If you HAD to label yourself, how would you?(Private)

Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
Hetero for my fiancee and I.
10/20/2011
Contributor: BluePixi BluePixi
If I ever figure out what my orientation is I will let you know, if I remember to...
10/30/2011
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by Kkay
I'm uncertain why you included trans and intersex in a poll about sexuality.
Same
10/30/2011
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
"Queer" and "dyke" are the two words I like best
10/30/2011
Contributor: mudpie mudpie
"Queer". I don't like that "bisexual" implies two genders, and "pansexual" just isn't for me. Queer says that my sexuality is non-straight, and that's all I need to say.
11/14/2011
Contributor: Mihoshi4301 Mihoshi4301
I'm hetero, but I don't really pay much attention to other people's "labels" becase it doesn't matter to me what they are. I'm cool with anyone.
11/14/2011
Contributor: mizzmilla mizzmilla
Who knows.
11/16/2011
Contributor: anonymouse58 anonymouse58
Hetero but willing?
Not exactly bi-curious, but not opposed to small hookups as such.
11/27/2011
Contributor: nori nori
I consider myself 2/3 lesbian and a third bisexual.
I don't really know how to define myself.
12/07/2011
Contributor: Gingy Gingy
lez and happy
12/08/2011
Contributor: ashxxx ashxxx
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
If you HAD to label yourself, how would you? Does your heart have an orientation? Do you define yourself with a gender?
I consider myself heterosexual since I would not date/have a relationship with a girl. My boyfriend insists I'm at least bi-curious since I interacted with a girl in a threesome, and since I am turned on my lesbian porn. In my mind, I think, sure, because women can be hot, and why not mess around with them for fun. However, I would not get into any serious relationship with another woman.
12/08/2011
Contributor: clp clp
Another vote for 'queer'. :]
12/08/2011
Contributor: The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
If you HAD to label yourself, how would you? Does your heart have an orientation? Do you define yourself with a gender?
Im totally Hetero
12/08/2011
Contributor: idunshire idunshire
Technically pansexual. I tend to just go with 'gay' a lot of the time because it's easy. I like the word, I like women and if I just so happen to be with my male partner that also uses it, awesome ^_^
12/09/2011
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
Queer, or pansexual.
12/09/2011
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
I lean towards "lesbian" by far. However, being gay in a close-minded, rural area is not always a convenient thing. Therefore, I often have to settle for heterosexual relationships (I am, technically, bisexual) and learn to just deal with it. I'm not settling in this relationship, however, and it is, indeed, a heterosexual one. I'm in love with my boyfriend and very much attracted to him. <3
12/13/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Hetero with lesbian tendencies. I don't identify as bisexual because though I like having sex with women, I can't see myself actually dating them.
12/25/2011
Contributor: reknit reknit
100% les - and proud :]
12/25/2011
Contributor: Snozzberries Snozzberries
I just learned what pansexual was and that's pretty much what I feel I am.

YAY NEW WORDS!
01/02/2012
Contributor: EdenJP EdenJP
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
If you HAD to label yourself, how would you? Does your heart have an orientation? Do you define yourself with a gender?
Hetero
01/02/2012
Contributor: winterseve winterseve
Quote:
Originally posted by anonymouse58
Hetero but willing?
Not exactly bi-curious, but not opposed to small hookups as such.
I like this. Definately something to try but in a hetero marriage. Who knows what the future holds...
01/02/2012
Contributor: Entropy Entropy
Totally bi.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
Totally me.

But bi for the right man!!!!
01/06/2012
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I'm pansexual. I'm attracted to people, not genders.
01/06/2012
Contributor: Sunsetmystic Sunsetmystic
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Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
If you HAD to label yourself, how would you? Does your heart have an orientation? Do you define yourself with a gender?
I am bi-curious but have not acted on it, I dont know if i could truly follow thru with it. I have never been with anyone other then a man, nor have i ever kissed a girl.
01/06/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
I'm the boring hetero
01/06/2012
Contributor: EdenJP EdenJP
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
If you HAD to label yourself, how would you? Does your heart have an orientation? Do you define yourself with a gender?
hetero
01/06/2012
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
If you HAD to label yourself, how would you? Does your heart have an orientation? Do you define yourself with a gender?
I am a woman, am proud to be one, and was born one too. I identify myself as bi-sexual because I feel equally able to love either gender and have been attracted to both men and women (before I met my current bf I was leaning heavily toward the lesbian side though).
01/16/2012
Contributor: aroarofthunder aroarofthunder
In the past I have identified myself as both a lesbian and as bisexual. When in relationships with women I found that I was ostracized by the gay community if I did no identify as homosexual. That being said, I am with a man now, but have a very strong preference towards women. In fact, aside from the man I'm with now, I don't typically find myself attracted to men, though I am attracted to the idea of the roughness and powerfulness of sex with men. Given all of that, I consider myself homoflexible in that I prefer women 90% of the time, but refuse to box myself in to one extreme of the sexuality spectrum.
01/16/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Pansexual
01/19/2012