Do you think oral is considered as sex?

Contributor: Ahatmadeofshoes12 Ahatmadeofshoes12
All sex is sex. Penis in vagina sex is only a type of sex. It is not more "real" than any form of non-penetrative sex. Its completely unfair to frame sexuality in these terms since it basically deems that sex between two men, or sex between two women is not "real sex". For heterosexual and homosexual couples alike oral sex is just as real as any form of penetrative sex. I find it incredibly beautiful and intimate (sometimes even more so then penetrative sex) and so I definitely consider it to be real sex.
02/07/2012
Contributor: ehue1992 ehue1992
There's a part of one body going in another part of a different body.. yeah, its sex lol
02/08/2012
Contributor: PirateofPenance PirateofPenance
It is definitely.
02/08/2012
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
Yes, hence the term "oral sex".
02/09/2012
Contributor: Kush Kush
Oral is sex.
02/10/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
If the purpose of an act is sexual pleasure then it is sex.
02/13/2012
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
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Originally posted by Graniteal
I consider it sex, but how many of you out there agree or disagree?
I think of it as a part of sex.
02/13/2012
Contributor: SparklyGlitter SparklyGlitter
I think that oral, fingering and playing with toys is all apart of forplay, not sex
02/13/2012
Contributor: Bebela Bebela
Quote:
Originally posted by Graniteal
I consider it sex, but how many of you out there agree or disagree?
My bf is always questioning that! It upsets me a bit! It totally is
02/13/2012
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
Yeah it is, some of us don't have/like penii, so fingers/tongue/toys will be considered sex in my opinion.
02/13/2012
Contributor: kz916 kz916
yes.
02/13/2012
Contributor: callsignhusker callsignhusker
definitely sex
02/14/2012
Contributor: thebest thebest
yes
02/14/2012
Contributor: SJ88 SJ88
yes!
02/14/2012
Contributor: kittychilla kittychilla
i don't consider it 'sex', but it is sexual. >.>
02/16/2012
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
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Originally posted by SparklyGlitter
I think that oral, fingering and playing with toys is all apart of forplay, not sex
What about for lesbians or bisexual women? Are they all virgins?
02/17/2012
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
Oral sex is sex. It's not intercourse, but I wouldn't consider it anything else.
02/17/2012
Contributor: Gingy Gingy
of course it is sex thats why it is called oral sex!
02/17/2012
Contributor: xGOLDx xGOLDx
I think if genitals and fluids are involved, it is sex. To limit the definition of "sex" to just vaginal intercourse is really ignorant and exclusionary of so many people's sexuality.
02/18/2012
Contributor: dbm6907 dbm6907
I would consider it sex, because you can catch STDs from it
02/27/2012
Contributor: domesticbeaver domesticbeaver
Quote:
Originally posted by Graniteal
I consider it sex, but how many of you out there agree or disagree?
Definitely sex. For me (as a dyke), it's one of the most intimate "kinds" of sex. I tend to save it for after I know someone well - it's the ultimate.
03/06/2012
Contributor: SomeMonster SomeMonster
Definitely consider oral sex a type sex - I'm of the mind that if you think you've had sex, well, you probably have.
03/06/2012
Contributor: cheesewizz cheesewizz
i think its more like foreplay
03/07/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
I think it is a type of sexual activity, but I don't think it is sex. For example...if a girl gets fingered, is that called finger sex? No...its a type of sexual activity, but it't not sex.
03/07/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
it is same
03/14/2012
Contributor: calliope calliope
When I think sex I think Penis penetration two bodies coming togeather lol.
03/14/2012
Contributor: TheParrishism TheParrishism
If there is an orgasm, it is sex.
03/15/2012
Contributor: funluvinmama funluvinmama
I would say it is warm up or foreplay. Not technically considered sex.
03/16/2012
Contributor: pinkLFant pinkLFant
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
The term is 'Oral Sex' - doesn't that speak for itself?
Well said
03/16/2012
Contributor: blixa blixa
I think it's real sex; for some people it's not the most meaningful/personal kind of sex to them, but that doesn't mean it doesn't count.
03/16/2012