Have you had a threesome? Why or why not?

lezergirl lezergirl
Have you had a threesome? Why or why not? (Could also be phrased as how or how not?)
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes
99  (37%)
No
167  (63%)
Total votes: 266
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02/05/2011
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vegan.guy vegan.guy
I wouldn't want to. I'm not the type of person looking for a one night stand type of thing.
02/05/2011
SexyTabby SexyTabby
Happily married and not interested in anyone else in my bed beyond a mental fantasy.
02/05/2011
Tart Tart
Really? Wow.. I'm the only one so far. I really loved it. I'm a single bisexual and I have casual sex with friends of mine who are engaged. Best of both worlds.. to quote Hannah Montana.
02/05/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
It's just never been something my husband and I have been interested in. There's nothing wrong with other couples doing it, but we've only got eyes for each other
02/05/2011
MontereyJak MontereyJak
We are happily married as well but we love the idea of a 3 some. We've had several over the last few months. One guy is our steady one, we all get along really well. We've even done a same room swap with another couple which was exciting since it was my wifes first experience with another woman. There really is something to be said about seeing another guy having sex with your right in front of you. There is no sneaking around behind the others back or we stop all together.
02/05/2011
MontereyJak MontereyJak
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Originally posted by Tart
Really? Wow.. I'm the only one so far. I really loved it. I'm a single bisexual and I have casual sex with friends of mine who are engaged. Best of both worlds.. to quote Hannah Montana.
And it can be something that you've done together. We are planning on doing a swingers type cruise this year.
02/05/2011
Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
Happily married. Have had a threesome with my husband, and another woman. Had a couple threesomes before then. Always 2 girls and 1 guy. Enjoyed most of them and will probably have more in the future.

I'm bisexual, and we hope to one day find "the one" for both of us. We'll see, I guess.
02/05/2011
ScottA ScottA
Married and not interested.
02/05/2011
potstickers potstickers
My bf and I love only each other and would never want to involve anyone else.
02/05/2011
VenusianThunder VenusianThunder
I have not, but I would. Just haven't had the opportunity yet I suppose.
02/06/2011
Miguel M. Miguel M.
Quote:
Originally posted by lezergirl
Have you had a threesome? Why or why not? (Could also be phrased as how or how not?)
First, I don't like sex with strangers. I have to know that I can trust my woman, or in that case ladies. There are too many creepy people out there, and some of them are women. So, I've attempted with the ladies that I've dated, or been in relationships with.

Second, and more directly to the question at hand , the women I have been with have always been too jealous of other women to share me. Basically, the depth and high quality of the relationships turned them....territorial and defensive.

I've always wanted to explore with multiple ladies, it just did not work out. Perhaps, in the future. We'll see.
02/06/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Too complicated - I'm not mentally or physically up to the challenge.
02/06/2011
jfree jfree
I would like to, but I haven't found a good opportunity.
02/06/2011
PussyGalore PussyGalore
Our threesome turned into a skewed triad. It was not a pretty experience and I am hesitant to try again. I cannot handle someone else trying to break up my marriage while sleeping in my bed. If there is truly a thing such as no strings attached sex, when we find it we'll know and make our decision from there.
02/06/2011
leatherlover leatherlover
A small fantasy, but nothing I would want to act out.
02/06/2011
KatPawz2003 KatPawz2003
I am bi-sexual so it makes it all the more fun for me as that way I can have both a guy and a girl at once. I have done this many times.

I also would love to have 2 guys for some double penetration.
02/06/2011
Clitical Jenne Clitical Jenne
Been married 21 years this year and lived the lifestyle for about 16 years of those. It's not something we do every weekend but once in a while it's just plain fun for us. No strings attached is fun for everyone if it's done right. Had a few let downs in the past but generally we all just have fun and then go about our daily lives...
02/06/2011
Jobthingy Jobthingy
Been there. Done that. Will do it again
02/06/2011
markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by lezergirl
Have you had a threesome? Why or why not? (Could also be phrased as how or how not?)
That would be considered cheating,even if one were to be my partner.
02/06/2011
zeebot zeebot
Yup! Great fun, I'd definitely do it again. I don't tend to be in really long-term relationships (at least at this time of my life) so complications aren't too much of a problem.
02/07/2011
vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
No, not interested, not comfortable with the idea.
02/07/2011
rdytogo rdytogo
Might be fun, but things tend to get complicated when it involves sex, so this is one of those things that we will probably never do. Makes for a nice fantasy though.
02/07/2011
NaughtyNikki420 NaughtyNikki420
My boyfriend would like to see me with another girl. I do like girls and the idea but i'm to worried about the after thoughts. Like, am I going to feel bad or am I going to feel hurt if they do anything together. I had a threesome in the past and it ended up feeling like I was cheated on. Its something you have to feel 100% about it could ruin things or may not make a difference. Right now we just keep it as a day dream.
02/09/2011
Oxygen99 Oxygen99
I've been apprehensive about doing it. But I think I'm at the point where I'm ready to give it a go. We both agree that it needs to be with the right person and either of us are going to rush the process. So, basically once we find a person we both agree on we're going to give it a try. The first thing we plan on trying is the addition of another male. If that works out well, I'd like to try something with another couple.
02/09/2011
sexyhellokitty sexyhellokitty
I would love too, but its more of a fantasy of mine. Even though my husband and I are no longer together, I am not sure about it.
02/14/2011
CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
I agree that I wasn't really into the girl/girl idea, but I always have been attracted to women, I happened to start experimenting with that part of my identity in the comfort of a best friend and a guy that was an awesome one night stand that I thought I'd never end up with so it wouldn't matter if drama ensued. I turns out that I loved him all the more for enjoying that part of me and being into it.
I love my husband and our sex life, and we both love bringing another girl into the mix. It doesn't happen all the time, but we have met a wonderful girl and have been dating for 7 months. We have had our ups and downs and figured out rules and how to make sure communication stays very open in our marrige. It's been wonderful!
02/21/2011
Fuck it. Fuck it.
I would definitely try it if we found a good person and he wanted to. Right now I think we're both content with just us, though.
02/25/2011
Alyjazz Alyjazz
No, because me and the bf can never agree on the same person.
02/25/2011
ninaspinkturtle ninaspinkturtle
Quote:
Originally posted by lezergirl
Have you had a threesome? Why or why not? (Could also be phrased as how or how not?)
well once because we were already naked from playing strip poker and the other one because my friend wanted me to because she was into me and it was with a guy i was tryin to pass onto her
03/02/2011
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