Cheating - can you ever trust them again?

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Cheating - can you ever trust them again?

ginainohio ginainohio
do you think she can ever be trusted again if she has cheated on you once before
05/31/2012
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vitriolicvertigo vitriolicvertigo
It's your choice. I trusted a girl who cheated on me again and it didn't work out and she just kept cheating. But then again, there was another girl I dated who cheated on me once and never did again. So just go with your gut.
06/01/2012
reinkaos reinkaos
completely depends on the person
06/01/2012
js250 js250
It really depends on the person and your relationship. Why did they cheat, has anything been fixed, are you getting couples counseling? A lot of times there are circumstances that could possibly allow for cheating but also you have to look at the fact that the person may also be a serial cheater.
06/01/2012
britanny0620 britanny0620
That's completely dependent on you, your relationship, your feelings towards each other, the rules of the relationship, the situation in which she cheated, how likely she is to do it again, etc. I'd say, if it happens ONCE, forgive her. Any more than that? Not trustworthy.
06/01/2012
funcouple funcouple
To me cheating is doing anything physical with another person that you wouldnt do with your mother. For example my boyfriend was kissing females. We are a gay couple. He thought it was okay for him to mack on some girls because it didnt mean anything to him, but it did to me. Those kisses were supposed to be between he and I and instead not only did he share what was supposed to be ours, he cheapened it by telling me that when he did the same thing to those girls that he did to me that it didnt mean anything. It has taken me a while to get over what he did, and I trust that he will never do that again, but I also know that I won't allow him to get that drunk again. Alcohol was his excuse, and I told him that the only way to regain his trust is if he eliminates the reason why he believed he did it. Since then he hasn't drank, and especially hasn't been drunk.
06/02/2012
Chief Chief
I think after twice it will be really hard to trust.
06/05/2012
Falsepast Falsepast
I would never trust the person again. How hard is it to breakup with someone?
06/05/2012
britanny0620 britanny0620
Quote:
Originally posted by funcouple
To me cheating is doing anything physical with another person that you wouldnt do with your mother. For example my boyfriend was kissing females. We are a gay couple. He thought it was okay for him to mack on some girls because it didnt mean ...
Ouch! I'm sorry that happened to you - but glad he's stopped drinking since then. Has everything been alright since the incident?
06/05/2012
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