memorable because they are the least tolerant. They insist they "know I'm a girl/ can see through my disguise/ can see I'm 100% girl, etc." Meanwhile, what seems to be cis girls are willing to take me any way; when I say I'm trans* they mostly respect that (unless they're super into their lesbian identity, in which case they don't).

I feel like I'm super popular amongst the trans* community, and at cosplaying things.
12/30/2012
sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
I get hit on by both genders pretty evenly. Never in public, always online though. I like kind of like a stereotypical lesbian, even though I'm not, so I get a surprising amount of lesbians and bi girls hitting on me.
01/15/2013
falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by kadelette
As a bisexual, it's generally not obvious to the public that I'm attracted to people of all genders. Is there a specific gendered group of people that hit on you more often than the others?
the opposite sex hits on me more.
01/19/2013
BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
I am BiSexual too
01/22/2013
FlashFuchsia FlashFuchsia
Much to my distaste, I get hit on by the opposite gender more than I do the same gender (either that or I have no idea when guys are hitting on me)
01/22/2013
MasqueVivi MasqueVivi
People of the opposite gender hit on me somewhat more often as well, but it's hard to quantify because only like 3 people have hit on me in such a way that I even noticed this year. I'm really oblivious unless it's obvious, sadly.
01/22/2013
TheirPet TheirPet
I get flirted with equally by all genders.
01/22/2013
Jenyana Jenyana
Opposite gender. This is annoying, as right now I'd rather go out with someone of the same gender... like a craving, you know?
01/22/2013
Avant-garde Avant-garde
Opposite gender
01/22/2013
Marie Hanna Marie Hanna
The same gender. Too bad I'm not a lesbian.
01/27/2013
happywaffle34 happywaffle34
Quote:
Originally posted by kadelette
As a bisexual, it's generally not obvious to the public that I'm attracted to people of all genders. Is there a specific gendered group of people that hit on you more often than the others?
mostly men. from my job is the only time a woman has and she was obvious. if any other women have that are so blatantly obvious as men are.
01/27/2013
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