how long were you in the closet?

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Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
how long were you in the closet after you realized you were not straight?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
hrs i told every1
2
days
weeks
months
4
years
16
decades
1
still in the closet
6
Istraight
3
Total votes: 32 (30 voters)
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01/11/2011
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Contributor: vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
Somewhere around 5 years.
01/18/2011
Contributor: Tidwtrguy Tidwtrguy
Way too many years. I am still closeted at work but that will be changing soon.
03/04/2011
Contributor: jfree jfree
I figured I was some shade of queer. Stayed in the closet for a few months and Mum eventually asked. I've been pretty open about it ever since, even in a place like South Texas.
03/05/2011
Contributor: ButchAndFemme ButchAndFemme
I knew for awhile, but pushed it down for a long time. It was probably 6 months after I realized that I couldn't hide it any more that I actually came out. Being in the closet is rough. My heart goes out to anyone that isn't able to come out.
03/05/2011
Contributor: Willow Wand Willow Wand
I am not completely out. Friends and online folks all know, but not my mother, and that is fine by me.
12/25/2011
Contributor: In the Sheets In the Sheets
I suppose I was closeted to myself for the first 19 years of my life. But once I was sure of my orientation I came out to all of my friends and family within six months. The only thing that made me wait for a while for most of them is I live so far away from most of my friends and family I waited until I could tell everyone in person. That made for a busy and conversation filled holiday season but I was lucky that everyone was and continues to be supportive of me.
12/30/2011
Contributor: marshmallow marshmallow
years
07/04/2012
Contributor: vitriolicvertigo vitriolicvertigo
About four years. It was the ballsest, man.
07/05/2012
Contributor: nori nori
I didn't realize what it was for years. But after i realized, a few months.
07/05/2012
Contributor: Femme Mystique Femme Mystique
A few months, I guess.
07/05/2012