Hey everyone, just saw this thread and thought I might as well post. =) I'm a 20 year old gay male in Texas, been in a long distance relationship thats become even longer distance for over a year now. I work in an adult novelty store so hopefully will be able to be able to contribute to this website. As for Snappy's question, When i buy any sort of toy, the packaging has no distinction to me, i haven't gotten anything from this site yet, most things from my store. I look at what company made it, what the device does, and think of what it might be able to do for me. Honestly, I've bought a few products most would think to be preferred for women, but it has brought me happiness.