I am trying to start doing foreplay in my relationship because its not going to well. What do yall suggest I start of with? Other inputs suggestions grately appreciated..I dont know much about this, which is why I need your input! hehe. thanks!!!
Foreplay
Personally, I find the best foreplay to be him fingering me. Taking the time to work up to sex is the important part; female arousal takes time! One minute with a vibrator won't work any better than one minute with his tongue!
If you're looking to introduce toys into the bedroom not to solve a problem but to try something new and pleasurable, I'd start with a small, high quality external vibrator. There are tons of great ones on here!
If you're looking to introduce toys into the bedroom not to solve a problem but to try something new and pleasurable, I'd start with a small, high quality external vibrator. There are tons of great ones on here!
08/31/2011
I ran into the same "problem" a little while ago-
but my problem was that we were losing intimacy?
we tried vibrators and toys and outfits, which made the sex great, but didn't bring us closer, which was dangerous because in the end we both felt like we were using each other for sex.
The miracle fix was this: one night in bed, we were just falling asleep and I pulled him over for a kiss spur of the moment. Just a sweet soft kiss. Which lasted for a long time. then, of course, we had sex, but it was different.
I'm amazed at what simple physical intimacy will do for a couple. He and I are great now, and several new toys are on their way. But intimacy ladies and gentlemen! intimacy.
but my problem was that we were losing intimacy?
we tried vibrators and toys and outfits, which made the sex great, but didn't bring us closer, which was dangerous because in the end we both felt like we were using each other for sex.
The miracle fix was this: one night in bed, we were just falling asleep and I pulled him over for a kiss spur of the moment. Just a sweet soft kiss. Which lasted for a long time. then, of course, we had sex, but it was different.
I'm amazed at what simple physical intimacy will do for a couple. He and I are great now, and several new toys are on their way. But intimacy ladies and gentlemen! intimacy.
11/02/2011
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I agree. Keeping up intimacy requires active effort and though toys and lingerie can help, it boils down to making physical intimacy a prerogative in the relationship.
Originally posted by
sweetcaroline
I ran into the same "problem" a little while ago-
but my problem was that we were losing intimacy?
we tried vibrators and toys and outfits, which made the sex great, but didn't bring us closer, which was dangerous because in the end we both ...
but my problem was that we were losing intimacy?
we tried vibrators and toys and outfits, which made the sex great, but didn't bring us closer, which was dangerous because in the end we both ...
I ran into the same "problem" a little while ago-
but my problem was that we were losing intimacy?
we tried vibrators and toys and outfits, which made the sex great, but didn't bring us closer, which was dangerous because in the end we both felt like we were using each other for sex.
The miracle fix was this: one night in bed, we were just falling asleep and I pulled him over for a kiss spur of the moment. Just a sweet soft kiss. Which lasted for a long time. then, of course, we had sex, but it was different.
I'm amazed at what simple physical intimacy will do for a couple. He and I are great now, and several new toys are on their way. But intimacy ladies and gentlemen! intimacy.
but my problem was that we were losing intimacy?
we tried vibrators and toys and outfits, which made the sex great, but didn't bring us closer, which was dangerous because in the end we both felt like we were using each other for sex.
The miracle fix was this: one night in bed, we were just falling asleep and I pulled him over for a kiss spur of the moment. Just a sweet soft kiss. Which lasted for a long time. then, of course, we had sex, but it was different.
I'm amazed at what simple physical intimacy will do for a couple. He and I are great now, and several new toys are on their way. But intimacy ladies and gentlemen! intimacy.
12/28/2011
It may just be me, but I think forplay is different than the choices you listed. Those are good starts to set the mood. An outfit or massage, a new toy waiting to be used. But the foreplay should probably be the part taht gets you hot. Like kissing,touching, teasing, rubbing and such. And try not to just do those things, learn how to do them great. Doing them and doing them great will get you 2 different results
Jan 4, 4:54 pm
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There is no one right answer- whatever inspires you and your partner
Originally posted by
zz1aag
I am trying to start doing foreplay in my relationship because its not going to well. What do yall suggest I start of with? Other inputs suggestions grately appreciated..I dont know much about this, which is why I need your input! hehe. thanks!!!
Jan 11, 7:07 pm
If your partner has long hair brush and pet it, then work down to a neck and shoulder massage. If they are in pain massage that area if they say it makes it feel better. I cream when I get massages that make the pain go away, I also cream when my partner scratches itches for me.
Attention, attention, thats what it seems to be all about. Concentrating on what excites them or makes them feel good.
Attention, attention, thats what it seems to be all about. Concentrating on what excites them or makes them feel good.
Feb 20, 3:18 am
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agreed.
Originally posted by
nana.inuk
If your relationship itself is not going well, foreplay will do nothing for that but distract you from the real problem. In that case holding off from sex and JUST communication is best.
If it's just the sexual part, everything above and ...
If it's just the sexual part, everything above and ...
If your relationship itself is not going well, foreplay will do nothing for that but distract you from the real problem. In that case holding off from sex and JUST communication is best.
If it's just the sexual part, everything above and communication, like others said. ^_^
If it's just the sexual part, everything above and communication, like others said. ^_^
Feb 26, 2:14 am
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all are good
Originally posted by
zz1aag
I am trying to start doing foreplay in my relationship because its not going to well. What do yall suggest I start of with? Other inputs suggestions grately appreciated..I dont know much about this, which is why I need your input! hehe. thanks!!!
Feb 26, 2:40 am
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