Lesbians and strap-ons

Charletnarouh Charletnarouh
When you're the one WEARING a strap on, is size important to you? Does your strap on have to be large and in charge? What other features about the look of the dildo are important to you as the wearer? Do you prefer realistic styling and/or color?
Feb 14, 3:39 am
lcl169 lcl169
Quote:
Originally posted by Charletnarouh
When you're the one WEARING a strap on, is size important to you? Does your strap on have to be large and in charge? What other features about the look of the dildo are important to you as the wearer? Do you prefer realistic styling and/or color?
it depends on the partner and her preferences... i dont care how large it is, but i personally prefer it not to look realistic.
Feb 15, 8:29 pm
nori nori
I prefer the more pretty colored. but I'm female bodied, and female identified. So It's a toy, not /me/.
Feb 15, 9:11 pm
PirateofPenance PirateofPenance
I don't like 'em too realistic--no veins, definitely.
Feb 16, 11:09 pm
Gingy Gingy
Don't like realistic at all! and as for size I just find the length important the longer it is usually the easier it is to try different positions.
Feb 17, 3:34 pm
Vanille Vanille
We don't like ours to be realistic. Ewe. I'm also not looking to be 'wreaked' so we have to make sure the length/width is something my body can handle comfortably.
Feb 17, 3:53 pm
xGOLDx xGOLDx
I'd rather they not be too realistic, mainly just because penises are ugly. As for size, obviously has to be comfortable to use, but there is something about having a big toy that just makes you feel powerful and dominating.
Feb 18, 11:35 pm
Charletnarouh Charletnarouh
This is interesting as multiple past partners of mine were insulted by the size of what I wanted them to use (around 5" length and less than 1.5" diameter). I'm small and can't take very much. But they were too embarrassed to wear a small dildo in the harness.
Feb 19, 4:26 pm
xGOLDx xGOLDx
For toys on me they need to be really slim, since I'm quite small, but I've never had a partner complain about wearing a small toy. I think you've got some lame ex's is all
Feb 19, 9:00 pm
Charletnarouh Charletnarouh
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Originally posted by xGOLDx
For toys on me they need to be really slim, since I'm quite small, but I've never had a partner complain about wearing a small toy. I think you've got some lame ex's is all
That I've had some shitty exes cannot be doubted. Some were pretty awful. I was just curious how typical or atypical they were in regards to this particular preference since I've encountered it numerous times.
Feb 20, 5:18 pm
CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
I prefer not realistic looking and size is whatever is comfotable for all parties. I do kinda think larger is hot for aesthetics, but not necessary!
Feb 22, 12:55 pm
Drapetomaniacal Drapetomaniacal
I think of the dildo as an accessory (not an extension of myself) so I like them to be a crazy color and I search high and low for ones I like. As for size, I could care less... which ever pleases my partner pleases me, however I tend to have partners who are experienced, lets say, and so i usually have a nice sized dildo, probably like 7 inches.
Feb 23, 7:28 pm
PirateofPenance PirateofPenance
I like unrealistic.
Feb 24, 2:50 pm
LilyLloyd LilyLloyd
I, too, prefer unrealistic ones; my past favorites are the Fun Factory Magnum (a kind of sleek, modernistic marbled thing) and the Tantus Vamp, which I call my "disco cock," -- it's purple and spangly! I draw the line at simulated balls, basically.

I wish companies like Tantus would make more "nonrealistic" harness-compatible toys; I find the "realistic" ones aren't really all that realistic anyway -- it's not like I'm ever going to find one that actually matches my skin tone.
Feb 24, 5:31 pm
Bzz Bzz
I refuse to get any that are too realistic and realistic colors. and no balls, ever!
Feb 24, 9:29 pm
LadyM LadyM
Quote:
Originally posted by Charletnarouh
When you're the one WEARING a strap on, is size important to you? Does your strap on have to be large and in charge? What other features about the look of the dildo are important to you as the wearer? Do you prefer realistic styling and/or color?
I'm really surprised that most people like unrealistic looking ones. If I'm going to be fucked by someone, or if I'm going to fuck someone, I want the thing being inserted to look like a real dick. Fake plastic colorful dildos, for me, are only okay for masturbation. If I'm fucking or being fucked, I want the object to look like it could possibly be part of their body or my body, not like it's just a toy. In general, I don't see the point in playing around with a toy when there's a real live person who's body I could be playing with.
Feb 25, 2:46 pm
lzbncrckhead lzbncrckhead
Quote:
Originally posted by Charletnarouh
When you're the one WEARING a strap on, is size important to you? Does your strap on have to be large and in charge? What other features about the look of the dildo are important to you as the wearer? Do you prefer realistic styling and/or color?
i just want it to be what she likes
Feb 28, 11:06 pm
LeeBee LeeBee
I don't like ones that look realistic and neither does my girlfriend. We both think penises are kind of... gross. But as far as size goes, I really only care about her preference. I want her to feel amazing.
Mar 1, 3:02 am
Caus Caus
I'm not really pressed for size. I just one something stylish and comfortable. I'm not for realistic looking ones.
Mar 16, 3:53 pm
Mia.The.Wonder.Slut Mia.The.Wonder.Slut
Quote:
Originally posted by Charletnarouh
When you're the one WEARING a strap on, is size important to you? Does your strap on have to be large and in charge? What other features about the look of the dildo are important to you as the wearer? Do you prefer realistic styling and/or color?
I like to have a variety to choose from, it keeps things from getting monotonous. I especially love dildos with vibes in them, though.
Mar 17, 11:48 pm
Caus Caus
Quote:
Originally posted by Charletnarouh
When you're the one WEARING a strap on, is size important to you? Does your strap on have to be large and in charge? What other features about the look of the dildo are important to you as the wearer? Do you prefer realistic styling and/or color?
Woops! I wasn't aware of the fact that I had already answered this a few weeks ago lmfao. My memory is so shit.
Mar 29, 11:55 am
asyouwsh asyouwsh
I do NOT like them to be realistic, and the smaller the better. Penises gross me out a bit, so anything realistic looking makes me feel weird. I do prefer a bit of a curve.
Apr 1, 7:48 pm
SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
No preference. Whatever the receiver enjoys.
Apr 9, 1:00 am
SummerICE SummerICE
Quote:
Originally posted by Charletnarouh
When you're the one WEARING a strap on, is size important to you? Does your strap on have to be large and in charge? What other features about the look of the dildo are important to you as the wearer? Do you prefer realistic styling and/or color?
Anything goes pretty much, size is up to whoever is receiving or whatever we both decide on
Apr 9, 1:59 am
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