Cheating

vitriolicvertigo vitriolicvertigo
No matter who it is, if we haven't agreed that they can do X with X person, then it's cheating.
06/01/2012
britanny0620 britanny0620
I believe that's something to be discussed within the relationship. I've had relationships where if I were with a guy, the guy would let me be with whatever female I wanted and it wasn't considered cheating. However, I've also been in relationships where it would be considered cheating. I believe YOU need to establish that with your partner.
06/01/2012
Llahsram Llahsram
If I wasn't okay with her having sex with other people, then yes.
06/01/2012
ginainohio ginainohio
Cheating is if u think its cheating i mean if you are in a committed relationship and u dont allow it and they do it then its cheating
06/01/2012
lukymami lukymami
Quote:
Originally posted by sexybutterfly
Do you consider it cheating if your spouse is with someone of the same sex?
YES!!
06/11/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by sexybutterfly
Do you consider it cheating if your spouse is with someone of the same sex?
Cheating is any outside relationship that is not okay and up front approved by ALL parties involved, regardless of gender.
06/11/2012
CindyH CindyH
yes i do consider it cheating
06/11/2012
britanny0620 britanny0620
Quote:
Originally posted by Elnoa
If your partner does not consent to you engaging in sex with another person, it is considered cheating.
Agree.
06/11/2012
skippywashere skippywashere
Either way it is cheating if it's not within the boundaries of the relationship.
01/26/2013
Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
yes!
01/27/2013
purpledesert purpledesert
If it's not agreed on by all parties in the relationship, then yes.
01/27/2013
xxSuzakuxx xxSuzakuxx
i would rather her sleep with another woman than another man
02/03/2013
nikki0668 nikki0668
Absolutely!
02/03/2013
Hoshigetsu Hoshigetsu
If you do not consent with your partner, then it does not matter the gender. Enough consensual agreement to sleep with someone else can be touchy in a relationship.
02/03/2013
falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by sexybutterfly
Do you consider it cheating if your spouse is with someone of the same sex?
its cheating no matter who its with.
02/03/2013
xmanx xmanx
yes but i would prefer her to do it with a woman than a man
02/03/2013
Flower1 Flower1
yes
02/03/2013
LoganAshlee. LoganAshlee.
Strangely, I think it depends on their sexual preference.
02/05/2013
Eugler Eugler
I don't consider it cheating if my wife had sex with anybody.

I would consider it cheating if my wife had sex with anybody not telling me.
02/05/2013
Martiniman Martiniman
The sex of my wife's partner wouldn't matter. If she had sexual relations knowing the she had made a vow to me, she cheated.
02/05/2013
sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
If the people in the relationship have not agreed that it's okay, then it's cheating.
02/05/2013
Eugler Eugler
But to be honest: If my wife would confess that she cheated with another woman I would be the happiest and maybe the horniest man on earth.
02/05/2013
LittleHouse LittleHouse
Quote:
Originally posted by sexybutterfly
Do you consider it cheating if your spouse is with someone of the same sex?
That would be a hard question for us to answer since we own a Swingers Club. You have to decide what YOU consider cheating.... Do you feel comfortable with it? Have you sat down and calmly discussed your feeling about it?
02/25/2013
lovelyzombie lovelyzombie
cheating is cheating no way around it
05/10/2013
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I agree, if it's hidden, then yes.
05/10/2013
TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
It doesn't matter what sex they are, it's still cheating.
05/10/2013
BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
yes I hear it a lot from my husband because I am very attracted to women
05/10/2013
FrustratedFemme FrustratedFemme
Gender isn't an issue. Trust is.
06/26/2013
mr115393 mr115393
Sleeping with or carrying on a relationship with anyone else without the consent and knowledge of a partner, in my opinion, is cheating. The gender/sex of the person(s) the infidelity occurs with is irrelevant.
06/30/2013
jwell jwell
Quote:
Originally posted by sexybutterfly
Do you consider it cheating if your spouse is with someone of the same sex?
yes
07/02/2013
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Unique posters: 111