Dated Trans*?

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Dated Trans*?

SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
I'm curious how many people have dated trans* individuals. I'm pansexual and while I have, I'm curious how many straight or gay/lesbians have done so. Please state what you identify as in your answer.
03/24/2012
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TheParrishism TheParrishism
Quote:
Originally posted by SubmissiveFeminist
I'm curious how many people have dated trans* individuals. I'm pansexual and while I have, I'm curious how many straight or gay/lesbians have done so. Please state what you identify as in your answer.
I am trans and my cis boyfriend is bi.
03/25/2012
Caus Caus
I have never dated a trans individual but I've considered it.
03/27/2012
Voir Voir
Never dated a trans person, don't know any personally to have considered dating buttt a personality is higher on my list than genitals.
03/27/2012
DarthTaco DarthTaco
I'm on the opposite side of this . I'm a transman dating a bisexual man. Unfortunately some people still treat us like we're a straight couple @_@. They rarely say it out loud though, because we have a zero-tolerance policy with our loved ones on that.
03/28/2012
Falsepast Falsepast
I would but havent
03/28/2012
TheParrishism TheParrishism
Quote:
Originally posted by DarthTaco
I'm on the opposite side of this . I'm a transman dating a bisexual man. Unfortunately some people still treat us like we're a straight couple @_@. They rarely say it out loud though, because we have a zero-tolerance policy with our loved ...
How do you enforce that without being rude or disrespectful to your family for example?
All of our friends are very respectful. But my family is less so.
03/28/2012
Silverdrop Silverdrop
I haven't, but would. I think most trans people are brave as all hell, and that's attractive.
03/28/2012
charletnarouh charletnarouh
I'm a lesbian. I've never dated a trans* person but I've dated a couple of biological females who have, at various points in their lives, had considered transitioning. One was somewhat genderfluid. Sometimes more female, other times more male. It made things somewhat tricky. I really respect those who are genderfluid and similarly identified but dating one was challenging since there wasn't any good way to know whether it was more of a male day or a female day, and it could even change hour to hour sometimes. Of course, this individual was bipolar manic depressive and may have also had other undiagnosed problems that made things even more difficult. I imagine it would have been quite different with someone who didn't have additional mental and emotional challenges. One of the others had some dysphoria left over and was definitely quite butch but identified as a woman and used female pronouns. The third definitely identified as female but could be quite masculine and wouldn't correct anyone for using male pronouns and if someone mistook them for a man they would just go with it.
03/30/2012
Tangles Tangles
I started dating a person who identified as female last year. He has since come out as a MTF transperson and we are still dating. I have no problem with his identity and he has no problem with me identifying as a lesbian.
03/30/2012
Arosa Amore Arosa Amore
I'm currently dating a Transguy. When we first started dating I identified as a Lesbian ( a very big lesbian haha). After my boyfriend came out to me about his desire to transition, I didn't really think about 're-considering' my sexuality until it was brought up to me that it may be disrespectful to him, if his girlfriend still identifies as a lesbian, and he is trying not be seen as a female. So, after months of 'just being me', I came across the term poly-sexual. I did some research and I find that it's fits me very well.
04/15/2012
vegweg vegweg
I'm bisexual cisfemale and my boyfriend grew up as Maura. We plan on giving one of our daughters his birth name and the middle name of both his mother and my younger sister. That way, instead of losing a daughter, they're gaining a son, a daughter-in-law, and a granddaughter to call by the name they loved enough to give it to their own child.
04/15/2012
DarthTaco DarthTaco
Quote:
Originally posted by TheParrishism
How do you enforce that without being rude or disrespectful to your family for example?
All of our friends are very respectful. But my family is less so.
I don't XP. I've been robbed by those cheap bastards so much over the years that I no longer feel the need to be kind @_@. My mom is different (since I actually love her xD), I just facepalm XP. She gets what I mean when I do that :'P.
04/16/2012
ghalik ghalik
Quote:
Originally posted by vegweg
I'm bisexual cisfemale and my boyfriend grew up as Maura. We plan on giving one of our daughters his birth name and the middle name of both his mother and my younger sister. That way, instead of losing a daughter, they're gaining a son, a ...
Aw, that's so sweet.
04/16/2012
SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
Quote:
Originally posted by vegweg
I'm bisexual cisfemale and my boyfriend grew up as Maura. We plan on giving one of our daughters his birth name and the middle name of both his mother and my younger sister. That way, instead of losing a daughter, they're gaining a son, a ...
That is nice. =)
04/16/2012
Sam the Man Sam the Man
I'm trans, and my cisgendered girlfriend identifies as queer.
04/16/2012
Femme Mystique Femme Mystique
I'm a cis female, I identify as a lesbian, and I have dated a transguy.
04/17/2012
Ciao. Ciao.
I identify as trans but haven't dated any other trans people personally, though I would be perfectly happy to.
04/17/2012
butts butts
I'm trans dating a pansexual male. Neither of us have dated other trans people in the past, but I can't see either of us saying "no" to someone if we liked them just because of their transsexuality!
04/26/2012
transfag transfag
I'm a queer trans guy, and I'm dating a queer non-binary person. I prefer dating trans* people, to be honest. We're poly-curious, and we're both into dating/fucking other trans* people. We're better any way
05/09/2012
Thomas90 Thomas90
I've never dated a trans* person... but my girlfriend has?
05/09/2012
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
I'm trans* and genderqueer and I'm dating a MAAB bigender femme. She is super lovely. I am also with a cisgender queer woman, and I used to date a straight cisgender guy, but I doubt I'll do that again...
06/05/2012
vitriolicvertigo vitriolicvertigo
I'm trans* and genderqueer and I dated/hung out with/hooked up with a genderqueer trans guy. I kind of prefer dating trans folks to dating cis folks.
06/06/2012
freshbananas freshbananas
Quote:
Originally posted by SubmissiveFeminist
I'm curious how many people have dated trans* individuals. I'm pansexual and while I have, I'm curious how many straight or gay/lesbians have done so. Please state what you identify as in your answer.
I am femme, aggressive bi sexual and I have a strong perference for pre op trans men. I am okay with post op too, its all about who she or he is : )
06/06/2012
TheirPet TheirPet
I have dated Cis-men and cis-women as well as FTMs and MTFs. I love everybody. I consider myself pansexual or sapiosexual since I really love a sharp mind and a good personality. Bodies themselves don't sexually arouse me.
06/06/2012
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