How do you define sex in a queer relationship?

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How do you define sex in a queer relationship?

buttcleavage buttcleavage
I'm just curious how other people see it.
10/21/2012
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charletnarouh charletnarouh
Quote:
Originally posted by buttcleavage
I'm just curious how other people see it.
I define sex as a consensual act by 2 or more people that involves the genitalia of one or more of the people involved in a pleasurable way.
10/23/2012
smlove smlove
Quote:
Originally posted by buttcleavage
I'm just curious how other people see it.
when one or more persons' genitalia is stimulated with consent and in a pleasurable manner. orgasms don't have to take place, and both people don't have to stimulate eachother.
Sometimes I just wanna jump my wife and eat her out, but am not feeling like having reciprocation and vice versa. and sometimes she orgasms and other times I just make her feel nice.
there are times that she orgasms not from genital stimulation. those are generally considered sexual too.
10/24/2012
vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
Smlove put it so much better than I could! If it's sexy and fun and it's not obviously a little tease, it's sex in my book.
10/25/2012
buttcleavage buttcleavage
Thanks.
10/26/2012
wildshores wildshores
yep
if it involved touching genitals or inducing orgasms, it's probably sex to me
11/06/2012
hanjonatan hanjonatan
if it gets one or both of us off, or is an activity of such a nature that getting off is generally seen as the end goal even if it doesn't happen, it's probably sex.
11/06/2012
Roz W Roz W
"How do you define sex in a queer relationship?"

First thought: "together."

But yeah, what everybody else is saying. Sometimes, though, I feel like it's less about the act itself than the headspace it creates. Sometimes.
11/11/2012
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