Do you think oral is considered as sex?

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Do you think oral is considered as sex?

tA tA
I don't think it's sex, personally.
05/29/2012
Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
Quote:
Originally posted by GirlOnGirl
If someone performs oral on me and afterward I'm questioning whether or not I just had sex, that pretty much ensures they won't be getting invited back!!!!
This, exactly!
05/29/2012
meezerosity meezerosity
Yes it is sex.
05/29/2012
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by Ahatmadeofshoes12
All sex is sex. Penis in vagina sex is only a type of sex. It is not more "real" than any form of non-penetrative sex. Its completely unfair to frame sexuality in these terms since it basically deems that sex between two men, or sex ...
Here here!! The use of any part of the genitals in one form or another falls into the definition of sex.

Isn't foreplay a type of sex?
05/29/2012
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by GirlOnGirl
If someone performs oral on me and afterward I'm questioning whether or not I just had sex, that pretty much ensures they won't be getting invited back!!!!
Oh, you got that soooo right!!!
05/29/2012
britanny0620 britanny0620
I know that technically it is sex, and most if not all of the risks are the same or greater for oral sex. With women I consider oral sex to be sex, but with men I consider it more of foreplay. If someone asks me how many men I've had sex with, I almost always ask if they mean penetration or anything, and most often they say they only mean penetration. I do understand that it is still sex, just another kind of sex, which is why I try to always make sure it's clarified.


Edit: I don't mean to say that foreplay isn't sex also, by the way, it just seems to be a varying degree of sex to me. I mean, I also consider making out to be foreplay, but wouldn't consider that to be sex. I don't have a clear definition of what is sex and what isn't sex, which is another reason if someone is asking me specific questions, I try to clarify.
05/29/2012
CaliGirl CaliGirl
definitely sex
05/31/2012
vitriolicvertigo vitriolicvertigo
It counts for me.
06/01/2012
SouthernBelle SouthernBelle
Oral sex is sex. Are you in contact with genitals? Can you contract an STI? Does it provide the intimate emotional connection associated with sex? If the answer is yes, it's sex. That's how I feel about it anyways.
06/01/2012
asphyxia asphyxia
Quote:
Originally posted by SouthernBelle
Oral sex is sex. Are you in contact with genitals? Can you contract an STI? Does it provide the intimate emotional connection associated with sex? If the answer is yes, it's sex. That's how I feel about it anyways.
I like this!
06/05/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
It's not called oral SEX for nothing.
06/05/2012
rockblenny rockblenny
I count it as sex.
06/05/2012
Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
I consider it sex.If I had oral sex with someone and later that day someone asked me if I had sex that day I'd say yes.
06/05/2012
CindyH CindyH
I think is is considered as sex
06/05/2012
Nora29714 Nora29714
yes deff.
06/05/2012
LoveBug721 LoveBug721
Quote:
Originally posted by Graniteal
I consider it sex, but how many of you out there agree or disagree?
of course
06/05/2012
iabicpl09 iabicpl09
To me it is
06/09/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by Graniteal
I consider it sex, but how many of you out there agree or disagree?
It is sex...but it isn't

It is a sexual act, but it isn't penetration.

So yes and no.
06/09/2012
Faeboy Faeboy
Sex is whatever you decide it is!
06/09/2012
Rey Rey
Quote:
Originally posted by Ahatmadeofshoes12
All sex is sex. Penis in vagina sex is only a type of sex. It is not more "real" than any form of non-penetrative sex. Its completely unfair to frame sexuality in these terms since it basically deems that sex between two men, or sex ...
Couldn't have said it better myself!
06/10/2012
sexykiss sexykiss
yep it is sex
06/10/2012
sexykiss sexykiss
yep it is sex
06/10/2012
ginainohio ginainohio
to me it is i mean after all i am gay and that for the most part is how we get down
06/10/2012
lia ayala lia ayala
yes i do
06/24/2012
travelnurse travelnurse
It's just a matter of semantics, I like how teeny boppers in trouble would say that it wasn't
06/28/2012
dawnkye dawnkye
It is sex!
06/28/2012
Scrawberry78 Scrawberry78
it's sex.
06/28/2012
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
If it wasn't sex we could do it in public.
06/29/2012
BoobCopter BoobCopter
Yeah, of course it is.
07/07/2012
zeebot zeebot
Quote:
Originally posted by Ahatmadeofshoes12
All sex is sex. Penis in vagina sex is only a type of sex. It is not more "real" than any form of non-penetrative sex. Its completely unfair to frame sexuality in these terms since it basically deems that sex between two men, or sex ...
Yes, this.
08/27/2012
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