I haven't even kissed a guy (all my attempts at dating have spiraled down the drain very quickly, very possibly due to the interest in women), but I don't qualify myself as a gold star because I identify as pan... I might, if it was really the right guy, I just have a fairly definite preference for women at the moment.
So I guess I'm SORT of gold starrish, if gold stars are determined only by 'have had no intimate contact with men'. Right now I certainly don't INTEND on hooking up with a guy... the idea kind of turns me off. But I suppose it could happen. In theory. I did go on a few hetro dates, and there was no kissing, no cuddling, and no chemistry. I'm beginning to think it's because of some sort of innate disinterest in men. Some of them are pretty nice, but every time I tried to get into a relationship... CRASH.
I dunno. It's too elitist for me... I don't want to date someone who likes me only because I'm gay enough, I want to date someone who loves me for me, who I love for them, regardless of past encounters.