Fisting, have you tried it or will you ever?

Contributor: Lif3sambiguity Lif3sambiguity
Pros and cons of fisting
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11/04/2010
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Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
Does the poll refer to anal fisting, vaginal fisting, or both?
11/04/2010
Contributor: Lif3sambiguity Lif3sambiguity
Vaginal fisting.... and what would be your suggestion for first time tryers? doesnt anal fisting hurt?
11/04/2010
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
I've never engaged in fisting so I'm a poor respondent for your first question, though I'm sure there are many on the forum who can give some pointers. Beyond that, there are a whole bunch of discussions on here about fisting already that are undoubtedly full of tips/tricks for fisters (you can find those by doing a search for "fisting" and then chosing the "discussions" tab.

As for anal fisting, it can hurt if it's not properly introduced, or rushed, the body is an amazing thing and the anus can stretch to receive a fist in the same way that a vaginal cavity can, though it probably takes more time. There are threads about that too that come up when you do a search for fisting
11/04/2010
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
I have read a lot about vaginal fisting, and many women say that it feels really good after you have the right technique. However, I have no experience in this but I am slightly curious.
11/04/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
no, NO, NO.
11/04/2010
Contributor: lamira lamira
I have tried it, but my partner could not fit his fist in my vagina. The most he could get was 4, somewhat 5, fingers.
11/04/2010
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
I tried vaginal fisting with my ex-husband. We were REALLY horny, but he couldn't get his whole hand in. It was kind of frustrating. Haha. With practice, he probably could have. I haven't tried with my current boyfriend. It was just okay, but I could see how people would like it.
11/04/2010
Contributor: meganthomas meganthomas
Never tried...I don't really know how to go about trying either lol but it's very intriguing
11/04/2010
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
Never experienced that - a lil uncertain if I'd want too. Intriguing yes but seriously...not so much.
11/05/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I am not turned on by the idea of fisting, I never really was interested in trying it and I don't think I will for a while. Tastes change so I can't say it's definite. I truly do not want to try this though.
11/05/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Made a mistake, didn't read the first post before voting.
11/05/2010
Contributor: gone77 gone77
I definitely would like to vaginal fisting one day. I think it would be an interesting experience. I draw the line at anal fisting, though. It just doesn't appeal to me.
11/05/2010
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
To be honest, it sounds totally intimidating to me, like it would be incredibly painful -- which just makes me feel anxious about it! I find it very intriguing that some women love it though and I can't help but wonder about it.
11/05/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Lif3sambiguity
Vaginal fisting.... and what would be your suggestion for first time tryers? doesnt anal fisting hurt?
Doesn't vaginal fisting hurt?
11/05/2010
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
no, NO, NO.
Agreed.
11/05/2010
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Apparently the first time my GF fisted me was something I don't even remember. She was so good at preparing me and keeping my mind on the sensations I didn't even know she was doing it until a year later when it came up in conversation.
11/05/2010
Contributor: Lif3sambiguity Lif3sambiguity
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Doesn't vaginal fisting hurt?
not if you are turned on enough and use lube
11/06/2010
Contributor: CafeSabroso CafeSabroso
Something I'd like to try. Babeland is having a vaginal-fisting class next Thursday ; it must be legitimately pleasurable if they support it. I'm a guy, so I can't speak for vaginal...but anal fisting is quite nice if you and your partner have excellent trust and communication. Just make sure you stick to an important rule: no pain allowed.
11/06/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
I'd like to try it with a lesbian partner.. never a man. I think it'd be a cool new experience, but I'd have to be really uninhibited at the moment and really into it.
11/06/2010
Contributor: sarahbear sarahbear
It takes a lot of lube, patience and warming up, even with my husband's hands being fairly small. Sometimes it feels good, other times there isn't much room to actually do anything once his entire fist is inside of me. On rare occasions though, it's fun.

*vaginal fisting, have not and will not try anal fisting.
11/07/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
Haven't tried fisting- vaginal or anal. Not for me, not for my man. The idea does not appeal to me in the least. Just.. ouch!
11/07/2010
Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
Have done it once (Vaginal) it was great in the moment but I was sore the next day. We can push babies out of there, and a fist is much smaller than a full term babies head you just need to make sure you are relaxed enough and use tons of lube.
11/07/2010
Contributor: Serendipity Serendipity
take your time, i would not expect to be able to take a fist vaginally or anally the first time. LUBE, LUBE, LUBE. and more lube. It's pretty incredible.
11/07/2010
Contributor: thegoldilocksincident thegoldilocksincident
I've not actually been successful with it yet, but trying has been extraordinarily enjoyable. The sensation of being stretched is absolutely fantastic.
11/07/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by gone77
I definitely would like to vaginal fisting one day. I think it would be an interesting experience. I draw the line at anal fisting, though. It just doesn't appeal to me.
Same here, I wuldn't mind working up to a good vaginal fisting since I LOVE that full feeling but not anal fisting. For my part I have so many problems with my bowels that I am scared to try stretching the tissues that much.
11/08/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
Apparently the first time my GF fisted me was something I don't even remember. She was so good at preparing me and keeping my mind on the sensations I didn't even know she was doing it until a year later when it came up in conversation.
WOW she's amazing! That's great that it felt so good and so natural!
11/08/2010
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
I have never tried it, but I like feeling full so I am definitely curious.
11/08/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Curious why this is in GLBT issues, since fisting (like anal play) is sexual-orientation-neu tral
11/09/2010
Contributor: Lavendar Menace Lavendar Menace
Sounds painful.

I realize with lube and preparation it wouldn't be...but I don't think that's my cup of tea.
11/11/2010