When you're the one WEARING a strap on, is size important to you? Does your strap on have to be large and in charge? What other features about the look of the dildo are important to you as the wearer? Do you prefer realistic styling and/or color?
When you're the one WEARING a strap on, is size important to you? Does your strap on have to be large and in charge? What other features about the look of the dildo are important to you as the wearer? Do you prefer realistic styling and/or color?
it depends on the partner and her preferences... i dont care how large it is, but i personally prefer it not to look realistic.
We don't like ours to be realistic. Ewe. I'm also not looking to be 'wreaked' so we have to make sure the length/width is something my body can handle comfortably.
I'd rather they not be too realistic, mainly just because penises are ugly. As for size, obviously has to be comfortable to use, but there is something about having a big toy that just makes you feel powerful and dominating.
This is interesting as multiple past partners of mine were insulted by the size of what I wanted them to use (around 5" length and less than 1.5" diameter). I'm small and can't take very much. But they were too embarrassed to wear a small dildo in the harness.
For toys on me they need to be really slim, since I'm quite small, but I've never had a partner complain about wearing a small toy. I think you've got some lame ex's is all
For toys on me they need to be really slim, since I'm quite small, but I've never had a partner complain about wearing a small toy. I think you've got some lame ex's is all
That I've had some shitty exes cannot be doubted. Some were pretty awful. I was just curious how typical or atypical they were in regards to this particular preference since I've encountered it numerous times.
I think of the dildo as an accessory (not an extension of myself) so I like them to be a crazy color and I search high and low for ones I like. As for size, I could care less... which ever pleases my partner pleases me, however I tend to have partners who are experienced, lets say, and so i usually have a nice sized dildo, probably like 7 inches.
I, too, prefer unrealistic ones; my past favorites are the Fun Factory Magnum (a kind of sleek, modernistic marbled thing) and the Tantus Vamp, which I call my "disco cock," -- it's purple and spangly! I draw the line at simulated balls, basically.
I wish companies like Tantus would make more "nonrealistic" harness-compatible toys; I find the "realistic" ones aren't really all that realistic anyway -- it's not like I'm ever going to find one that actually matches my skin tone.
When you're the one WEARING a strap on, is size important to you? Does your strap on have to be large and in charge? What other features about the look of the dildo are important to you as the wearer? Do you prefer realistic styling and/or color?
I'm really surprised that most people like unrealistic looking ones. If I'm going to be fucked by someone, or if I'm going to fuck someone, I want the thing being inserted to look like a real dick. Fake plastic colorful dildos, for me, are only okay for masturbation. If I'm fucking or being fucked, I want the object to look like it could possibly be part of their body or my body, not like it's just a toy. In general, I don't see the point in playing around with a toy when there's a real live person who's body I could be playing with.
When you're the one WEARING a strap on, is size important to you? Does your strap on have to be large and in charge? What other features about the look of the dildo are important to you as the wearer? Do you prefer realistic styling and/or color?
I don't like ones that look realistic and neither does my girlfriend. We both think penises are kind of... gross. But as far as size goes, I really only care about her preference. I want her to feel amazing.
When you're the one WEARING a strap on, is size important to you? Does your strap on have to be large and in charge? What other features about the look of the dildo are important to you as the wearer? Do you prefer realistic styling and/or color?
I like to have a variety to choose from, it keeps things from getting monotonous. I especially love dildos with vibes in them, though.
When you're the one WEARING a strap on, is size important to you? Does your strap on have to be large and in charge? What other features about the look of the dildo are important to you as the wearer? Do you prefer realistic styling and/or color?
Woops! I wasn't aware of the fact that I had already answered this a few weeks ago lmfao. My memory is so shit.
I do NOT like them to be realistic, and the smaller the better. Penises gross me out a bit, so anything realistic looking makes me feel weird. I do prefer a bit of a curve.
When you're the one WEARING a strap on, is size important to you? Does your strap on have to be large and in charge? What other features about the look of the dildo are important to you as the wearer? Do you prefer realistic styling and/or color?
Anything goes pretty much, size is up to whoever is receiving or whatever we both decide on